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Bre Scullark- "My Hair Is Not a Trend."

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Before it was trendy, before it became this “new phenomenon” it was and still is, who I am. My natural hair is so much more than a breakthrough in chemically processed and damaged hair. My natural hair is so much more than just a liberating experience from the monotony of long body wave weaves and sleek flat ironed hair. My natural hair is a composition of my life’s journey on redefining the value of spiritual beauty.

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For many, the process of becoming natural is new and exciting! There are so many communities that are ready and willing to embrace these newbies.

Having been natural almost my entire life, I can openly admit that being natural was just as apart of me as the pigment of my skin. There was no separation between the texture of my hair and the skin on my bones. We just were. It wasn’t until I underwent two big chops involuntarily that I hit an emotional bottom. I can clearly remember looking at myself in the mirror and feeling so displeased with my reflection. I was no longer a beautiful conventional commercial/print model. I had absolutely no idea how to view myself. I spent three years repairing my thoughts on beauty and my spiritual connection to authentic happiness. It was in this bottom that many young men and women whom had relatable testimonies carried me. I received emails, text messages, and phone calls from people who had walked this journey of finding joy from deep down in an untouchable place called soul. This small community saved me from drowning in the world’s -and my own- ancient perception of beauty. I cannot thank them enough.

Finally, mainstream is recognizing vast ideals of beauty. We no longer have to suffer in front of our television as hundreds of un-relatable characters prance in front of us. Now more than ever, people with stories similar to ours are more accessible. In the midst of this enormous change, it is so important to distinguish evolution from fickle trends. Trends come as quickly as they go. It would be counterproductive to have educated and dissected our transformation in front of so many just to have it floating in the wind two years from now. In honor of all the young men and women who were isolated and made fun of back in the day’ because their hair swiveled and swirled from their scalp, we owe it to them to enlighten others on how beautiful and self satisfying it is to enjoy one’s authentic being. The journey of becoming natural without ulterior motive is something like a spiritual awakening; it is a remarkable discovery without a destination. When the media is on to the next, I encourage you to stay strong and remember why you started in the first place.

With pure hearts and open mindedness, I am beyond grateful of the times we are living in. May we protect and nurture this evolution to the next.

Enjoy your natural journey!

CN Says-
Check out my interview with Bre, HERE. 

#NaturalMoment Monday!

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 It's #NaturalMoment Mondays!
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(Hair) Lessons Learned 2013

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by Shelli of Hairscapades.com 

A couple of weeks ago, Michelle of Radiant Brown Beauty did this post about what she discovered about her natural hair in 2013. I had been thinking about doing something similar and her post was the incentive I needed to write down my (hair) lessons learned.

As she said, these are things I learned about MY hair and may not apply to others. But, they are things that I found helped improve my hair and will hopefully allow it to get better in 2014.

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So, here is what I learned in 2013.
  1. Inadequate consumption of water and dehydration is not only bad for the body/skin, but it can cause excessive hair breakage and shedding too. I had a bout of bad breakage last winter all over my head and I believe it was very much related to my unhealthy diet, lack of exercise, excess caffeine, and insufficient water consumption. My hair is recovering and regrowing, but the breakage was bad, creating a fuzzy halo of “flyaway” hair over my entire head. So, I try to make certain I get at least 48 ounces of water a day to ensure that I’m hydrated from the inside out. (Note: I’ll be doing a post on this topic soon!)
  2. My hair does better with wet detangling only. I lose a lot less hair and am able to detangle just fine without thoroughly finger detangling during a dry pre-poo. When I pre-poo now, I just smooth and smush the oil/conditioner down my hair with some minimal separation to make sure I coat each section.
  3. Using a comb and/or shampoo brush after finger detangling results in a less stressful detangling sessions the following wash day. It also makes for smoother, more defined braid/twist-out sets. So, I reincorporated these tools into my regimen.
  4. My hair LOVES goat milk in styling products and deep conditioner!!! My hair has been rejuvenated by it, especially my ends, which were starting to feel pretty rough. My stubborn crown has softened and become more supple and stronger!! My shedding and breakage have been drastically reduced. And finally, the straighter “tail” of my nape that used to hang now holds a curl when I set it on perm rods!! The goat milk DC has replaced Aubrey GPB as my light protein conditioner of choice (note: I also use Joico K-Pak conditioner on wash day, which also provides light protein).
  5. Cosmetic grade aloe vera gel works great for setting my hair in twist/braid outs and for smoothing/setting my edges. It provides flexible hold and softness without product build-up. (I think this gel began to work well for me because my hair started behaving so well once I incorporated goat milk products into my regimen).
  6. The braid n’ twist n’ curl is my new go to style because the braids keep my roots smooth, but the twists gives me the fullness I desire. As the braid at the roots result in three sections once the set is released, I don’t need to separate my hair any futher to get fullness, which also means less manipulation and frizz. Also, the BnTnC dries more quickly than a braid out.
And that’s what I learned about my natural hair in 2013. Here’s to better hair in 2014! Onward and upward my friends!!
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What did you learn about your hair’s likes and dislikes in 2013?

Ebony's Length Secrets- Natural Hair Care!

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 Ebony Clark, also known as EClark6, is one of the most inspiring naturalistas on the Net! As a long-time follower and admirer I was super duper excited--giddy, really--to interview her! Her natural hair journey is definitely a source of inspiration for literally thousands of women and her humble spirit is so welcoming you can't help but to love her! Take a look at how personal her hair journey was to her and how important positive energy is to her success.

1. Introduce yourself!
My name is Ebony, and live in Norcross, GA! I'm a writer, an artist, super nerd, chronic researcher, I'm blown away by God's creations, and I adore animals.

2. How long have you been natural?
When I was a sophomore in college (1998), I met a freshmen that had already been wearing her hair natural for about a year. Her strength and pride in her hair lit a flame within me! It made me wonder why I was still getting touch ups! I started to become cognizant of women of other races and the role their hair played in their lives. It made me wonder why black women, in general, were so enslaved by relaxers.

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It took me about a year or two to actually cut my hair, but I did it with only 3-4 months of new growth. I LOVED it!...It was that dreaded "in between" phase that brought it all to a halt. It wasn't long and it wasn't short and cute anymore, so I relaxed it again. I immediately regretted it!

Fast forward to 2005...There was a shift in my spiritual walk, which made me want to show God how much I appreciated His creation, as is! So, in March 2005, I decided that I wasn't relaxing my hair anymore. It was apart of my journey to becoming more organic, as a person, overall.
After a year of transitioning, I wore curly styles such as rods, roller sets, twist outs, etc. to keep my hair from breaking and to keep my sanity! With time, it became harder to deal with the two textures, so I knew I couldn't go longer than a year.

When the time came to cut it, I cried like a baby! I have no idea why because the first time I big chopped, my hair was much shorter and I didn't shed a tear. That year put me right back at the in between phase that I ran from the first time! Ironic, isn't it?


3. What's your daily hair routine?
In the morning, I unwrap it, moisturize, and go.

4. What are your favorite products?
My favorite products vary, but the basics are anything by Qhemet Biologics, Camille Rose Naturals Curl Love Moisture Milk, Alikay Naturals Lemongrass Leave-In, Koils by Nature Shealoe Leave-In, and Giovanni's Direct Leave-In.

