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Got Dry, Greasy Natural Curls? Skip the Hair Butter.

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CurlyNikki Says: 
SheaMoisture products are an 'oh-hell-naw' for my fine, natural curls.  I've revisited the Smoothie many times with absurd results (DRY, heavy, frizzy, piece-y hair).  I opt for lightweight, water based products for fluffy, soft, voluminous results.  My current fave is Giovanni's Direct Leave-in (followed up with a light layer of oil applied to my ends), but I'm still on the hunt! 


I’m a type 4 natural and I hate hair butters and oils. Now that I’ve said it, all the women who would like to tell me how I’m using them incorrectly or that I used too much listen carefully because I hate repeating myself: I just don’t like them. Deal with it.

It’s been said time and time again that what works for one natural does not work for all, and never has this been truer for me than when I started my natural hair journey. Naturally I entered my hair type and went to my appropriate forum and began asking way too many questions and stalking countless women. I wanted hair like the women whom I admired and thought that if I followed their regimens and used what they did, then my hair would be just like theirs.


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Myth: All Type 4s Like Butters
Off I went to hunt down shea butter and oils, which was no easy task in Canada. I then proceeded to mix and whip and create my hair concoctions. Now imagine my dismay when time and time again I was left with dry, greasy, crunchy hair. Oh, and I vividly remember the oil stains from layering my leave-in then my moisturizer then my sealant. Those were not good times. It was always a constant guessing game to figure out how much product was too much or too little and, frankly, I just got fed up.

I finally figured out that my hair’s issues were because of the butters by complete accident when I just went to bed with a liquid leave-in in my hair one night. One can imagine how confused I was to find soft, shiny, moisturized hair the next morning. I continued to experiment with this by adding butters and oils slowly back into my regimen to see if they were the culprit, and now I can say with certainty that I am one of those type 4 naturals who can’t stand the stuff.

Truth: I’m Not The Only One
Since writing my last post where I briefly touched on this issue, it seems that I am not the only one. Thank God. It was getting lonely in this corner. There are probably many more women out there, but they might not figure it out anytime soon since the myth that all type 4s should use heavy products and layer is so deeply entrenched in the natural hair community. Couple that with the fact that most popular brands have this unnatural love affair with shea butter and fill their products with oil, it’s no wonder that many women have not been able to figure it out.

I just want to take this time to ask natural haired companies ever so nicely to pretty, pretty please create more products that are water based and have oils way down on the ingredients list. ‘Tis all I ask.

For the women who are reading this who can relate to having dry, greasy hair, the problem may not be solved by switching to another brand of products with shea as the first ingredient and oils for the rest. This is insanity, people. Just once try conducting this experiment to see if you too can join team #saynotobutter.

Advice: Test It Before Your Buy It
Go shopping for a liquid leave-in that is water based. Rub the product on your hand and allow it to be absorbed. If it leaves behind an oil stain, then quickly and without hesitation put it back on the shelf and move along until you find a product that leaves your hand moisturized without the stain.
Once home cleanse your hair then apply your product and style as usual. If once dry you are left with soft moisturized hair, then you know that you are one of us. If not, then your dryness and oiliness could be because you are using too much product. Remember you should only dip a finger or two into the jar to scoop up product not the whole hand.

And, just in case you were wondering, my favorite mix of all time for my hair is 2 parts liquid moisturizer or leave-in for 1 part aloe vera gel or juice. The moisturizer plus the shine and hold from the aloe vera gave me the best twist outs to date.

It felt good getting that off my chest. I’ve heard confession is good for the soul, so let me know of your hate for butters or your undying love for them.

And as always, remember to have love peace and curly haired bliss.

Are you #TeamHairButter?

Rebecca- "I didn't like it at first!'

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Tell me about yourself
My name is Rebecca. I am 22 years old and currently live in New York. I got my last relaxer in August of 2012.  I transitioned for about 16 months and big chopped on December 16, 2013.

What motivated you to transition?
After watching the movie Good Hair, it fueled my interest with natural hair. It really intrigued me that, as African American women, we are content going to the extreme of putting unknown chemicals on our hair to alter the texture. While becoming uncomfortable with relaxing my hair, I also realized how damaged my hair became. My hair was not growing past shoulder length and I needed a change.


