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The Coconut Oil Bleaching Method for Natural Hair

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Coconut oil is an all natural beauty miracle for beauty and health. Applied topically or ingested, there are literally dozens of different benefits when using coconut oil. I have been sleeping with coconut oil in my hair as a pre poo treatment twice a week for over two years now and it has left my hair soft, shiny and more manageable.

Coconut oil can help with hair bleaching
Coconut oil leaves bleached hair feeling super soft and much more healthy looking. Using coconut oil on bleached hair can help hair that feels crunch or hay like feel significantly softer with consistent use and even make the hair more manageable.



How to use coconut oil for bleached hair
1. Coat all of your hair with melted coconut oil root to tip, at night before bed.

2. Cover it with a towel or shower cap and go to sleep.

3. Bleach hair as usual the next day with oil still in the hair.

Why it works
The idea is the night of oil-soaking replicates the buildup of natural oils in your hair and protects both your scalp and the hair itself from damage causing bleach. Some people have found that using oil helps their bleach to process faster than it would without it. Adding coconut oil to the bleaching process can create a barrier to help prevent the burning and itching feeling that usually occurs with the process.


Do you bleach your hair?

I'm giving away 6 Conditioning Baskets to Top Commenters! (April 2016)

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Hola Chicas,

I'm giving away 6 Conditioning Baskets(worth ~$90 each) this month (April 2016) to question askers and answerers!

If you see a curly-in-need who has asked a question under a post, answer it! If you are a curly who has a question that needs an answer, ask it! Not under this post, on all the posts! 

The first three baskets will go to the three curlies with the highest number of posts this month (4/1-4/30, comments from previous months don't count) and the next three will go to three randomly selected commenters.  Past winners are eligible!

Which posts/articles count for the contest? All of them!  Good luck!

*contest ends April 30th, 2016 at 5pm EST*

*Please only post comments that spark conversation and further discussion. Free products are EVERYTHING but this is really about strengthening our community and helping other naturals!*

*US citizens only
 
Later Gators,
Nik

Click for last month's winners!>>>>



CONGRATS!!! #WinnerWinnerChickenDinner 

Jamie

Asuma

Rachel Clements

Marie 

S. Rodriguez 

TNDRHRT

email me ASAP at nikki@curlynikki.com using 'March winner' in the subject line!

#Delivert | When You Trust Amazon More Than God

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blessings showing up like... 

Hola Chica,

Real quick-- 

Last year, I ordered an exercise bike from Amazon...that I've only used twice, but that's a whole 'nother story.  Anyway,  at some point during the 3 days it took to arrive, I had an epiphany and proceeded to text it out with my favorite #wokeAF human,  Nookie.  



Moral of the story-- you're generally unconcerned about Amazon and FedEx's ability to deliver your stuff.  You know it's coming. The end.  But you stay worried that The Universe is gonna leave your stuff on the porch so someone can take it.  You experience anxiety 'cause you think God is gonna lose your stuff in route.  Or worse, you think the All That Is will withhold your stuff because you're unworthy.  

When you order something from Amazon, it looks like this-- 

1. "I think I want an exercise bike..."
2. Go to Amazon, browse the selection, order the one that fits your needs
3. Wait patiently in positive expectation 
4. It arrives (even if it doesn't, you know you're gonna get your shit eventually, or a refund) 
5. The end.

When you want to manifest a new home/car/career/lifestyle, it looks like this-- 

1. 'I think I want that... can I really have that? Who am I kidding... that would never happen to me.  I need to save up first, go back to school first, get a promotion first, make more money first, make a vision board first, visualize real hard, repeat affirmations ad nauseam, concentrate, fix myself, think positive, ready myself, look for signs that it's coming...', and any other number of unnecessary pre-requisites you place on making your goal a reality.


2. Where it at, tho? (it's still here, but you can't see it)
3. Repeat steps (1) and (2) 
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The difference is that you feel like the latter, the new home/car/career/lifestyle is something BIG. It's BIG STUFF.  You feel like it's something that doesn't exist yet... something that you have to create.  It's not just something you can whip out your debit card and handle right quick.  You feel like it's going to take TIME and EFFORT and maybe even a miracle.  But those are just beliefs! Just thoughts that you believe.  

So how 'bout you replace those beliefs with the knowledge that creation is already complete and everything that ever was, is or could be is already yours because you are that, 'I am'. You just have to allow what you want, to become visible to you.  You have to allow more of what you are to be revealed to you.  People usually employ the use of affirmations, visualizing and goal writing to help manifest the BIG STUFF, but these are just permission slips to allow yourself to have what you want (more of yourself).  "You can write down the steps to your goal. Then do the steps. Then achieve your goals. But the goal doesn't really manifest because of the steps you took, but because of your belief that these steps will lead to the goal."- J. Fredrickson 

Remember, affirmations aren't recited today to make them true tomorrow, they're recited today as an acknowledgment of the truth today, here and now. Affirmations (and visualizations) aren't practices you do to pull diamond rings and new Mercedes' out of thin air-- they're tools to help you practice the feeling place (right here and right now) of whatever it is you're seeking.  You bring the excitement of the BIG STUFF into your present reality and then life takes care of the rest.  

That's the secret guys.  Your desire for the BIG STUFF can be looked at as a call from home.  A call from the source of what you are, to reconnect with the kingdom within.  This is why the reconnecting feels so good.  And once you're basking in those peaceful, joyful, blissful, natural good feels, the really awesome things that were once invisible, become visible.  They may not be the exact BIG STUFF you had in mind, but that's the thing... "what life has in store for us is never what we think. Thinking is rarely grand enough!"- Frank Kinslow

So sit back, become aware of the natural good feels, and trust that it's being handled.   

Later Gators,
Nik

p.s. remember,  you don't actually want stuff, you want feels.

p.p.s. follow Nookie on Instagram!! @nuke_da_duke_of_fitness_   check out his weight loss journey and tell him I sent you!  

Simple Flat Twist Updo for Natural Hair

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Hola Chicas!