5. What's your nighttime routine?
If I'm wearing a wash n go, I put my hair in a pineapple. If I'm wearing two strand twists, or a protective style, I add moisturizer to my ends and wrap my hair with a satin scarf. With a twist out I moisturize my ends, add jumbo twists, and then wrap.

6. How did you get your hair color and how do you maintain it?
I have a little cosmetology experience, so I added a few highlights around my face. I amp up the hydration! I sit under my steamer every week, instead of every two weeks now. Also I deep condition more often as well.

7. Do you ever get tired of curly hair?
I do get bored with my curls...most of the time! I think it's just because my hair is longer and heavier now, and my curls don't fall the same. They're not as springy as they were when my hair was shorter. That's why I keep my hair in twists or twist outs, and there's that once a year period when I flat iron it.


8. On your Instagram you inspire women and teach them to be patient when it comes to hair growth. What are some of your most cherished lessons learned on your hair journey so far?
I've learned that no matter what works for someone else, you must learn what works for you and your hair! Patience is the main ingredient in everything.

9. When did you start blogging?
I became involved with social media around 2005 or 2006, I believe. It's starting to be a blur! LOL! My first experience was having a fotki album!

10. How did you become a successful blogger?
I've never thought of myself as a "successful" blogger/vlogger! I especially don't really think I'm a guru! I'll just say I try to remain true to myself through and through! Also, I take the time to deposit positivity in others' lives whenever there's an opportunity.


11. What do you like most about blogging/vlogging?
I love inspiring people, and helping them along their journeys---whichever journey that may be!

12. What do you want to do beyond YouTube?
I want to be a spokesperson for one of my favorite hair care or skin care brands, write children's books, and be an inventor of extraordinary things!

13. Do you have any advice for new natural hair bloggers?
When I started blogging/vlogging, I didn't really have any expectations. It was just an outlet for me, but I also wanted to inspire and encourage others just by being myself. If I had to give anyone advice I'd say, be yourself, be respectful, and don't say anything to anyone that you'd be ashamed for your mother to read or watch. Also, please realize that not everyone will be nice, but that doesn't mean that you have to give them your energy! Most importantly, always strive to be the highest and best version of yourself.

14. Any upcoming projects/events you'd like to tell us about?
I'm re-launching my blog early this year! To receive a notification of when it launches, sign up at www.cultchure.com!

Get more coily inspiration from Ebony on Instagram& YouTube, both @EClark6

Homemade, All-Natural Pomade for Natural Hair

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Hey Beauties!

It's Tipsy Tuesday and this one's for the mixtresses- homemade all-natural hair pomade for popping waves!

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This is super easy to make and only requires a few ingredients. Here we go...

What you'll need:
2 oz. castor oil
2 oz. coconut oil
1 oz. beeswax
a sterilized container
a double boiler

What to do:
First, sterilize your container and lid with rubbing alcohol and set it aside. Then, prepare your double boiler. If you don't own a double boiler, make one! Put a small pot on the stove with about an inch of water, then place a heat-safe bowl in the pot. Use a bowl big enough to rest in there without touching the water at the bottom.

Next, melt an ounce of beeswax in the bowl. I use Frontier Natural white beeswax beads from iHerb.com. Once the beeswax has melted completely, add your castor and coconut oils...throw in some essential oils too if you like. Heat through and stir to the bottom of the bowl. Before it starts to set, transfer the warm pomade to your sterilized container and pop it in the freezer uncovered to cool. If it cools down gradually you'll get granules in your pomade and you'll have to warm and emulsify longer before applying. Letting it set up quickly keeps it smooth.

That's it!...easy right? If you like Oyin Handmade sugar pomades, you'll LOVE this one! The two are extremely comparable in appearance, texture and performance. In fact...to stretch my Oyin, I just add a tablespoon of Burnt Sugar Pomade to the bowl to melt down with the other two oils. You get the smell you love and basically the same product at a fraction of the cost. This one is a staple in our house...my husband loves this stuff for maintaining his natural waves. I hope guys like it too!

Anyone else make homemade pomade?Share below!

Teshia is Naturally Glam!

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My name is Teshia. I am a 27 year old single mom of a beautiful 6 year old girl. I was a military brat, so I can't really pinpoint where I'm from, but I was born in Arkansas and pretty much raised all over. I currently live in Fayetteville, Arkansas (Home of the Razorbacks). I've been here for almost 5 years. I work for a Case Management company that specializes in helping people with disabilities be more a part of the community.

How long have you been natural?
I have been natural for 1 year and 5 months

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What motivated you to go Natural? Were you a transitioner or a Big Chop & why?My motivation to go back natural was the fact that my hair was really damaged and was constantly breaking off. I literally hated my hair. My daughter has been natural all of her life, so at the time I was taking care of her hair pretty much the same way I took care of mine. Going natural helped me to further educate myself on how to properly take care of my hair, but moreso how to take care of my daughter's hair as well. I transitioned for 4 months wearing wigs and then I big chopped. I just could not deal with the two textures. After I big chopped I went back to wearing wigs until my hair was long enough to braid.



How would you describe your hair?
Right now, I would describe my hair as thick and full. I would say my hair falls into the 4a/4b category. It needs to be moisturized daily/every other day. After a wash, my shrinkage is almost half of my actual length.

What has been the most memorable part of your journey? Has it been easy or difficult or both?
I think the most memorable part of my journey was when I actually saw that my hair was growing. When my hair was relaxed I couldn't see growth. Now every month I see growth. It's amazing.

What do you love most about your hair?
The thing I love most about my hair is that it's ALL me. When I was relaxed I kind of blended in and I was super shy. Now I really stand out. My hair is fun, beautiful, and different. As Tracey Ellis Ross said, "I was shy, but it came out in a big personality. My turning point of when I let my hair go naturally." I'm still shy, but I'm much more confident then I use to be.



What are some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles or current hairdos?
Crochet style hairstyles are my favorite protective style! I also love twists and wigs. My usual go-to style is the puff.


What have your experiences been as a "natural'? Any memorable reactions from family or others?
This past year has been awesome. I have truly gotten to know my hair. I am still learning, but I am really loving the "true me." So far I have had good reactions. I get asked, "Is that all your hair?" Or "Can I touch your hair?" Now that I have a little more length it is easy for me to find styles that fit me.

What is your hair regimen (including fav products)?
I cowash every week, mostly Saturday evening or Sunday evening. Once or twice a month I shampoo. I LOVE Shea Mositure products and Curls Unleashed. I added Rosemary, Jamacian Black Castor Oil, and Coconut Oil to my African shea butter mix, which i use when I do most of my styles.



What are some of your favorite Natural hair websites, Youtubers, or blogs?
I love www.CurlyNikki.com Instagram: @luvurmane, @Curlbox Youtube: BlakIzBeautyful, CoilyHeadChick, backsyncfan, curlsbygrace, MissCinnamonCake, Naptural85, Nikkimae2003, iknowlee I LOVE YOUTUBE :)

Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
I just want everyone to know that your Natural hair journey is just that...YOURS!! Don't get caught up in comparing your hair to others. What works for one person may not work for you. You are all unique, so find what works for you, and that's okay. It's okay to try to a style that you see on youtube or on a website, just make it your own. Add your own flare to it. Be creative. Be YOU!!!