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What was your initial reaction to your natural hair?
To be honest, I did not like it at first! Transitioning was a tough process for me. I tried numerous hairstyles; however, they never came out the way that I wanted them to. I loved my curl pattern, but I was not comfortable with the length of my hair after the big chop. While adjusting to that, I tried braids and Havana twists to retain length.

How did family and friends react to the new you? What was your response to them?
My friends loved my hair, but some of my family members had mixed emotions. My parents did not like the way that I styled my hair and were very vocal of that. I honestly did not care about their opinion of my hair. My family realized how comfortable I became wearing my natural hair and later accepted it. My mother is even thinking of going natural now also!

What were your staple hair styles during transitioning?
I rarely wore my hair out, so I did a lot of high buns, twists, and puffs.


What has been the most memorable moment in your natural hair journey?
It may sound cliché, but big chopping my hair was the most memorable moment for me. During transitioning, I was contemplating relaxing my hair again because I had mixed emotions about cutting off inches of my hair. I used to believe that a woman was beautiful only with straight, long hair. When I finally decided to big chop, I rid myself completely of that mindset. It slowly changed my perception of beauty and helped me to embrace our beautiful natural hair.

What is your hair regimen?
My hair has a tendency to get extremely dry, so water is bae! I co-wash once a week with a cheap conditioner (Suave or Tresemme) and spritz my hair with castor oil and water at night. My staples on wash day include the As I am Coconut Co-Wash, SheaMoisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie, and Castor Oil.

Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational Words?
One thing I regret about my natural hair journey is not embracing my hair at every stage. Our hair is so versatile and unique. So embrace your beautiful curls despite what stage you are in!

Where can people find you for more information?
Instagram: Rebecca_whitney
Snapchat: rebeccawhitney

5 Chic Hairstyles for Transitioners!

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 by Kanisha Parks of BlackNaps.org

If you are currently transitioning, then you know how difficult it can be to maintain two different textures. Detangling becomes a bit more challenging so when it comes to styling, you really want to keep it simple. Sticking to styles that are easy to do will decrease manipulation of the two textures and therefore lessen the chances of breakage and shedding.

If you’ve had trouble styling or simply want to discover a few styles to implement in your transitioning regimen that are easy to achieve but also fabulous, we’ve got you covered! These styles will help blend your textures and get you through the week. Plus, we made it easy for you: all of these styles start with the letter B, just like Black Naps. (See what we did there?) As always, make the style your own and have fun with it!

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1. Braidouts. Braidouts are one of the easiest and simplest ways to blend your two textures and come out with a dope style. You can do multiple braids for a more defined look like NaturalNeiicey does in the video below, or just do two for a “big hair” result. Either way, make sure you rod the ends of your braids with flexi rods or perm rods. This will give your hair a curl so your style won’t have straight, scraggly ends. Fluff it up to add an extra boost of fabulousness!


2. Buns. Some days you just won’t feel like dealing with your hair at all. Maybe you don’t have the time to spend on an intricate style, you just want something simple, or want to salvage a bad hair day. This is when buns come in! There are a million and three ways to do buns: they can be done on old hair, freshly washed hair, or with added extensions. You can make it fancy but a simple, classic bun like this throwback from SmartistaBeauty will never go out of style:


3. Blowouts. It may seem like too much for transitioning hair to handle, but blowouts are actually a great way to stretch transitioning hair when done properly! They prepare the hair for virtually any style, including all of the styles mentioned in this post. Plus, when you begin with a blowout, you’ll be able to style hair that is pretty much all one pattern. Be sure to use a heat protectant and blow dry the hair cautiously, using a modified tension method that RenieceHairTV demonstrates. This method will keep your hair from drying out at the ends and also get your roots straight. (Video begins at 1:15).


4. Bantu Knots. This is yet another great way to blend textures and come out with an incredible style. Bantu knots result in beautiful corkscrew curls that can be transformed into updos, frohawks, or other styles if you desire. When styling these, be sure to detangle properly like TiffanyNicholsDesign and not to install them too tightly. Take your time when unraveling in order to ensure a frizz-free style that is sure to impress.


5. Box Braids. Long-term protective styling is a great alternative to daily/weekly styling when transitioning. Getting yourself a set of box braids will give you a much needed break when necessary or even keep you from doing the big chop if tempted. Moisturize them every 2-3 days to keep your scalp from becoming dry, and to preserve the style for 4-6 weeks. Upon takedown, remove any shed hair before washing and take your time with detangling to prevent breakage. You can install these yourself like JourneytoWaistLength or go to a trusted stylist.