Sumetra Reed is back at it again with this super cute and super easy, flat twist updo.  Watch as she shows you how to quickly get in formation for the office or for the turn up.

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How to Make a Twist out Last a Long Time

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by Ariane of BlackNaps.org

Love the look of a twist out but frustrated with the short lived results? It is totally possible to have a long lasting style results with very low maintenance. Here’s some tips for making a twist out last:

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Leave your twists in for a while to lock in the definition
I know you want instant curly awesomeness right away! But… if you put in twists overnight and remove them the next day, your results are not going to be as long lasting as if you had left them in for a couple of days or better yet a week or so. The last set of twists I did, I left them in for about 2 weeks and wore them as a mini twist style. I am on day 4 of my twist out and my style still hasn’t let up.

Wear smaller sized twists
Chunky twist out sets are my favorite, but they also happen to not last as long. When you wear small twists you get better definition. They don’t have to be micro sized, that’s not necessary! Just small.

Twist on freshly washed damp hair
Wet hair will give you the best definition. However when your hair is wet, it is in a weakened state plus for those with low porosity hair it may take eons to dry if you twist while your hair is saturated. Instead twist damp hair. To give your hair some stretch prior to installing your twists pineapple your hair while it air dries.

Use a product with a good hold
I love the ORS Setting Foam as it gives me great hold, cuts out frizz and makes wet styling a snap. I have also recently tried the Taliah Waajid Shea Coco Styling Cream which smooths out my hair and also gives me an excellent hold. If you want to go all natural try whipping a mixture of shea butter, your favorite oil and aloe or flaxseed gel.

Don’t Over Fluff When You Remove Your Twists
When you over fluff this creates frizz which up being a total style destroyer. If you want your hair to be more stretched out while wearing your twists cornrow them, create an updo, wear them up in a ponytail or bun. The tension these styles create will elongate your hair.

Wrap your hair at night, pineapple or put into large twists
To prevent matting and protect your hair, don’t forget your satin bonnet. For your nightime style pineappling or putting your hair into large twists will do.

Daily Moisturizing and Maintenance
Be sure to avoid weighing your hair down with too much product. You may only need the steam from your morning shower and a light oil to seal moisture in to refresh your style. Lightly fluff with your fingers if needed.

THERE GOES MY TIPS FOR A LONG LASTING TWIST OUT! WHAT DO YOU DO TO GET THE MOST LONG LASTING RESULT?

Hillary Clinton’s Faux Appearance & Kerry Washington’s Adweek Cover Was Like A Bad Hair Day

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Hillary Clinton laughs at her own jokes at 2016 Black Girls Rock! Awards

by Mike Orie of www.theconscioustip.com

Well, I don’t really know what a bad hair day is like, because I keep a low cut tapered on the sides. But Monday reminded of me what being in New Orleans during Essence Fest might feel like for a Black girl with natural hair. Three days ago, the 10th annual Black Girls Rock! Awards aired on BET. Black women, whose voices are often silenced in mainstream media, the workplace and every other facet of life gathered to celebrate just how amazing they were. Last night, I watched some of these clips again and realized they were probably some of the most powerful things I’ve seen in awhile. I listening to Shonda Rhimes story on how she wanted to “portray women the same way men are.” And then there was Beverly Bond’s speech. “Our features can be bought and sold to enhance the beauty of other women.” It really made me stop to appreciate the little privilege I do have as a Black male.

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But before I got too deep into my thoughts, I wanted to know who invited Hillary Rodham Clinton and why she thought her staff-written speech was gonna change my vote. It felt like that moment in high school when I won Homecoming King (well I would’ve won but they forgot to put me on the ballot) and that girl that wasn’t sweating me before all of a sudden wanted my number. I wanted to know why now. I was dope last week, and the week before when I tried to make eye contact but you kept walking. That’s what Hillary’s appearance felt like. Like that girl who just discovered I was dope showing up at my locker in between second period right before my midterm. It just wasn’t a good time. Black girls were dope 10 years ago, when you were first reelected to the New York state senate in 2006. But you weren’t checking for them then. I was reminded once again of why I couldn’t trust her, and in the same thought, the 1.2 trillion dollar AA buying power. I thought about how the one night a year that was solely dedicated to Black women, Hillary had to stab them in the back with her sharp boxer braids. Why did she have boxer braids in the first place, and why did she think cornrows were gonna make me her first Black friend? #QuestionsThatStillNeedAnswers



At the same time this was being aired, Kerry Washington was facing a similar battle from the opposite end of the spectrum. Well, kind of, because BET isn’t Black owned anymore although some people still think it is. She posted this heartfelt message on Instagram about her Adweek cover being photo shopped. Somebody upped the exposure so much on the photo that I didn’t even recognize her at first. I thought back to those days I used to go to the club in St. Louis. Right before I got in, there was this sign that said “no sneakers, no t-shirts, no fitted caps, no graphic tees,” and at the very bottom, scratched out, metaphorically “no Black people.” I was thinking, who still wears graphics tees anyway? It was like they re-watched Nelly’s “Country Grammar” video 10 years later and made a dress code policy based off of it. That’s what that Adweek cover felt like. As if they told me, we still want your money, we just don’t want you, so go change and come back. And when you get here, we won’t play more than two hip hop songs in a row, because we don’t want you to have too much fun. We just want your money. And after they got your money, it was like walking up to the DJ, and the DJ saying that he was gonna take your request, but your song never got played. In fact, instead of playing it, as soon as you walked away, he deleted it from his computer. “There are a few things we discussed in the interview that were left out. Things that are important to me (like: the importance of strong professional support and my awesome professional team),” Kerry Washington explained in her Instagram post. Somebody on the editorial team might’ve said, “This part just wasn’t that interesting.” But the Blacktivist in me wonders if somebody really said, “We don’t need them figuring out how to duplicate success stories, we just need to increase our African American viewership by 10%.” Things like that usually happen on a bad hair day though. You overanalyze everything, and when you think the wind messed up your edges, they were actually still Snapchat ready no filter.