Where can people find you for more information?
Instagram: teshluvsu Twitter: @misstesh04
Best the Best YOU, YOU can Be!! -Teshia



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Bentonite Clay Cleanse for Natural Hair- Homemade Products!

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Bentonite clay, an impure mud discovered in Rock River, Wyoming, was once thought to have healing powers. In addition to medicinal purposes, this mud attracts impurities like toxins, bacteria, and viruses, and draws them out of hair. For CurlyNikki's experiences with bentonite clay, click HERE.

Blogger HippieChicChick shared her recipe for a simple bentonite clay hair cleanser.

What You'll Need
Bentonite Clay (found in vitamin stores or here on Amazon)
Apple Cider Vinegar
Aloe Vera Juice (optional)

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Directions

  1. Combine Bentonite Clay and equal parts Apple Cider Vinegar( and/ or ) Aloe Vera Juice, and a few drops of essential oils of your choice ( I like to add lavender, sweet orange, and rosemary). Mix to the consistency of batter. Be sure to only use plastic or wooden utensils when mixing, as the metal will lessen the effect of the clay. Each batch will vary from person to person, mix enough ingredients to cover the thickness and length for your hair.
  2. Section hair in 4-6 sections( this helps to ensure all of my strands get attention) and apply mixture to damp unclean hair.
  3. Allow the mixture to sit on the hair for 15-20 minutes (apply a plastic conditioning cap so mixture does not dry).
  4. Massage mixture into hair (one section at a time) gently pulling downward on strands smoothing the cuticle for about 2 minutes.
  5. Rinse mixture with lukewarm water until all clay is rinsed from the hair. It is important to rinse thoroughly! If clay is left on the hair it will continue to work and cause hair to become dry.
  6. Follow up this process with a deep conditioner, seal in moisture, and style as usual. 

 What cool hair and skin recipes do you have? 

Elasticity and Healthy Natural Hair

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by Tonya McKay via NaturallyCurly.com

One of the primary indicators of the health of your hair is its elasticity. Healthy hair has a high level of elasticity, which gives it body, bounce and curl formation. Elasticity makes it possible to style hair and also is responsible for curl retention. But what exactly does the term elasticity mean? We know it has to do with the stretchiness of our hair, and we know it is a desirable property, but it may not be entirely clear what it is.

Also, what contributes to elasticity of hair, and how can we maintain or improve the quality in our own locks? These are important questions, and as always, much insight can be gleaned by an examination of the fundamental principles as well as the molecular structures that make up the hair.


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What Does Elasticity Mean?
Elasticity is a term used to describe how a material responds to the application and removal of a specific type of mechanical load (pulling and/or bending). When a stress (force per unit area) is applied to a material, it stretches a certain amount beyond is original length. This deformation is dependent upon the stiffness or rigidity of the material. The ratio of applied stress to the amount of deformation/elongation that occurs is called the elastic (or Young’s) modulus.

Rigid materials, such as iron, stretch very little with an applied force, while other materials, such as synthetic rubber, can stretch many times their original length without breaking. Dry hair can stretch to approximately 1.2 – 1.3 times its original length and still return to its dimensions, while wet hair is less rigid than dry hair and can stretch up to 1.5 times its length. Curly hair can stretch even than straight hair, as it is highly coiled in its relaxed state.

A material is said to exhibit elastic behavior if it returns to its previous shape and size once an applied force is removed. This is called reversible deformation. Simple materials such as elemental metals typically display purely elastic behavior. These tend to stretch to a certain point and then experience sudden fracture if the stress is not removed. Materials such as these are described as being brittle.
More complicated materials such as polymers, proteins, biomaterials and some inorganic amorphous solids exhibit elastic behavior until a certain stress is exceeded (yield strength). Beyond this point, less force is required to induce further deformation, and the material is unable to recover its size and shape once the load is removed. This phenomenon is referred to as irreversible deformation, plastic deformation, or permanent set. The applied force causes something to change inside the substance at a molecular level that causes it to become fundamentally different in its physical structure. The change can be a rearrangement of crystalline lattice structure from one type to another, shifting or slippage of molecular alignment in an amorphous or semi-crystalline material, change of protein tertiary structure, or breaking of bonds in polymeric compounds. Materials with this property are referred to as being ductile or having greater toughness than brittle substances.

Plastic deformation is particularly relevant to the health hair and its appearance. If excessive force is used to style or comb hair, the yield strength can easily be exceeded, and the hair can no longer bounce back when it is pulled out of shape. This can adversely affect its ability to hold a style or retain curl and can result in shapeless, frizzy hair.

Additionally, special caution should be taken with wet hair. Hair saturated with water is fragile and can stretch much more easily than when it is dry. It is very easy to exceed the yield strength when hair is wet and permanently diminish its elasticity, or even cause breakage. For this reason, it is crucial to use extreme care when handling and combing wet hair. The use of a good conditioner helps protect wet hair from plastic deformation by decreasing combing forces (less force is required to get the comb through tangles).


What Affects Hair Elasticity?
The interior of the hair shaft, the cortex, is the portion of the hair structure that carries the bulk of an applied load and contributes most significantly to elasticity. Although it is very important, the cuticle is only significant in this regard for its role in guarding the integrity of the inner shaft of the hair.
The cortex is an elaborate structure of clusters of fibrils of keratin protein embedded within a matrix with high water content. The individual molecules of keratin are in the alpha-helical conformation. There are many different inter- and intramolecular interactions and bonds that occur both between amino acids on the same protein strand, amino acids on adjacent protein chains, and between proteins and water molecules within the matrix.

Hydrogen bonds are weak physical bonds that occur between aqueous hydrogen and amino acid nitrogen and oxygen atoms. These interactions are easily formed and broken and are responsible for a large portion of the elastic behavior of hair. For this reason, it is very important to maintain a proper amount of moisture inside the hair shaft. Without adequate hydration, hydrogen bonding will be decreased, which adversely affects elasticity of hair strands.

Salt bonds are weak physical interactions that occur between amino acids and require hair to be maintained at an optimum pH. Cystine bonds, also known as disulfide bonds, are chemical bonds which impart a high degree of elasticity to hair by providing crosslinks between different amino acids on a single protein fiber and also between protein strands. All of these various types of bonds act to hold strands of protein together and allow them to stretch just so far and to snap back into their original shape.

Another factor that influences the elasticity of hair is its diameter. Hair of smaller diameter cannot withstand the same forces as hair of thicker diameter. Remember, stress = force per unit area, so thinner hair experiences greater stresses at the same forces. This means that those with finer hair may have more trouble with their hair losing curl, not holding styles, and developing frizz and breakage. African hair typically has the smallest diameter, with Caucasian hair having medium diameter, and Asian hair having the thickest diameter. There is no known way to overcome this, so one must take care to treat fine hair with the same care one would afford your most precious cashmere sweater.


How to Improve Hair Elasticity
We have learned that hair elasticity is heavily dependent upon two key factors: 1.) hydrogen bonding between water molecules and keratin strands and 2). disulfide bonds between adjacent cystine amino acid groups, both of which are dependent upon preservation of the protein structure and hydration of the cortex. The best approach to ensure excellent elasticity is to maintain an intact protein structure inside the cortex and an adequate level of hydration.