What's your favorite transitioning style?

You Don't Want Stuff. You Want 'Feels'. #LifeHack

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Hola Chicas,

You know that amazing feeling when-
  • they finally drop the beat?  
  • Bae has you at that angle?!
  • your twists were like 'barely', but your twist-out is BOMB?!
  • Bae tells you that you can upgrade that rock (again-again)?
What if I told you that you can feel these good feels all the time? And that these 'positive' circumstances are just empty symbols that allow you torelax your mindlong enough to experience your default state of love, joy and happiness? Choosing to wait for that tax refund, that promotion, that 'perfect weight'... choosing to wait for 'symbols' or 'permits' before you allow yourself to feel happy is a CHOICE.  A tragic one, actually. But you already knew that, you just forgot. 

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In a previous post, we discussed how the world you perceive 'OUTSIDE' of you, reflects what's 'INSIDE' of you.  Our circumstances don't actually dictate our mood, but since we've believed this for so long, it certainly appears that way.  If you're fed up with feeling crappy, or worse, 'just regular'... like, 'whatevs', and you want to feel incredible and excited about your life, then you have to break the cycle.  Yep, that cycle you didn't even know yo' ass was in. 

If your circumstances take their direction from you, but you're taking direction from your circumstances, can you see why you're all struggly? For example-- you've disrespected your finances two months in a row, and have more bills than money.  Naturally, you feel 'struggly'.  Your circumstances pick up on the struggle and serve up even more struggly circumstances for you to feel all struggly about. #Looped #PoThang

We can break this dreadful cycle by choosing happiness, joy and appreciation in spite of struggly circumstances.  And yes, this sounds counter-intuitive and yes, it will feel incredibly fake, but keep at it until feeling good for no reason feels just as natural to you as feeling bad or 'just regular' feels today.  For a while, you'll still see #TheStruggle looking back at you, but if you remain persistent in your decision to #ChooseHappiness, you'll watch everything around you (the reflection) mold and shift to the new you.  The moment you stop needing 'stuff' to make you happy, will be the moment that 'stuff' just shows up... effortlessly! #NeedNothing #ManifestEverything


I've already shared tips on how I choose happiness (be mindful, just choose, listen to music), but I wanted to add a few more things--

(1) How would you feel if?
Play this game until you can simply choose happiness.

Sit down somewhere quiet, close your eyes and imagine what it would feel like if _______ (insert awesome ish you desire, here).   It doesn't matter what 'it' is because remember, 'it' is just an empty symbol to allow yourself to feel good!  'It' could be Idris following you on Twitter, a new car, or a trip to Brazil.  Whatever 'it' is, imagine what it would feel like to have 'it' right NOW... right here.  This is important.  Don't watch yourself turning up in an Brazilian club like you're watching a movie, or viewing yourself form the third-person.  I want you to see that Brazilian #TurnUp from your first-person point of view (you only ever see your torso, legs, feet and arms, but never your face, unless you're looking in a mirror-- think first-person video game).  See your arm reaching out to grab that Caipirinha from the bartender, look over and see your BFF's smiling face... she's clearly lit, lol, look down and see your body gettin' it when the DJ drops the beat! 

Once you feel 'it' (for me it's like little tingly waves/vibrations/light pleasurable contractions in my tummy-- like post orgasm #TMI), stay there and remember how 'it' feels.  Pretty soon, you'll be able to feel those good, tingly feels without imagining any symbols.  It'll be instant and you can choose that vibration all the time! 

(2) THIS.
Pay attention to the good feels the next time something awesome happens to you.  What happens in your body?  Again, with awareness, you'll be able to access this same feeling without symbols or imagination. Alternatively, you can follow the steps in the above bullet, but use a past triumph/award in place of 'it' or the thing desired.  Either way, the purpose is to get familiar with what the happy feeling feels like, so that you can feel it anytime, no matter the situation. Remember, it's your default state, so that good feeling is always there, it's just that thoughts and negative beliefs ('I can only feel happy if______ happens') covers it up. You really don't have to do anything to feel it, but STOP and BE.

(3) Keep tabs.
Motivation to keep this up can be a challenge.  It seems like a lot of effort at first, and again, it'll feel fake.  But you have to stay with it.  I found that it helped to keep a running tab in my iPhone Notes of the good ish that was showing up in my life.  The more awesomeness you see reflected because of your simple shift in mood, the more you'll be likely to stay the course.  This has the added bonus of tapping into gratitude (for the good in your life) and then circumstances will have no choice but to give you more to be grateful for!