I thought to myself, this might be the average day in the life of a Black woman. But somehow y’all still manage to make it through without me noticing. (I wanted to use the word slay, but I don’t really like that word.) If this day was any reflection of what could’ve been a bad hair day, fixed between your lunch break and multiple trips to the bathroom in between meetings, then I’m definitely in awe. I’m voting that we move the annual Black Girls Rock! Awards to a bi-monthly celebration, a monthly day party or a once a week gathering on Taco Tuesdays. Because for all that you go through, they still don’t celebrate you enough. So when I woke up this morning and my hair was still tapered perfectly after I brushed it for a few seconds, I was reminded of how good I had it. Black women, I don’t know how you do it, but even on your worst days, you always find a way to keep your edges in tact. And that's something we should celebrate everyday. Hashtag, Black Edges Matter!

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Mike "Orie" Mosley is a freelance writer/photographer and cultural advocate from St. Louis. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Arts, Entertainment & Media Management from Columbia College Chicago and a Masters in Higher Education Administration from LSU. He is also the co-founder of music and culture website www.theconscioustip.com. In his spare time, he's probably listening to hip hop & neo soul music, hitting up brunch or caught up in deep conversations about Black music. You can follow him on Twitter @mike_orie or on Instagram @mikeorie

Curly Kids: The Basic Guide to Natural Hair Care for Children

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Do you have memories of sitting in between your mother’s legs while she parted your hair, oiled your scalp, and styled you up in some plaits and twists, perhaps with pretty clips and bubbles and elastics? Are those memories fond or fearful? For me, they’re all warm and fuzzy. Having my mom wash and braid me up for school was usually something I looked forward to – her hands were gentle, I loved the smell of the African Pride scalp oils she used (remember the yellow ones filled with petroleum and “herbs”?), and we had fun watching TV or talking while she got me ready for the next day of school.

I know that for others, the memories aren’t so sweet. Hair being scraped back and torn with rough combing, singes from irons used to “tame” naps, and harsh comments about how tough, nappy, and bad one’s hair was. I’ve seen the after-effects of negative treatment pass down much more visibly than the positive – mothers who were told their hair was “bad” have practiced the same with their own children, especially their daughters. Seeing 4 year olds with relaxed hair makes me sad. Hearing mothers talk about how terrible their child’s hair is in front of the child makes me cringe.

I have heard Black women admit to choosing fathers of another race in order to ensure that her daughter didn’t have “nappy-ass hair” like she did. I’ve spoken with White mothers who have children with Black men, but have absolutely no clue what to do with their baby’s hair.

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If you’re a parent struggling with your child’s hair, you aren’t alone! I’m no hair professional, but here are some tips I’ve acquired to help create more happy, healthy memories when it comes to little ones and their hair.
  • Moisturizing is the key: kids’ hair can get extremely dry. From wearing wool hats in the winter, to going to swimming lessons, to a general rough and tumble lifestyle, so many things can zap the moisture right out of your little one’s hair. If they also have tight kinks and curls, you’ll want to pay even more attention to this. 
    • Adding a bit of extra virgin olive oil (EVOO) or jojoba oil to shampoos and conditioners is always a good move. 
    • Stick to water-based moisturizers to keep hair soft and supple in between washes 
    • Use natural oils like coconut oil, argan oil, and shea butter to nourish and lubricate your child’s hair before styling.
  • Detangling doesn’t have to be torture: the keys to detangling are tools + technique. 
    • Use a wide-tooth comb to gently but thoroughly detangle hair section by section
    • If you have extra time, use your fingers as a comb to remove any tiny knots or tangles.
    • Never detangle your little one’s hair when it’s dry! The best time to do so is when their hair is soaking wet and full of conditioner – this helps your comb to move through the hair much easier, and less painfully too. 
    • If their hair does dry before you’ve been able to detangle, keep a spritz bottle of water and leave-in conditioner handy to wet the hair again before running through with the comb.
  • Young scalps are important: Are you concerned with the rate at which your child’s hair is NOT growing? It all starts at the scalp. School-aged children are prone to getting a little bit of everything in their hair, and if yours also sweats in their scalp, you’ll need to shampoo more frequently. Scalps need to be able to breathe in order for hair growth to flourish, so keep that in mind. Also – don’t gunk your child’s scalp with petroleum based oils and greases. While some use mineral oil-based products to protect their strands from mechanical damage, these products can sit on top of the scalp without providing any nourishing properties. Try applying castor oil to your little one’s scalp to nourish and promote growth.
  • Styles matter: Most parents I know limit “out” days and keep their children’s hair in mainly protective styles. Smart move, as this could save you the tears and extra time to detangle at the next wash day. In the same vein, don’t be afraid to try your hand at some new styles! Buns, braids, twists, cornrows – the options are endless! If you aren’t as skilled as you’d like to be, or if your busy schedule makes it hard to recreate fresh and fab styles, hit up your friendly neighborhood braider to get a style that may last your child a week or 2 at a time! Whatever route you take, remember that young hairlines are sensitive – don’t cause damage by braiding, pulling, or combing too tightly. Also, take care of exposed ends. Try applying shea butter or coconut oil to the ends of hair to protect from dryness and splitting.
(don’t the above tips reflect the same things we adults do for our natural hair care? Get the kiddies started off right!)
  • Watch your words: I have colleagues and acquaintances in their 50s who remember, clear as day, the way their mothers used to disparage and criticize their hair – those memories don’t easily fade away. Remove the negative speak when taking care of your child’s hair, and replace it with positives. Children first develop their self-esteem through what they’re taught and told at home – besides, there are sufficient messages in the world to tell your child why they aren’t good enough. Do you want to add to that, or help to strengthen your child against it? Use your words to instill pride and love in your child’s hair, so that they can absorb that pride and love for themselves. Instead of teaching them how to “fix” their hair, teach them how to take care of it. “Fixing” indicates that something is wrong – and as long as your child’s hair is healthy, it’ll be alright!

Below, share your tips for caring for your kiddo's curls!