In an ideal world, prevention of damage to the cortex protein structure is achieved by maintaining a pristine cuticle layer, avoiding high temperature treatments and processes, avoiding chemical processes such as color, permanent waves and relaxers, minimizing UV exposure, limiting hygral fatigue (excessive water exposure), and using only the most gentle mechanical forces for combing and styling. Of course, we don’t live in an ideal world, so most people will experience varying levels of degradation of the internal protein structure of their hair, accompanied by a gradual deterioration of the desirable elastic properties. Minimizing exposure to destructive processes and frequent trims helps defray damage, as does use of a good deep conditioner and gentle treatment of hair at all times.

The use of protein treatments and protein-containing conditioners is often recommended to help improve or restore elasticity. This approach can be useful for those who do have damaged proteins in the cuticle structure or within the hair shaft. Hydrolyzed proteins in these products are in amino-acid form and lower molecular weight poly-peptide form, and can penetrate the cortex. They are retained there in subsequent washings and can contribute to hair strength and integrity to some extent, preserving the tendency for elastic, reversible deformations at low stresses. However, it is most likely that these materials act only as a patch over a hole rather than actually assimilating themselves into the protein strand and fibrillar structure. One word of caution about these types of treatments is that they can potentially contribute to brittle behavior (breakage) if used in excess or if the hair already has sufficient protein content.

For a substance that seems mostly decorative, hair never ceases to amaze me in its complexity. The intricacies of this biopolymeric composite are simply amazing. The elastic properties of healthy hair can serve us well and allow for much versatility in our coiffure, if proper care is taken to keep hair in the best shape possible.

"I AM My Hair"

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by Jess of HeyGorjess.com

Okay — so listen for one second before you unfollow/block me or whatever already for the title of this post because I know it is against the “natural hair code of ethics.” (Which was written by who you might ask? I’m not sure.) But I am about to go on a little rant right now because I am just tired of all of this talk saying “I am not my hair, my hair doesn’t define me, I am going to go bald because I don’t want my hair to be who I am, blah blah blah.” There are many people who have said this but it has gotten to the point now where I want to voice my opinion. (Also please keep in mind I am in no way trying to offend anyone who may have a disease such as cancer or alopecia or anything. I am just trying to make a point.)

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First off — technically yes, I AM my hair. It grows out of my head and so it is just as much of my body as any other part of my body is. So if I am not my hair then does that mean I could cut off my arm too? Cause uhm, I’m pretty sure that it’s apart of me too. Really.

I truly believe that hair is a beautiful asset of a woman. Men typically have short hair– and women typically have longer hair than men. Typically. Cause yes there are many women who look STUNNING with short hair/fades. I think they look even better with short hair because it accentuates their natural beauty. And if you want to go that route because of your personal preference — I totally support that! But lets be real we are all not Amber Rose and if I go bald I’m gonna be looking like a baby alien! (Yes, a baby alien– cause I might still be a little cute– I think. lol). So I am not going to stop wearing my hair out or cutting it because “I don’t want to be my hair anymore.”

I also think this makes us take a few steps backwards if you ask me. We finally got over relaxers, and now we have to get over being natural? So we have come with the next best solution — no hair!!! *Straight face*. Can we ever win??

And for you beautiful women of God reading this who believe that having/flaunting/taking pictures of hair makes you vain or pretentious– the bible says “–a woman, her beautiful hair reminiscent of angels” 1 Corinthians 11:15 (MSG) and the NIV translation says “if a woman has long hair it is her glory. For long hair is given to her as a covering.”

So I understand if you might have an issue comparing your hair to other women and wanting to have their texture and/or length, or caring about your appearance more than your character– but I don’t think that calls for you to disown your hair completely. If that’s the case that won’t even get to the root of the issue. You are just burrying the problem (which is envy and insecurity) and not addressing it and fixing it. I’ve struggled with both of these issues and if I’m not careful I can end up feeling that way again too. But I have to remind myself that I am “fearfully and wonderfully made” and that “my confidence is in Christ.”

I don’t post pictures of my hair or wear it out just to show it off and flaunt how curly it is. I post it because until 7 years ago I hated my hair. Actually– even when I went natural I still hated it for awhile. I grew up wanting stick straight, silky hair like the white girls at school — or at least blonde loose curls like my beautiful mom who I always did and still admire. I was insecure and thought that people with straighter, finer hair were better and more beautiful than me. And now even my beautiful 5 year old niece sometimes says things like “No one has hair like me.” or “I want my hair smooth” and sometimes wears a blanket over her head to pretend it is long, flowly hair (lol does anyone else remember doing that? I used to all the time LOL). But my sister and I constantly remind her and tell her “Gianna your hair is beautiful! LOOK! Me and mommy have hair just like yours!”

I have finally embraced my natural texture and I want everyone else to too. I want people of all textures whether you are 1A or 4C to love what they were born with and embrace it just as much as you embrace your height, body shape, or whatever your other favorite attributes are. I love when I get emails from people saying how much I inspire them to embrace their natural texture, length, and stage of their journey.

If anything, I think the natural hair movement has brought more women together and has caused us to uplift each other and genuinely acknowledge each other’s beauty. I’ve never received this much affirmation, love, and encouragement from other women in my life. It was alway battles, jealousy, and tearing down of one another. I love how our hair has finally started to bring us together, and there is great beauty in that.

Oh–and I am not saying there is never a time where I am feeling myself too much– not at all. Because I am human and I am not perfect– WE ALL make mistakes ! We all have issues! But lets please please PLEASE-- make life easier for everyone. Wear your hair HOW you want it. Whether it’s relaxed, weaves, natural, curly, long, short–whatever. Take your selfies if you want (not too many though because that’s just plain annoying. I don’t care if you’re Halle Berry– I would like to see the rest of my timeline please). And have FUN. Beauty is fun. That’s why we are girls. Us women like to get dressed up, put on our makeup and be girly, and men like to play video games and watch football all day or whatever *borrrringgg*. Its okayyy!!! It’s not that deep ladies.

Weigh in!

Morgan's Natural Hair Journey- "At 13, I went through chemo and lost all of my hair"

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Morgan writes:

I was really hoping this would be an inspiration to some of the naturals out there! When I was 13, I lost all of my hair due to chemo therapy and have now gone from bald to BSL (which through ups and downs, I've been able to keep to this day)! I just want to encourage people to not give up when things don't particularly go as planned. There's always a way to keep moving on :)

Here's my video!


Girl Code's Nicole Byer- Exclusive Natural Hair Interview

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After last weeks' post, I caught up with MTV's Nicole Byer to chat about her hair story and advice for women thinking of making the transition.  She is just as sweet and HILARIOUS as she is on TV.  Enjoy!

CN: How long have you been natural?
NB: I've been natural on and off since 2008 and have Big Chopped 4 times. Well, wait, what is the definition of a Big Chop?