Later Gators,
Nik

p.s. Please don't take my word for it.  Just give it a try...unless what you're doing right now is working for you... naw? Then what do you have to lose?!  Give it a day... give it a week... go for a month and #JustWatch

p.p.s. This is not to say that 'bad things won't ever happen. But you'll notice that you'll be in a better mental space to cope with the 'bad stuff'.  You'll also find that you won't stay down as long as you used to.  For instance, you'll allow yourself to grieve the loss of a loved one, but at the same time feel their presence right there with you, even in that terrible moment.  You'll still experience sadness, but there will be an unshakable peace and joy right under the surface.  #BeStill #HesHere

Um...Not All Coils Are Thick!

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I hated relaxer day! While many women looked forward to fixing their roots and having swinging’ hair, I hated my freshly done hair.

Why you ask? Because it had no life. It was long, jet black and perfectly straight, but it was thin. If placed in a ponytail, it looked bald from afar, and dropping it and having it fall lifelessly around my face was never an option. Add to the mix my disastrous encounter with a certain product line which won’t be named that broke and thinned out my hair some more, let’s just say that what the doctor prescribed was not the miracle for my hair. I was so fed up that I decided to go natural and have the thick gorgeous hair of which I had always dreamed.

I wanted disrespectfully big hair that blocked people in movie theaters and required people to walk around it on the sidewalk. I wanted to rock twists and big, yet defined, twist and braid outs. I wanted feel the wind blowing through my hair, not on my scalp.

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Fast forward two years and I’m still waiting for the thickness, but tomorrow I’ll look like Chaka.
The truth is, not every natural has thick hair. More specifically, not every natural in the 4 category has thick hair. Because of my coils and waves when I wear my hair loose, it appears to be denser than it really is, but the moment I twist or braid my hair it becomes very apparent that I just wasn’t blessed with a lot of hair. If you are a fine haired natural, you can probably relate to a lot of my issues.
I know it’s wrong to be jealous, but I have to admit that I’m envious of thick haired people and all their hair. I know, I know, thick hair people want finer hair too. The grass is greener on the other side I guess. Either way, I have good reasons for wanting your thick mane!

When I was newly natural, I wanted to speed up my growth and thought I’d take a stab at some protective styling. After three plus hours I looked at the front of my hair and thought, “Not bad for my first try.”

I then left my house and thought I looked good, but once arriving home and looking at the back I was dismayed to find that I showed more scalp than twist. Unlike my thick or medium haired sisters, I simply don’t have enough hair to rock juicy twists, and I hate that. But I have found a few ways around this issue:
  1. Blow drying my hair first then twisting it prevents shrinkage and “scalpiness.”
  2. Doing smaller plaits, as small plaits equal thicker looking hair while bigger plaits show off my scalp more.
  3. Parting the hair diagonally or in a brick like pattern.
Over Fluffing 
As a fine haired natural, hiding my scalp is something I have become accustomed to. When I see videos with women simply unraveling and separating twists for fierce twist outs, I have to fight my inner jealous self. After releasing my twists, I have to do just about everything to hide my scalp.
I have tried fluffing both upright and with my head upside down, separating twists until no end, massaging my scalp and combing out my roots. And don’t get me started on the yoga/gymnastic twists I have to do in front of the mirror with another one in my hand assessing the back of my head for peek-a-boo scalp. But, after many a trial and tribulation, I have figured out that if I style on already stretched hair I can get more volume. 

I’m going to give it to you straight, no chaser: you are going to have to sacrifice definition for bigness, because we thin haired girls will have to separate and fluff more than the average curly.
Now that I’ve ranted and raved and doled out a little advice, I feel so much better. But it would be good to know that I’m not the only one, so let me know about your experiences with thin hair.

Where the Honest Product Reviews At, Tho? #HolyGrail #OrNah

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can you guess my new holy grail, dry twist-n-curl product?!

Hola Chicas,

Up until 2008, there was a dearth of natural hair information online (other than forums and Motown Girl).  Enter the Blogger/Vlogger-- Afrobella, BlackGirlLongHair, KimmayTube, NaturalChica and myself-- and while I can't speak for everyone, our mission was to not only bring accessible, relatable information on transitioning to natural hair, but to share honest, objective product reviews with the readers-- to save y'all time and money.  I stopped doing reviews a couple of years ago for 3 reasons--

(1) the natural hair movement exploded all over the internets and there were tons of excellent, objective reviews available via Youtube and various blogs. 