Moringa Oil for Stronger, Longer Natural Hair

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by Michelle Thames of HappilyEverNatural.com

Have you heard of Moringa Oil? I know you are probably thinking, 'Not another oil! How many can there be?!' Well let me tell you about Moringa and how she has helped my dry scalp and hair. Moringa oil is a powerful oil that has amazing benefits not only for your hair but for your skin too-- a two in one combo, and I’m here for it! Moringa oil is extracted from the seeds of Moringa oleifera, also known as the Drumstick tree which is found in Africa. Moringa oil is also known as Ben Oil, or Behen Oil. Here are some amazing benefits of Moringa Oil:

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Helps Promote Hair Growth

Moringa oil is high in many vitamins and minerals such as calcium, and Vitaman C. Moringa oil helps improve the appearance of your hair making it stronger, shiny and healthy. Moringa oil contains high contents of vitamin A, zinc, vitamin E, B vitamins and silica which is known to promote natural hair growth.

Conditions Hair

Moringa oil is also considered a powerful hair conditioner. It works well when used as a hot oil treatment. When used as a hot oil treatment, it leaves your hair soft with restored elasticity and the ability to retain moisture. I was able to comb through my hair with ease after using this for my hot oil treatment! Works wonders I tell you! You can also use this oil on your skin to help with dry, flaky skin too!

Helps Dry Scalp

Moringa oil also helps with dandruff. Raise your hand if you suffer from dandruff *slowly raises hand*. Well this oil can help with that. Moringa oil is absorbed quickly into your scalp and helps your scalp feel less itchy and dry. I know I have dandruff really bad sometimes, and after using this oil it was almost extinct! My scalp was definitely less irritated after just one use.

Have you heard of Moringa Oil? Would you give it a try?


CN Says:
My review on one of my favorite oil blends!

Somebody "Invented" Feyonce And Didn't Think Beyonce Would Know

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by Mike Orie of www.theconscioustip.com

When I was a kid, there were two important things I learned about being successful. 1) Brush your teeth every single day and 2) No matter what you do in life, start your own business. As I got a little older, I had to alter #2 slightly to stay current with the times. It now read, "no matter what you do in life, start your own business, but don't f*ck with Beyoncé." Ever since I made that slight addendum, life has been pretty good to me. Somebody didn't get the memo though, and rule # 2 might've just messed up their life.

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Three Texas natives had the clever idea to start a company called Feyonce, Inc. (not to be confused with Beyoncé of course). Business was booming I imagine, because sometimes when you're typing Beyoncé in Google, you accidentally slide your finger one space up between the G and H and one space over left to the F key instead, and boom, Feyonce. The name reminded me of a brainstorm session my friends and I used to have when we were working on new business ideas. When we couldn't think of anything good,we would stretch out the syllables of words we already knew, hoping to come up with something dope. Words like "Act-ta-fist" or "Corn-bre-duh." A couple of drinks in, and you were rolling with a new soul food joint called Cornbreddah. The tag line went, "Rhymes with cheddah, nobody does it betta." ( I hate that this might be stuck in my head for awhile now.) But that's the story of how Feyonce came about. Somebody landed on a bad idea and forgot to keep guessing. "Defendants adopted the Feyonce mark to call to mind Beyonce and her famous song," the lawsuit said. "Defendants' conduct described herein is intentional, fraudulent, malicious, willful and wanton." Beyonce's lawsuit also seeks unspecified damages, according to Reuters.


So here's where the power of rule #2 kicks in. I've read about 10 different articles, all reporting about Feyonce being sued by her big sister Beyoncé. But not one single news source had the courtesy to provide me with a link to the website. So even though I want you to be able to see how terrible it is, you have to promise that you won't buy anything, so that I can stay true to rule #2. Feyonce put a ring on it, but wasn't smart enough to draft a pre-nup.

"And make sure you hit em with the prenup."


In that same brainstorming session, somebody also thought of the clever idea to use the "Beyonce pink" font and replace the B with an F. It reminded me of when I was a kid and my pops used to take me to the flea market to cop some new FUBU. He always managed to find me new gear in color ways I had never seen before. My friends who couldn't afford it always thought I had exclusives. But before I got too excited, the kids at school would remind me that my "F" looked a little different than there's. I was so happy to get new gear that I didn't notice that my navy blue jersey with lime green trim said "Pubu." The only thing I could think of was to tell them that it was limited edition. But they wasn't going. That whole scene felt like an episode of "Everybody Hates Mike." Just last week, some guy probably in real life ordered his fiancé the mug up above, trying to make up for waiting last minute to get his girl Beyoncé tickets. And now she'll never be able to sip Hennessy out of her $14.95 coffee mug the same. Moral of the story: You might be able to break rule #1 until around lunchtime, but never...ever, ever, ever (Chris Rock voice) break rule #2.


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Mike "Orie" Mosley is a freelance writer/photographer and cultural advocate from St. Louis. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Arts, Entertainment & Media Management from Columbia College Chicago and a Masters in Higher Education Administration from LSU. He is also the co-founder of music and culture website www.theconscioustip.com. In his spare time, he's probably listening to hip hop & neo soul music, hitting up brunch or caught up in deep conversations about Black music. You can follow him on Twitter @mike_orie or on Instagram @mikeorie

DIY Sea Buckthorn Mask for Dry, Damaged Hair

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by Emilia Obiekea of AdoreBotanicals.com

Sea Buckthorn oil is highly prized due to its great abilities to grow hair, heal damaged skin and reduce symptoms of skin and hair conditions. This oil is dark and beautifully rich. It contains beta carotene (contributes to its orange-red pigment), tocopherols (vitamin E), essential fatty acids (such as: linoleic, Oleic, Palmitic, Stearic) and phytosterols. Just like coconut oil, it solidifies and liquefies depending on the temperature. It is highly concentrated so a little goes a long way. Never use it straight. Although it is a not an essential oil it is best to treat it as one. Simply diluted in another carrier oil and it is ready to use.