For some reason there's a lot of debate in the space about that.  But in my opinion, it's when you chop off a significant amount of hair, relaxed or not. 
So yeah, I Big Chopped 4 times.  I had a natural mohawk with shaved sides for a while and then wore the Rihanna style by adding weave to the middle.  After I got tired of that, I shaved off the middle.  When that grew out a little, I bleached my natural hair 4 times in one night because I wanted it white.  Ruin. My hair fell out and I big chopped again.  Now it's natural but I only wear it out in the summer when it's hot. During the year I keep it in a protective style- wigs or weaves.  I wear lace front closures (sewn in) with my hair braided down underneath.

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How do you maintain your natural hair while it's hidden away in protective styles? 
I give myself one week in between weave installs so that my hair can breathe and live a little.  I wash it, deep condition it and get my ends clipped as necessary.  You're not supposed to put product in it before the weave because it builds up and makes things heavy.  So you have to figure out what kind of sprays work for your hair that are light but keep your hair moisturized.

I've learned that natural hair is a lot of trial and error...you have to keep trying new ish to see what works for you.  What works for someone else may not work for you. Some days water works so well for my hair and like my hair is happy to have water in it, and then other days it's like, 'no, why did you do that?!'

Any advice for folks thinking of going natural? Especially those that may be hesitant or worried about what others will think. 
You should just do it.  Why not?!  I went natural because relaxers were just annoying.  It would hurt and my scalp would scab over, so if you're dealing with anything like that, just say f' it and go for it! Don't think about other people! Don't think about what family will say, they'll love you anyway and get over it.  They'll just want to talk about it a lot!  The only thing you may have to consider is your work environment.  Like if you work in a predominately White office, you may have to succumb to styles that are more 'traditional', like mainstream ish.  It's such a strange thing to say that the hair that grows out of your head is unprofessional.

It's tragic.  Have you ever wore your natural hair on GirlCode?
I actually took off my wig on one episode.  The reason why I'm not planning to going forward is if you keep changing your hair, it makes it hard for people to recognize you. I wear the curly wig so there is that level of recognition.  I can change what I look like in my life but when I film things, I braid the weave and put the wig on, on top of it.  So sometimes I have three layers of hair on my head!

Three layers of hair?! Well damn! Any new projects you'd like to share? 
I'm auditioning for new stuff all the time.  The second half of this season of Girl Code premiers next week.  Also, I'm going to the Grammys on Sunday and co-hosting MTV's Red Carpet, so that should be a lot of fun.


Keep up with Nicole Byer on MTV's Girl Code and on Twitter @nicolebyer!

'The Beautiful Disruption' (and a giveaway!)

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She had a premature knowledge of crisis.
Her childhood was shaped by chaos and love.
Adored and overprotected, she was taught to study, fear God and be quiet.
Her mother heard voices that no one else could hear and saw things that no one else could see.
After a while, her mother’s instability accumulated and overlapped until there was no way to see past it.
No one addressed it.
Self-appointed, she was the one who minded the gaps.
Cleaned up the messes.
Apologized.
Got lost in managing her mother’s extremes.
She felt responsible for her mother’s behavior and handily designed her existence to compensate for it.
She wanted people to feel comfortable all the time, even at her own expense.
Being a pleaser gave her a purpose, a reason to take up space and be less of a burden.
Something is wrong with me, she decided early on.

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She created a story about a broken girl with a broken mother who would grow up to live a broken life. She chose that fate and lived according to it.
Resentful, but kind.
Polished, but cracked.
Full of secrets, she became a representative character, busy with lies to remember and images to keep up.
An artificial escape, based on what she thought people wanted her to be.
Everything was fragile, hanging on a thread, unhealthy.
This viral depression diminished her.
Dread was always with her, an alarm system in her head, alert to her next disaster.
Despite being resigned to a life of misfortune, she became resourceful.
She grudgingly noticed that things always worked out, even when she claimed defeat.
An inconvenient truth, yet it was right there, in her face, betraying her self-punishments and assumptions.
She kept overcoming things, dammit, aggravating herself.
She still felt so much joy, despite her efforts to be miserable.
Her life was full of miracles and spectacles that she was afraid to rely on so she didn’t know how to enjoy, how to be thankful, without guilt.
She didn’t want to win and she didn’t want to lose.
Ambiguity intrigued her and she found passion in the gaps between hope and despair.

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The Beautiful Disruption is about waking up and changing your story. The main character is a woman in transition. She is tired of doing the same hurtful things, thinking the same painful thoughts—“I’m crazy! I’m not good enough! I have bad luck!”—over and over and over again, unconsciously making her nightmares come true. Finding herself heartbroken and fed up, she decides to change her self-fulfilling prophecy of defeat. You will explore her stream of consciousness and the landscape of her emotions as she seeks to find meaning in her struggles - the intensity, the contradictions and extremes that are hard to accept and harder to love.

The book is available for purchase at www.createspace.com/4483005 and will soon be available on Amazon.com and additional outlets. For updates, follow @ggreneewrites on Twitter and Instagram or on her blog at www.allthemanylayers.com.


**GIVEAWAY!!!**

Hola chicas!  
Want a chance to win a signed copy of GG's new book, 'The Beautiful Disruption'?!  
Below, share what you've gained from GG's contribution to CurlyNikki.com.  Was there a particular article... a particular quote that set your soul on fire?! Share your #GGMoment below for a chance to be eligible to win one of 2 signed copies! We'll randomly select the two winners on Saturday! 

Good luck!  
Nik 

p.s. CONGRATS to the homie GG on her amazing accomplishment! I'm ordering mine today!  #CopThat #MyDailyGlassofWineIsInHonorOfYouBoo #BigThangsPoppin

'If the tutu don't fit, they must acquit!'

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'I solemnly swear I am up to no good'

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*sigh*

We're in Pennsylvania and back to reality. Which means 'struggle' temperatures and re-conditioning the Boog. We're in the throws of undoing the weeks of chocolate milk binges, sugar highs and bedtime skirting that occurred during her holiday visit with her grandparents. Speaking of grandparents, check out Momma Walton! My Mother-in-Law went natural 2 years ago and woke up like dis-


she stopped getting relaxers 21 months ago and transitioned for 9 months before she said 'bye bye' to the straight ends!

Later Gators!
Nik 

Goddess Braid- Medium-Length Natural Hair Style

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Looking to switch up your protective styling game? How about a new professional natural hairstyle?
This is goddess braid doubles as both a chic style and a great protective style for short, medium or long natural hair. MsDanti walks us through the easy steps with her tutorial.

Watch Now!>>>
How to Achieve the Look
  1. Start with blow-dried/stretched hair.
  2. Make a deep side and crown part.
  3. Part the back down the middle
  4. Slick down your edges with a gel like Ecoco Moroccan Argan Oil Styling Gel or As I Am Smoothing Gel.
  5. Distribute hair butter throughout you hair for added shine and protection. We like Roots of Nature Butter Whip Coil Cream.
  6. Start braiding your hair from the parted side to the other side of your hair. Stay close to your edges.
  7. Braid all the way down to the back.
  8. Repeat steps 2 through 7 on the other side.
  9. Cross the two braids in the back and secure them with bobby pins.

Cherrelle is Naturally Glam!