(2) it's hard to get motivated to try new things when you know that using Holy Grail ProductX will yield mostly predictable results.

(3) I stopped accepting boxes of product from brands because paid reviews aren't a part of my business model and I haven't been impressed in a long, long time.  

But here's the thing-- since so many people think that natural hair blogging & vlogging is big business, it seems that there aren't many objective reviews out there anymore... just little whack commercials.  #DoBetter

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All of that to say, I found myself on the hunt for a new product to set my dry twist-n-curls.  I like the finance-disrespecting Ouidad Hydrafusion, but you have to apply it to damp hair, lest you get ALL the flakes.  Giovanni Direct Leave-in is okay for a dry set, but you bet'not try to re-apply that joint in a few days... all the flakes.  And finally, Oyin's Hair Dew is awesome and moisturizing on dry hair, but it's a conditioner and has zero holding agents and can get heavy after re-application. 

So I went to Target and spent about 30 minutes in the aisle reading label claims and comparing ingredients.  I peeped all the usual suspects (most of which I've tried) and some newbies (which I want to try!) but found myself eying Taliah Waajid's Crinkles and Curls and her Protective Mist Bodifier.  It was on the bottom shelf and while I've seen the brand before (at nearly every beauty supply since nineteen hundred and ninety-five), I've never been swayed to purchase.  I jumped on Amazon (one of the only places I can get an honest review these days) and saw that both had great reviews... the price was right too.  #Boom

I've used it 4 times now with the same results-- shiny, defined, moisturized, full-looking hair.  It doesn't build-up (at least it hasn't yet) and it has some of the same active ingredients as Ouidad's Hydrafusion at a fraction of the price! #Winning

I'll keep experimenting and holla back,
Nik

On dry hair (an old, dry Twist-n-Curl), I created 11 two strand twists (flat-twisted the roots) and rolled the ends (up to my chin) on gray perm rods.  I used the Bass brush to gently detangle each section after applying a little Mist Bodifier (no water, just product) and then twisted with the Crinkles and Curls.  I allowed it dry (which was quick as hell-- much quicker than with Oyin or Giovanni) overnight and then released the twists and fluffed with my scalp massager.  Next up, I'll be trying the products out on a wet set and on Boogie!

The Mist Bodifier looks like a liquid leave-in, but it isn't.  It reminds me of Giovanni Direct, just a little thinner and with more moisture.  The Crinkles and Curls looks just like any other foaming setting lotion, but it's magic, tho.  (unlike Jane Carter's Twist-Out Foam and Creme of Nature's Argan Oil Style and Shine Foam which left me crunchy, dry and confused). 


with the flash!


What say you?  Have you tried these products?

If you know of a site that gives good and fair product reviews share it with us in the comments section!

Kena Is Naturally Glam!

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Tell me about yourself!
My name is Kena. I'm a mother of three.  I'm also helping to raise my sister's three boys, after she suddenly passed away in June 2013 from an asthma attack. I live in South Carolina. I was born in Brooklyn, New York. I'm a southern girl at heart with deep Southern roots. I'm very family oriented. I love my family and very I'm thankful for the way our mom raised us to always have each other's backs and love each other no matter what. I love helping others. I'm known to reach out, especially to women and children. I love giving advice, which comes from years of first hand experience. I try to put God first in all things. Although I'm a work in progress, I'm humble enough to know that nothing is possible without God. That's my belief and it's how I've managed to get through many trying times in my life

Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper? What was your journey like?
I big chopped on June 29, 2013. It was two weeks after my sister passed away. I was already tired of relaxers by this time. My sister and I had many conversations about natural hair before we lost her. I knew it would only be a matter of time before I took the plunge and join #teamnatural. My sister, Madeline, was the one who helped me make the final decision to do the BC and rock my natural hair.

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My natural hair journey been lots of fun, filled with trial and error. I've watched many tutorials and read so many blogs trying to learn as much as possible about natural hair, curls, moisture, porosity, dos, dont's, etc. I look forward to every stage of the natural hair journey!