Sea Buckthorn Benefits
-Encourages hair growth
-Deters split ends
-Reduces hair loss
-Increases hair elasticity
-Moisturizes dry skin
-Soothes itchy/ dry scalp
-Minimizes inflammation
-Damaged hair
-Nourishes the hair follicles
-Keeps hair frizz free
-Wonderful for those that suffer from eczema, rosacea, dermatitis, psoriasis

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Rich Sea Buckthorn Hair Mask

Ingredients
2 tablespoons of carrier oil of choice *
1 teaspoon of coconut nectar or vegetable glycerin
1 teaspoon of sea buckthorn seed oil **
1 cup of full fat greek yogurt
4 tablespoons of raw aloe gel
2 tablespoons of rose powder (optional)
4-6 drops of peppermint essential oil
* Common carrier oils are grapeseed oil, extra virgin olive oil, unrefined coconut oil, etc...
**it is very concentrated that's all it takes

Steps
-Blend all ingredients together in a bowl.
-Apply to damp or dry hair from root to ends.
-It is great for detangling the hair due to it having tons of slip.
-Wrap hair and leave the mask in without heat for 20-30 mins.
-Rinse well with lukewarm water.
-Do final rinse with cool water.

Results
You will notice your hair will feel stronger and softer with each use. It does not need to be used weekly. It is a great biweekly or monthly treat for the hair and scalp.

CRWN Mag Is Bringing Black Natural Hair Beauty To The Masses

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Photo courtesy of CRWN Magazine

by Mike Orie of www.theconscioustip.com

CRWN Magazine wants to tell our story. Not once a year for a special celebration, or periodically, but every single day. The quarterly magazine launched in August 2015 at Afropunk with the Zero Issue and has received nothing but positive reviews. To date, CRWN has gained over 1,000 pre-orders for issue 1, which is expected to release sometime this spring.

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Founders, Lindsey Day, and Nkrumah Farrar, serve as the editor in chief and creative director respectively. The two, in an interview with Huff Post Black Voices describe their reason for launching. They felt“there was a void when it came to publications that were really celebrating and edifying black women, not to mention doing so with high creative and aesthetic quality.” Since launching last year, the magazine has amassed nearly 10,000 followers on Instagram, showcasing daily images of beautiful, Black women. Day and Farrar describe the most compelling part of the magazine, as it’s desire to portray Black women not only as strong, but equally as beautiful, something often missing in the media.

Their website highlights CRWN’s missions as follows. CRWNMAG “exists to create a progressive dialogue around what it really means to “go natural” in America. Through beautiful content, thoughtful commentary, hair inspiration and resources; we’re telling the world the truth about black women by showcasing a new standard of beauty — and documenting our story in tangible, print form.” You can pre-order your copy of CRWN Mag here

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Mike "Orie" Mosley is a freelance writer/photographer and cultural advocate from St. Louis. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Arts, Entertainment & Media Management from Columbia College Chicago and a Masters in Higher Education Administration from LSU. He is also the co-founder of music and culture website www.theconscioustip.com. In his spare time, he's probably listening to hip hop & neo soul music, hitting up brunch or caught up in deep conversations about Black music. You can follow him on Twitter @mike_orie or on Instagram @mikeorie

Hope is Naturally Glam

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Tell me a little about yourself and your hair journey.
I am Hope Charisse, I’m 23 years old and I’m from Nebraska.

How long have you been natural? Have you always embraced your curls?
I started getting perms when I was 13. Being as young as I was, I didn’t mind getting perms at the time. I just knew it was easier for my mother to manage my hair that way. As I got older, I realized how beautiful natural hair is and I began to embrace my curls in June of 2012.


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What motivated you to transition? Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper& why?
My hair has always been long and thick. But towards the end of my sophomore year in college, my hair began to break off badly. It was due to a combination of stress from being away from and from getting my hair colored. A close friend of mine is natural and I remember watching her twist her hair every night and asking her questions about it. She was my biggest inspiration for going natural.

I transitioned for about 3 months with micro braids and couple sew-ins but I eventually became tired of waiting and I cut the remaining 4 inches off. If I could go back in time, I would have continued to grow it all the way out to retain more fullness and length but I still love where I’m at with my hair now.


How would you describe your hair?
My hair is very kinky so I have type 4 hair. It’s tightly coiled in the back but my curls are looser in the front and sides. My hair is best friend and my enemy at times because it has a mind of its own sometimes but I wouldn’t change a thing about it.

What do you love most about your hair?
I love the versatility of my hair the most. I can rock a huge fro one day and a tightly coiled mini fro the next. I can wear it straight, blow it out, or do various up do’s. With natural hair, there are no limitations.

What has been the most memorable part of your journey? Has it been easy or difficult or both?!
The most memorable part of my natural hair journey has been not having to go through it alone. I mentioned before that one of my closest friends from college was my biggest inspiration for going natural but she also inspired another close friend of ours as well. We used to stay up late at night doing research about natural hair and watching YouTube videos. A lot of people have the mindset of “it’s just hair” but going natural was a life changing experience for the both of us. I just appreciate her sticking with it and motivating me to stick with it as well.

What are (or were) some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles or current dos’
My favorite current dos’ are braid outs. I absolutely love big hair and with braid outs I am able to achieve that with ease.

What have your experiences been as a ‘natural.’ Any memorable reactions from family or others?
My experience as a natural has been great for the most part. It took a while for some that are close to me to adjust to it but now they love it. I often get asked by random people if they can touch my hair and in the beginning I allowed it because natural hair is beautiful and very unique so I understand people’s fascinations with it. But now I politely decline and advise them to admire from afar.


What is your hair regimen (including fav products)?
As a naturalista, my hair regimen is always changing but my top favorite products are, Camille Rose Naturals Almond Jai Twisting Butter, Cantu Shea Butter Leave in Conditioner, Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie, and my holy grail Aussie Moist Conditioner.


What are some of your favorite natural hair websites,YouTuber’s, or blogs?
Some of my favorite natural hair YouTuber’s are Yolanda Renee, MsVaughnTV, Abi’s Hair NL, and IKnowLee.


Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
Going natural is a process. It can be overwhelming and stressful. But it is so worth it in the end. Embrace the hair you were blessed with and don’t feel like you have to change who you are to fit society’s standards. Natural hair is beautiful and don’t let anyone, no matter who it is, tell you otherwise.

Where can people find you for more information?
People can find me on:
Instagram: @_hopecharisse
Tumblr: @hopecharisse

Letting Boog Be Great

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...when shit gets real quiet, too quiet, and you sneak up on her and she's in the bathroom, in your makeup and you actively choose not to fuss and instead make a memory... couldn't tell her nothin'.  #IUsedToDoItToo #LettingBoogBeGreat #SheStaySlaying

Later Gators, 
Nik 

Organix Coconut Milk Conditioner: Review for Natural Hair

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“Pssst… I got that good good.” I was walking down the aisle at Tarjay (Target for my international curly sisters) and I swear the little white and gold bottle on the shelf was toying with my inner PJism. Determined to be strong I kept it moving. I turn to go on the next aisle and there it was laying all alone partially under the wheel of my cart….a damn coupon. Awww damn I thought, now I have to buy it; the thing said a whopping $1.00 off. Not one to pass up a good deal; I bought two bottles and skipped my junkie behind home.

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How I Use It:
  • In the shower, I slapped on some good ole HE Totally Twisted and finger-combed through my strands after I’d separated my hair into 4 sections.
  • After detangling, I let the HE sit in my hair while I cleansed. I’ve found that the steam from the shower coupled with the conditioning elements in HE really enhance the moisturizing effects.
  • I rinsed completely and then it happened…. I flipped open the cap to the Organix bottle squirting a generous amount into the palm of my hand and WOW!!! My mouth started watering, conga drums started playing, and the sound of ocean waves crashing filled my little shower. When I say this stuff smells good, it smells good! I closed my eyes and began massaging it into my hair….ding ding ding ding YO!! This stuff is the BOMB DOT COM! It melted onto my strands, loving on them as I applied from root to ends. But seriously ladies, as a product addict, I’ve had my share of product affairs and I might have to go on and “boo” this one up. Yes I said it, I think I’m ready to commit.
Why I like it:
  •  I was bummed when my hair rejected coconut oil; I want the vitamins and nutrients it provides and as a junkie being rejected by a product is NO BUENO for my image. Organix Coconut Milk Conditioner gives my hair the nourishing effects of coconut in a medium that my hair appreciates. You see, coconut oil feels great on my hair while it’s wet. Once my hair dries though it feels like greasy straw. My hair feels amazing after the Organix dries which is so relieving.
  • The ingredients are yummyliscious (it’s a word damnit) with ingredients like organic coconut milk, whipped egg white proteins, and a little something called Behentrimonium Methosulphate (I’ve found this is a key element that my hair is really attracted to).
  • Works great as a DT (especially after henna), leave-in, and co-wash.
  • Finally, and very important ladies, the smell alone is guaranteed to get you some. My hubby was losing his mind, face and fingers all in my tresses…you know how I do.
Price and Where to Buy: $6.99/130z --purchase from Walgreens and other drug stores

Ingredients: 
Dl Water (- Aqua) , Cetyl Alcohol , Behentrimonium , Cetearyl Alcohol , Cetearyl Glucoside , Glyceryl Stearate , Glycerin , Cyclomethicone , Dimethicone , Jojoba Oil , Panthenol , Silk Amino Complex , Coconut Milk , Egg White Protein , Coconut Oil , Tocopheryl Acetate (- Vitamin E) , Tetrasodium EDTA , Fragrance , DMDM Hydantoin, Methylchloroisothiazolinone, Methylisothiazolinone

This post was originally published in 2009 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

Reduce Tangles and Time on Wash Day with These Easy Steps!

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Do you dread wash day? I have to be honest – I definitely did. At least, until recently. I’ve finally figured out a way to keep tangles at bay in preparation for wash day while enjoying an attractive, wearable style with my natural hair.

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STEP 1
The first step is to dampen hair with water and then add conditioner with slip to hair BEFORE washing hair if you are using a shampoo.

Be sure to let the conditioner stay on the hair about 5-10 minutes to soften it. If you are using a cleansing conditioner, be sure to let it sit on the hair a few minutes before cleansing to allow for easier detangling. Follow up by thoroughly wetting and cleansing the hair, and if you haven’t detangled your hair yet, go ahead and do it now from the roots to the ends. Also, be sure to still condition your hair if it was shampooed.

STEP 2
The next really important thing to do is to employ protective styling by gathering the hair as if you were going to put it into a ponytail at the base of the neck.

Instead of putting it to to a ponytail, put it into a single braid at the base of the neck, or if you have short hair, use the smallest number of twists possible for your hair’s length. Allow the hair to thoroughly dry while in the braid and when you take it down, it should have a nice wave. Pull hair forward or carefully separate the hair to style it the way that you like, being careful to protect the wave pattern of the hair. Another plus is the fact that the hair will be stretched because of the braid, so you should enjoy a bit of curl elongation with this protective styling. If your hair is not shoulder length, use the smallest number of braids possible to keep the hair detangled.

STEP 3
The third step is to maintain the tangle-free state of the hair by repeating the single braid or limited number of twists every night.

A little aloe vera juice or your favorite leave- in conditioner can be lightly misted before re-braiding the hair to be sure that the hair is not beginning to tangle. By repeating this quick, short braiding process on a daily basis, you can enjoy tangle-free tresses for wash day and also enjoy a low maintenance style daily.

Admittedly, this process will initially require some patience. If it is consistently repeated, however, tangles can definitely be minimized and even avoided. As with many things in life, the key to this routine is consistency. But when wash day rolls around and your hair is pretty much tangle free, it will undeniably be absolutely worth it!

Short Hair Swag, I Got It.

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Hola Chicas!

All my life I had to fight, and tuck and pin... trying to achieve short hurr swag without committing.  Well yesterday I decided to stop playing and get in formation.