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My name is Cherrelle. I am 28 years old, a wife, and mother of 3 (1 boy and 2 girls). I graduated from Xavier University of Louisiana (BS in Chemistry) and Drexel University School of Public Health (MPH in Environmental and Occupational Health); so I'm kind of a science nerd. I grew up and currently live in New Jersey where I work for the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection. I also write children's books. My first published book, entitled "Feedies", will be released February 11, 2014. My second book is a natural hair children's book that will be released in mid-2014.

How long have you been natural?
I have been natural for about 18 months. I started transitioning in July 2012 and cut my relaxed ends in April 2013. At one point I was addicted to my flat iron. I couldn't leave the house unless ALL of my hair was completely straight. Since April I have only flat ironed my hair once. It felt like it took forever and I didn't really like the outcome. Heat-free is the way to be!



What motivated you to transition? Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper& why?
My daughters were my motivation for transitioning. I've always had long relaxed hair, but when my first daughter was born her hair made me wonder about my own. My only experience with my natural hair was one of painful combing, hot combs, etc. But, my Princess's hair was pretty easy to manage when properly moisturized.


When I found out I was pregnant with my second daughter, I stopped perming my hair. I transitioned because I wasn't quite ready to part with the hair I've had my whole life. While transitioning I would rotate between flat ironing and flexi rods.

When I felt my first spiral of curls under my relaxed hair, I just knew I had to cut my hair. In April 2013 (after much debate) my husband chopped off my relaxed ends; the first time I ever wore my hair short.

How would you describe your hair?
Freshly washed and conditioned: My hair is very shiny and curly.
Once completely dry: my hair is very soft, curly and prone to puffiness and frizziness. The center of my hair is a lot more coarse than the rest of my hair.


What do you love most about your hair?
I love the freedom I feel with my natural hair. When my hair was relaxed, I would stress about a lot of unimportant hair related things. I stuck to a specific routine: perm every 3 months, wash/condition every two weeks, wrap at night, flat iron in the morning, wear bone straight EVERYDAY. Rain and pools were the enemy. I was okay with my scalp being burnt, as long as my hair was straight. With natural hair, I don't have to worry about a lot of these things. I'm especially happy that I freed myself from the price I used to pay to have my hair done at the salon (I always paid extra for having longer hair).

What has been the most memorable part of your journey? Has it been easy or difficult or both?!
This journey has been a mixture of both easy and difficult moments. But, cutting my hair was by far the most memorable moment of my journey. As I mentioned before, I have always worn my hair long and as straight as I could get it. The most exciting thing I ever did to my hair was cut bangs in the front a few years ago. So when I told my family I was going to cut off all of my hair, no one believed me. Actually, I didn't even believe myself because I changed my mind about a thousand times in that one week. So, one day in April I got the nerve (and a pair of scissors) and just chopped off a huge chunk of hair so that I couldn't change my mind again. Shortly after my husband cut the rest into a cute little pixie.

What were some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles?
While transitioning, I loved using flexi rods to curl my hair. But its so easy to quickly get tired of dealing with two textures. Currently, my favorite style is the CurlHawk. Its so easy and works with braidouts, twistouts, Bantu knots, or a wash n go.


What have your experiences been as a ‘natural?’ Any memorable reactions from family or others?
I believe that cutting my hair and going back to natural was one of the best decisions I have made. But, I would be rich if I had a dollar for each time someone said, "Girl! Why did you cut all that pretty hair!" That was all at the very beginning of my journey. Now, I generally only hear positive words; my aunt recently told me that I inspired her to go natural :) There are a lot of people who are curious about natural hair, so its common for me to get caught up in a long natural hair discussion pretty much anywhere (Walmart, hair store, Chuck E Cheese, Church).

What is your hair regimen (including fav products)?
Cowash my hair twice a week with Tresemme Naturals.
Shampoo every two weeks with Pantene Pro-V Relaxed and Natural shampoo.
Deep condition once a month with coconut oil.
Depending on how I feel after I wash and condition my hair, I may two strand twist or braid my hair (for a twist out or braid out in the next morning).
For twist/braid outs I use Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie and Curling Souffle. If I'm feeling a bit lazy I will wash n go using Herbal Essence Hello Hydration of Aussie Moist as my leave in.
*Coconut oil for detangling and deep conditioning
*Jojoba oil as a sealer
*All Shea Moisture products
*Olive Oil Eco Styler gel to lay those edges
I love trying new things, so I will be trying Camille Rose products next.

What are some of your favorite natural hair websites,YouTuber’s, or blogs?
My all time favorite YouTuber is Naptural85. While transitioning, one of my friends suggested I check out her videos for ideas on dealing with long natural hair. Her videos are inspiring and definitely kept me away from perming my hair again.  I also love Mahogany Curls, Hey Fran Hey, My Natural Sistas, Nikkimae 2003, and Cassandre Beccai. My favorite website is CurlyNikki.com. I just wish I knew about it earlier in my hair journey.

Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
Take care of your body because you only get this one. We all spend a lot of time on our hair and making sure that we look nice. But what about the condition of your health. Eat healthy, drink lots of water, exercise and the evidence will shine through to your outer appearance (skin, nails, and hair).

Where can people find you for more information?
Instagram: @itsreallyrelle
@feedies_world (for more information about my first published children's book)
Twitter: @itsreallyrelley
Facebook: facebook.com/cherrelle.Shelton
facebook.com/Feedies (for more information about my first published children's book)

Global Couture is trying to spread the word about embracing your natural hair. Love your HAIR, if it is wavy, curly, kinky or coily.
Are you naturally fierce? Email us to share your hair journey at globalcouture@aol.com.

Aloe Vera Gel for Healthy Natural Hair

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What is Aloe Vera?
Aloe vera is a perennial succulent plant that has been treasured throughout the history of mankind for its many beneficial properties. Evidence of its use are found in ancient Egyptian and Greek histories. Once introduced to southern Europe in the early 17th century it quickly became an accepted medicinal plant. It can be grown easily in most climates, and is well-suited for patio and indoor habitats, making it a species found in many homes.

Several of the properties attributed to aloe vera gel include facilitation of wound healing (especially burns and abrasions), mitigation of damage from ultraviolet radiation, anti-microbial activity (antibacterial and antifungal), anti-inflammatory action, skin moisturization, digestion aid, as well as potential applications as an anti-cancer agent and a targeted, controlled release drug delivery agent. Investigation is being done to increase our understanding of the composition of aloe vera and of the mechanisms by which it achieves it extraordinary accomplishments.

Aloe Vera in Hair Products
Given its ready accessibility and apparently gentle and healing nature, it is unsurprising that aloe vera gel is also popular in cosmetics and hair care, particularly as a kitchen-chemist or home herbalist ingredient. The claims made for what it can do for hair are fairly broad, and some should probably be viewed with a healthy degree of skepticism. The frequently touted aloe vera gel benefits to hair include improved detangling, moisturization, scalp healing, remediation of dandruff, restoration of pH levels, decreased frizz, enhanced cellular regeneration, anti-inflammatory action for the scalp and generation of hair growth.

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Many people report excellent results when aloe vera gel is applied on the hair after washing and conditioning, and before a styling gel is applied. Some curlies enjoy using aloe vera gel as a stand-alone styling agent, while for others, this does not supply sufficient hold or curl retention.