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I wanted this--


But compromised with this--



...'cause I still needed to be able to achieve a mom bun AND big ass natural hair situations.

If you're in DC and want a professional, extra sharp, shape-up, Carlos at Corte Salon is the man.  He's a professional, funny, natural hair advocate with magical shears.  Got me looking badder than a 3 year old. #FinallyBoutThatLife

Later Gators,
Nik

p.s. FYI- The cut is a blunt, collar-length bob. No layers.  He blew me out for the precision trim and I slept in 6 bantu knots for texture.

5 Reasons Why You Can’t Find Products That Work For Your Hair

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by Michelle Thames of HappilyEverNatural.com

Today, there are a TON of products in the natural hair.  It seems that a new one is released every day! And while I love taking long walks in the product aisle *cues music*, I know that so many options can be a problem for some folks. Do you have too many products and can't figure out what actually works for your hair? Below you'll find the top 5 reasons for why you can't find products that work for your hair!

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You Buy Everything
And I mean everything you see! You my dear are a product junkie. You buy every new product that comes out. You love how it feels to purchase products so you do it all the time! Sound familiar? Everything does not work for everybody. Take the time to inventory the products that you have first to determine what you want to try next instead of buying any and everything.

You Don’t Give Products a Fair Chance
You only use the product once and you never really give it a fair chance. I use products 2 and 3 times in different ways to ensure that it does or does not work for my hair. It’s a trial and error process and in order to see the best results with products you have to test them out in multiple ways. Try it on a twist out, try it with a braid out, wash n go, or rod set. Figure out why you may like a product (take a look at the top 5 ingredients) and write it down so that you look for similar attributes in another product you may want to try. This is the same for products that you don’t like-- write down the reasons why you don’t like the product and use that to find products that work for you!  Keep good records in your hair journal and product shopping will get easier and easier.

You Don’t Use The Product Properly
You may have used that co-wash incorrectly, or you may not have left that new deep conditioner in for long enough. Read the directions for products carefully and try to follow them as best as you can for your hair to see the best results.

You Don’t Read Reviews
Reviews by others who have used the products I want to try help me a whole lot! If all they have is 1 star, walk away! If you don’t read any good reviews then you don’t need to try it!

You Don’t Know Your Hair Type or Texture 
By hair type I am including porosity, curly, wavy etc. I really don’t like to use 3a b c, but it does play a role in finding products. Some products work better than others on different types of hair. Your hair porosity determines a lot when looking for products. Your hair may not like protein if you have low porosity hair so you should stay away from products with excessive protein. Knowing your hair porosity can help you tremendously when searching for products that work.

Are you having trouble finding products that work?

5 Black Owned Natural Hair Brands to Try

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by Jascmeen of Jascmeen.com

Let’s face it, even with our go-to’s and grails, we can’t help but to experiment with new lines and products. The Black haircare industry is a potentially $500 billion dollar industry, so why not put some of our own money back into our own community? Here are a few Black-owned beauty business that are making waves and are definitely deserving of your support.

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1.Tree Naturals
Founded by LaTresha Sayles, Tree Naturals is an all natural hair care line centered around an Asian spa experience.

Try their Honey, Fruit & Flowers Milk, a multi-use styler, detangler, leave-in, and curl reviver.

2. Wonder Curl
Wonder Curl products aim to not only treat curls, but to cut down on overall styling time. The entire line is free of pthalates, silicones, and parabens and never tested on animals.

Try their Butter Than Love Pudding created with castor oil and Shea butter.

3. It’s Yours Hair Co.
It’s Yours Hair Co. is no newcomer in the natural hair world. They have been on the scene since 2001 as a seller of human hair extensions. Recently the brand has expanded to include hair care products.

Try their Tea Tree Conditioner on your next co-wash, it’s formulated with peppermint and tea tree oil to gently cleanse your scalp and stimulate hair growth.

4.  Huetiful
The Huetiful brand is all about hydration. Most known for their hair and facial steamer, Huetiful’s hair products aim to offer simple ways to retain moisture for shiny, frizz-free hair.

Try their Macadamia Nut Deep Repair Masque to help prevent breakage and make hair more manageable.

5. Karen’s Body Beautiful
Karen’s Body Beautiful is an all natural skin and hair line founded by Karen Tippin in 2003. Now with a loyal following and a store in Brooklyn, Karen and her “naturally chic” goodies are front and center.

Try their Beauty Boss 101 Leave-In Conditioner created with castor and sunflower seed oil, carnauba and candelilla waxes, aloe vera oil, and Vitamin E.

Got a favorite Black-owned beauty brand you want to shout out? Tell us in the comments!

Maiya- 'I wanted to do the big chop because I wanted all of my hair back...'

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Tell me a little about yourself and your hair journey. 
My name is Maiya Jackson. I’m from Bridgeport, CT. I’m a 22 year old female who started my natural hair journey on September 12, 2014. I remember telling my mother the week before that I wanted to do the big chop because I wanted all of my hair back. She thought I wasn’t serious because I always ended up cutting my hair. Growing up I had a lion’s mane. Kids used to put sand in my hair in the playground and pull on it. One day I woke up feeling like a different person. I needed a fresh start and I wanted to start with MY hair. Throughout my high school experience I’ve had many different hairstyles. Shaved sides, mushroom cut, Rihanna cut, braids, ponytails, highlights. I’ve done it all. I felt it was time for a change. So why not try the natural hair journey and grow all of my hair back. I was determined, dedicated and motivated to have beautiful healthy hair. I didn’t know all of the work I had to do to get to where I am now. As I look back on how far I’ve come, I can truly say every good and bad hair day was worth it. Every stage is different and may be difficult for some but I’m telling you to stick it out because you’ll be in love with the end results. You can always cut it and try again. It’s just hair, right?

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How long have you been natural? Have you always embraced your curls?
I’ve been natural for 2 years now. I never embraced my natural hair. As a young girl, my mother always took care of my hair and she always kept it styled in braids with the colorful bows or bantu knots.