There have also been testimonies of aloe vera gel being drying to hair, that it contains protein which makes low-porosity hair stiff and dry, and many questions of whether or not it behaves as a humectant. Finally, inconsistent results have been obtained when using aloe vera gel from different sources. A quick peek at the complex chemistry of this wonderful plant should provide some insight into these observations and questions.

Composition
The aloe vera plant stores water in its leaves, which allows it to thrive during arid periods in climates where rainfall is sporadic. “Gel” is the terminology used to describe the mucilaginous material obtained from the parenchyma tissue of the plant. This slimy substance is approximately 99.0 – 99.5% water. The remaining 0.5-1.0% is comprised of a highly complex mixture of many components consistently mainly of a number of polymeric carbohydrate molecules called polysaccharides which contain building blocks of different small molecule sugars (monosaccharides). While a number of polysaccharides are present, the primary ones are acetylated mannan and pectin substance. These polymers provide the physical structure to this highly aqueous system which gives it its mucilaginous character. Mannans are also responsible for binding cellulose and for acting as signaling molecules for plant growth. Pectin substance includes several closely-related polysaccharides such as pectin, pectic acid, and arabinogalactin.

Polysaccharides have many hydroxyl groups pendant to the chain, available for hydrogen bonding, and for this reason are very hydrophilic and water soluble. This hydrophilicity also means that polysaccharides attract water from the atmosphere and bind it to the polymer surface, which is classic humectant behavior. This can have important ramifications for curly hair especially.

Aloe vera gel also contains small amounts of the protein lectin, as well as various amino acids. These can be absorbed into the cortex of hair, to greater extents by hair with greater porosity, where they can add structural integrity to the hair. However, some hair types become overly stiff and brittle or dry when protein accumulates on or in it, so it is wise to be aware of the presence of these materials in anything applied to the hair. The balance of the components in aloe vera gel include several vitamins, organic fatty acids and triglycerides, minerals, enzymes, amino acids, proteins, simple sugars and other compounds.

Key Ingredients in Aloe Vera
  • Polysaccharides (carbohydrates): mannan, acetylated mannan (also: acemannan), pectic substance, cellulose, galactan, galactogalacturan, arabinogalactan, xylan.
  • Fatty acids: γ-linolenic acid, arachidonic acid, salicylic acid, uric acid.
  • Vitamins: α-tocopherol (vitamin A), B vitamins including folic acid, ascorbic acid (vitamin C), β-carotene, choline.
  • Protein: lectin, lectin-like substance.
  • Inorganic elements and minerals: chromium, calcium, magnesium, manganese, sodium, copper, iron, phosphorous, potassium, zinc.
  • Various organic molecules: monosaccharides (sugars), enzymes, amino acids, anthroquinones, chromones, miscellaneous.
Benefits for Hair
Aloe vera gel has both emollient and moisturizing properties, meaning that it smoothes the cuticle surface and also attracts and seals in moisture. Despite having a relatively low amount of active ingredients on a molecular or weight basis (less than 1.0%), the specific combination and type of ingredients enable it to pack a significant punch.

It imparts detangling and conditioning by forming a polymer film on the surface of the hair, thereby smoothing the cuticle. This film can also provide mild hold, but significant curl retention based on application of aloe alone is unlikely. The pectin and sugar molecules can deliver moisture to the hair, and the amino acids and trace amounts of protein present can strengthen the cortex of damaged hair. It can act as a humectant as well, which can be beneficial in certain climates for specific hair types, but can also be a detriment in others.

Finally, aloe vera gel contains minerals such as iron, calcium, potassium, magnesium, and other micronutrients which may be beneficial to the hair and scalp. For many users, aloe vera makes an excellent leave-in conditioner to be used underneath applied styling products to provide extra protection for delicate tresses. It is completely water soluble, so can be used regardless of the preferred cleansing regimen.

Aloe Vera Gel Variations
Investigators have observed that there is significant variation in the polysaccharide content and composition of aloe vera gel. This has been found to be dependent upon many factors. Extraction and processing methods have a huge impact on the polysaccharide content of the gel. Polysaccharides are highly susceptible to degradation from temperature and shear forces. Season of growth and location create variations also. There have even been differences observed from leaf to leaf of the same plant. This is a potential explanation for variability in performance noted by different users. As with many things in nature, some degree of flexibility may have to be acceptable.
As documented below, most “100% pure Aloe vera gel” available for purchase is a mixture containing some aloe, polymers for viscosity modification, preservatives and other additives. These additions will necessarily change the impact of the aloe vera on your hair as well.
Fruit of the Earth Aloe Vera Gel: Aloe Vera (Aloe Barbadensis) Gel, Triethanolamine, Tocopheryl Acetate (Vitamin E), Carbomer 940, Tetrasodium EDTA, DMDM Hydantoin, Diazolidinyl Urea

Buying Aloe Vera Gel
Many health food stores should carry a product that is more pure than this. However, the fact that aloe contains high amounts of water means that it is highly susceptible to microbial growth and thus, must be preserved if packaged for commercial sale. In order to achieve proper suspension of the preservative, it is probably necessary to add the viscosity-modifying polymer. For these reasons, the optimal way to obtain truly pure Aloe vera gel would be to grow it at home and extract what you need from your own plants. Gardening can be fun and rewarding in its own right anyway. There is something very satisfying about growing, nurturing and harvesting your own supplies.

Do you use aloe vera gel in your hair? 

SHOW AND TELL - FIERCE FRIDAY

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Hola chicas!

It's that time again! The images below are of CN readers at their flyyest...at work, on the town, and with the fam. Showing us all that natural hair is not a fad, it's a way of life...an extension of our beauty! Click on the images to enlarge them--

I've been rocking this hairstyle for a whole week! Love it! I call this my braided crown! .....now you can see my color growing out 
#protectivestyle #naturalhair #nappturallychic #nhdaily #teamnatural_ #transitoning @hercurlzrbadd



Sending ‪#POSITIVEvibes‬ to everyone this Wednesday… ‪#LiveLaughLove‬! Take time to call & check in w/ a loved one. That one call could be just what they needed… emojiemoji - @mamanaturalista




#fiercefriday #curlynikki 1.5 years later... give it time ladies!! It will grow! 15, Natural and Fabulous!! ;) - @curlynproud98



My twist out is very well defined... @naturalista_eve



Started from the bottom now I'm here lol! #CurlyNikki #FierceFriday @vcordon83



#curlynikki #fiercefriday - @twanjuawingmomscarver



#curlynikki #fiercefriday - @wuebaby



#curlynikki #fiercefriday - @libfuzzy



 #twist #twistout#bighairdontcare #afro #blackgirlrock #afrotextured @naturealessence



#curlynikki #fiercefriday - @roxi63



#CurlyNikki #FierceFriday #OnTheAir #Afro @katierathereporter



Sporting au natural. #curlynikki #fiercefriday - @yayaontour



From #day to #night, just added Black shadow in my outer crease and changed my lip color - @kjs_momma



#curlynikki #fiercefriday - @healthyhairbody



My hair was previously straightened and was coming back to blow dried mode. I braided two big cornrows and when I took them out it gave this wavy look which I looooved! - @naturallysassymel


**To submit**
If you want to be featured in the next #FierceFriday, all you have to do is upload your favorite pics to Instagram (@curlynikki) with the tags #FierceFriday and #CurlyNikki. 
Be sure to share a brief description of the style, where you were headed, why you felt amazing!