What motivated you to transition? Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper & why?
Two years after I graduated high school, I felt I needed a major change in my life. Having a hard time figuring out what that change should be and when that change would come, I tried everything from switching up my wardrobe to increasing my vocabulary. Lol one day I woke up and decided the change I needed was to grow my hair out from the beginning. Knowing what I needed to do, I told my mother about how that would make me feel and change my perspective; she said she was okay with it. The next week I asked my older sister to take me to the barbershop. Once there, I told the barber to cut everything off. At first, he was hesitant but I told him it was okay because that was something I wanted to do and it was best for me. That day changed my life for the better.

How would you describe your hair?
I would describe my hair as kinky/coily. When I started the natural hair journey my hair was extremely curly and dry. I went through $500+ worth of products just to figure out which products worked best for my hair. Once I got to the second stage, I realized my curl pattern changed immensely and it was much easily to handle and care for my hair. Not only was it growing in length but also in thickness. My hair has always been thick but seeing it in such a healthy state was so amazing to me. That showed me that I shouldn’t give up growing out my hair because I had a major goal I wanted to reach. I am now at the third stage of my natural hair journey and this is my favorite stage so far. My hair has so much volume, my curls bounce and my hair is always moisturized. I cannot wait to hit the fourth stage and go from there.

What do you love most about your hair?
What I love most about my hair is the curl pattern and how it cooperates with me. Nowadays I have more good hair days than bad ones. Which is so good because my photos come out how I want them and knowing that my hair is exactly how I pictured it when doing it makes me so happy. I love how everyone I know or everyone who knows me has seen how much it has grown and how beautiful my mane has become.

What has been the most memorable part of your journey? Has it been easy or difficult or both?
The most memorable part of my journey so far has been the big chop. It was such a relief being able to start over.


What are (or were) some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles or current do’s?
My favorite transitioning hairstyle is twists. Has been my favorite style since I was able to have the twists actually stay twisted. Now that my hair is long enough and easier to manage my current favorite is styling my hair in two buns. It’s so easy and I don’t spend that much time doing my hair. Just add water, a little bit of product and be on my way.

What have your experiences been as a ‘natural.’ Any memorable reactions from family or others?
My experiences have been eye opening. Seeing myself grow as a person, seeing my hair grow so fast. Understanding that it’s a journey I need to enjoy. Every minute of it. I love when people tell me how much they love my hair and when people ask for hair tips or which products I use. I. A way I’m helping them out and in a way they’re helping me.

What is your hair regimen (including fav products)?
I have many hair regimens. My summer hair regimen is my favorite. It’s a lot easier doing my hair in the summer. I don’t have to do much and my hair doesn’t dry out as fast. Sometimes I blow my hair out to get the full effect of my fro. The only time I brush or comb my hair is when I need to get knots out of my curls or when I want to twist my hair. Scrunchies without metal are my best friend. I love having my hair up and out of my face. Especially when it’s hot outside. My favorite oils are Tea Tree Oil, Moroccan Oil, Avocado Oil, Almond Oil, Jamaican Black Castor Oil and Olive Oil. A majority of people use Coconut Oil but that doesn’t do anything for my hair except dry it out. I stick with Shea Moisture, As I Am and Carol’s Daughter products. Eco Styler Gel in the yellow jar with the red top is one of my favorite products. Carol’s Daughter Black Vanilla Hair Oil, Carol’s Daughter Healthy Hair Butter, Shea Moisture Coconut and Hibiscus Smoothie, As I Am Smoothing Gel and Curling Jelly Coil and Curl Definer, As I Am CocoSheaWhip.


What are some of your favorite natural hair websites, YouTuber’s, or Blogs?
My favorite natural hair pages on Instagram are MyHairCrush, NaturalChixs (I’m featured on both). My favorite natural hair YouTubers are FusionofCultures, simplybiancaalexa, NaturalNeiicey, Naptural85, and Chime (HairCrush). I don’t have any favorite natural hair websites. When I started my journey I used Pinterest a lot. Just to find hairstyles and what products to try out. I loved seeing pictures of women and how every woman had different hair textures.

Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
I want people to understand that the natural hair journey isn’t easy. There will be bumps in the road and you’ll have days when you just want to give up trying to grow all of your hair. I’m going to tell anyone who is having trouble or who wants to reconsider trying this journey out, stick with it! The end results will be worth it and you get to see how much your hair grows. Not only that but you always grow as a person. It’s a process but without progress you won’t move forward. Ask questions about products and ways to do your hair. Ask how to deal with heat and cold winter days. Ask ask ask. You learn so much from different people. It’s just an amazing experience. I encourage anyone who feels they need a change to cut their hair. Maybe you need change. Change is always good.



Where can people find you for more information?
You can find me on Instagram (artsmai) Snapchat (minimaiy) and Tumblr (himai) or reach me at my email (jacksonmaiya@live.com). Don’t be afraid to find me. I’m very openminded and outgoing. I love networking and meeting new people.

The Sponge Method for Curl Definition- #BoutThatTWALife

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The sponge method is the perfect refresher method that literally takes 5 minutes to do. It's used for short hair and TWA's, but can probably be used for any sized afro if you're looking for some definition. It helps get rid of frizz and gives your TWA some defined coils. You can get these sponges at any auto store, Walmart, and even some beauty supply stores are now carrying them. 

Watch as Shekia Renea removes frizz from her TWA using the sponge method for curl definition! 


What You Need:

  • Sponge (bought mine from Autozone for $1.99) 
  • Curls Unleashed Curl Refresher (or any refresher of your choosing) 
Steps: 
  1. Cut thumb sized holes in a large sponge
  2. Apply your curl refresher evenly over the entire head 
  3. Press the sponge onto your head, and move it in a circular motion 
  4. You want to choose the same direction (either clockwise or counter clockwise) for the entire styling. 
  5. Changing direction will disrupt the curls and unravel them. 
  6. Do this over your entire head and you're done!
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Have you ever tried this?! Share below!

This article was originally published in September 2014 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.
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