Tiffany is Naturally Glam!

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Hi, my name is Tiffany. I'm originally from Queens, NY but was raised in Orlando, FL. I am the founder of LoveEmbraceInspire.com which originated from my personal blog LoveEmbraceInspire.blogspot.com. I have a Masters Degree in Higher Education and work as an adviser at a local college. My passion and skills in advising has not been limited to college admissions, but has expanded into providing natural hair tips as well as self-esteem building and personal & spiritual enrichment through blogging and vlogging. My desire is to help educate, uplift and inspire women.

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How long have you been natural?
I've been natural now for 2 years and 4 months. Prior to my chop in September 2011, I transitioned for 11 months.

What motivated you to transition? Were you a transitioner or Big Chopper & why?
For me, going natural was not intentional but accidental because I wore a lot of wigs and sew ins. Pretty much since January of 2009, I have had about 1-2 relaxers. I started transitioning in October of 2010 after taking braids out of my hair. I decided to grow out my natural hair because I was never satisfied with my relaxed hair, and covering it up with wigs and sew-ins started to become irritating not to mention costly. I just wanted to be free and liberated.

What has been the most memorable part of your journey? 
The most memorable part of my journey was when I cut off the relaxed ends. One day after washing my hair, I just got so frustrated with the two textures that I just went for it and chopped off the relaxed ends. I made sure to start right in the middle - no turning back. It was so liberating but at the same time I was a bit nervous. Because I was in love with my curls, I did everything I could to take good care of them. I put a lot of TLC into it and it paid off.



What are some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles?
During my transition, I wore a lot of high buns, and continued to wear wigs to keep myself from constantly playing in my new found head of curls. I figured the less manipulation the better. Now Marley Twists are my favorite protective style, but I also rock updos like the RTP (Roll, Tuck and Pin) You can find a video of that style on my YouTube channel www.youtube.com/Naturallytn

What have your experiences been as a ‘natural?’ Any memorable reactions from family or others?
When my family saw that I was going natural, I had 100% support. My parents would always tell me that I looked prettier wearing my own hair and that they were proud to see me blossom into my own. I gained more confidence in myself and was able to express my creative self through my hair and personal style.

One of the experiences I didn't enjoy so much when I first became natural is how both relaxed and some naturals would always ask me if my hair was real and would try to touch my hair because they just couldn't believe that this hair was all mine! At times I would get frustrated but then eventually got over it. Those same women today, ask me for advice as they too, have made the decision to go natural. I am happy that my journey and my natural hair has inspired others to take that leap of faith and try something they never thought they would ever do...



What is your hair regimen (including favorite products)?
I wash my hair every week. I start out by prepping my hair for washing by mixing castor oil and raw Shea butter together and adding it to every strand in my hair to soften it prior to washing. Lately I've been a bit of a product junkie because I like to try new things, however I do have staples. I currently use Aussie's Conditioner for my co-washes and wash my hair with shampoo about once to twice a month to get rid of product build-up. I moisturize and seal my ends every night by using the LOC Method. (Liquid is usually a leave in spray or simply H2O, Oils - Castor Oil/Jojoba/Grapeseed mixture and Cream I've recently been using Alikay Naturals' Shea Yogurt Moisturizer because my hair loves anything Shea Butter. I'll then twist and wrap my hair with a satin scarf or cap when going to bed.



Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
Whether you are a new natural or transitioning I want to encourage women to stick to their journey because it'll be worth it in the end. When you need strength and encouragement, get support from other transitioners and big choppers. Seek support from other naturals who will help cheer you through. And always remember no matter what your hair preference is, we are all beautifully and wonderfully made!

Where can people find you for more information?
Website: LoveEmbraceInspire.com
Blog: LoveEmbraceInspire.blogspot.com
Instagram: @NaturallyTN
YouTube: www.YouTube.com/NaturallyTn

My Skin Care Regimen

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Hola Chicas,

Let's talk face.  Particularly, serving that ish.  My skin care routine has been the same for nearly 4 years now.  My slacker nature works for me in this department because I've discovered that like accessories, for me, less is always more.

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But before we proceed, in the spirit of full disclosure, note that on most days, I do indeed wake up like dis.  I get it from my Momma. I have pretty decent genes. I've never had major acne issues but I do get the same damn enormous, cystic pimple in the middle of my chin, every month. #StruggleBump #HormonesAreFun #AndItLeavesAMark

I'm going to divide my routine up to make things easier.  Hope it helps!

'Most Days' Routine ('round town)
-After brushing my teeth in the morning, I rinse my face with ice cold water (no soap, #OoohSheRatchet)
-I blot dry before applying a generous amount of Cetaphil's Daily Facial Moisturizer
-Apply Clinique's Chubby stick to my lips (I love 'Richer Raisin', very natural)

*Live my life*

-That night, after brushing my teeth, I again rinse my face with cold water (no soap, I never use soap on my face, so yeah. )
-I blot dry before applying Cetaphil's Moisturizing Cream (particularly under and around my eyes!)

'You fancy, huh?' Routine (things to do... like once a month. I rarely wear makeup!)
-After brushing my teeth in the morning, I rinse my face with ice cold water
-I apply a little Cetaphil Daily Facial Moisturizer
-I then apply either Clinique's CC Cream (it's like a lotion, with a tint and gives light coverage) OR Smashbox's BB Cream (very similar to Clinique's but less coverage and sometimes, a little oily... right now I'm liking Clinique's better. I use 'Deep', of course ;) )
-Eyeliner + mascara (you know I got something to do if I have on more than lip gloss. I usually use Smashbox brand or Clinique)
-Bold Lip (love this lipstain)

*Do awesome ish*

-That night, if I don't hit the bed immediately (on account of the shenanigans), I use a circular pad to remove the makeup with coconut oil (organic, unrefined, cold pressed) and warm water. I employ the oil cleansing method to cleanse and moisturize. For those of you unfamiliar, check out this link and this one too.
-I again rinse with ice cold water and moisturize with Cetaphil's Moisturizing Cream.

That's it! Very simple.  I only do the 'You Fancy, Huh?' reggie once a month or so.  I rarely wear makeup and I think that helps keep my skin clear as well. I learned early that for me, using soap, even the fancy facial ones can lead to random breakouts and drier skin (my skin is on the dry side, exacerbated by my chronic mild to moderate dehydration because me no likey water...).  I like Cetaphil because it gives moisture without the shining.  I use the heavier moisturizing cream at night because in my mind, it'll keep the lines away!  It's also not greasy. The most awesome thing about my routine?  I learned from my sister Syl that in a recent interview Pharrell shared that he also uses Cetaphil and cleanses with cold water! He hasn't aged since, well...


I think I read somewhere a long time ago that Lucille Ball used to stick her face in a bucket of ice water every day.  Maybe that's why I started doing it!  Keeps things smooth, your pores tight and the ability to serve face, another day.


Oh, and for the rest of my body, when I'm not being ratchet (and only moisturizing areas that will be visible to the public), I use the Cetaphil's Moisturizing Cream.  I need to buy a vat of that stuff.  I use it on Boog and Hubby too!

Later Gators!
Nik 

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