Had you always embraced your texture?
I hadn't really been able to embrace my texture until I finally allowed my hair to return to its natural state. When I was very young, I remember our mom would spend hours washing, braiding, using a hot comb to straighten my three sisters and my hair. We all had really long hair, so I look back and truly appreciate her even more for the time and care she put into maintaining our hair. After a while, she got tired of all the hair and the routine and decided we would get Vigorols (a relaxer) instead. I knew I had good hair, but it was hidden behind 30+ years of relaxers! I finally got tired of the relaxer routine, went to my stylist and got her to cut my hair to the point of no relaxer, which resulted in a really short, boy cut. I loved it instantly.


How did family and friends react to your decision to go natural? What was your response to them? 
My family and friends were used to me cutting my hair off every time it grew back so they weren't surprised that I cut it, except that it was shorter than usual.

Describe your hair (fine or coarse, thin or thick, highly porous, low, etc.)
I have coarse, thick hair that's a mixture of 3a and 3b. It's low porosity. I had no idea about porosity in the first year after my BC. I stumbled across the meaning. I found the answers I needed when I Google'd the reason why my hair products made my hair white or didn't saturate properly, and why it always took forever to dry. I had become a product junkie and was convinced that my products weren't working but costing me a small fortune. When I realized my hair is low porosity, my hair care regimen changed and my curls stayed moisturized and beautiful longer much longer.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to your hair? 
The craziest thing I can remember doing to my hair is using red Kool-Aid packs while I was in high school to "dye" my hair. Hilarious and so messy.

What’s your biggest hair related regret?
My biggest hair related regret is not deciding to embrace my natural hair much sooner!

What's your current hair routine? How often do you wash, condition, and style? Favorite products! Deets!
My current hair routine is washing, clarifying and deep conditioning once a week. I use Organix Coconut Milk Shampoo. I clarify with one part Braggs Apple Cider Vinegar and two parts water in a spray bottle. I massage my scalp in circular motions after clarifying and wait 30 minutes before rinsing out and applying my homemade deep conditioner. I detangle my hair as I'm applying my deep conditioner. Once I've detangled all my hair, I use two shower caps to cover and protect my hair and I sit under a hooded dryer for 45 minutes to an hour. I rinse with cold water to seal my cuticles and lock in the moisture from my deep conditioner. My style depends on the weather at the time. If I choose to do a wash n go, I use a diffuser instead of air drying. I've stuck to a Wash N' Go routine since my big chop, but I love how the twist outs give me more length and less shrinkage. My favorite products are Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie(I didn't like it until I understood what low porosity hair was and what it required), Olive oil, Coconut oil, Cantu Coconut Curling Cream,  and Tresemme' Naturals conditioner to name a few.

What’s your favorite hairstyle? Where do you get hairstyle inspiration?
My favorite hairstyle is big, bouncy, curls that pop! Usually from a successful Wash N' Go. Since being natural, my hairstyle inspirations have been Mahoganycurls, MoKnowsHair, Naptural85, Mini Marley, NaturallyNeiicey and CurlyNikki. There are others, but these are the ones I've followed from almost the beginning of my natural hair journey.

Who is your curl crush?
My curl crush is Mahoganycurls without a doubt!

How do you maintain your hair at night?
I hate wearing scarves, so I use a really big silk scarf draped over my pillow. My hair isn't quite long enough for the pineapple yet, but it's coming! One of the goals I'll achieve before summer.

How do you maintain healthy length?
I maintain healthy length by sticking to a regimen that works for me. Besides having a regimen that works, I also drink lots of water and try my best to always eat things that are healthy. I clip my ends every 6-8 months or as needed.


What's the best thing about being natural?
Honestly, the best thing about being natural is the freedom. Everyone, depending on their jobs, can't express that freedom all the time. I also love the versatility that comes with natural hair. I can wear my hair naturally curly as much as I want, but if I ever decide to wear it straight, I can also achieve that look as well. I haven't been in a rush to wear it straight since my BC though. I attempted once, about a month ago, to straighten my hair and it only took me about one small section of using the flat iron, to miss my curls. I washed my hair and keep my natural curls. Maybe on my 2 year "naturalversary" I'll wear it straight. Maybe not.

Where can folks find you on the web?
You can find me on my IG page I just started, keknowscurls (a name my sister Madeline came up with for me). My email KeKnowsCurls@yahoo.com. I'm in the process of getting my YouTube channel up after being coaxed by my family and friends endlessly to get it done. I'm going to take the love and positive feedback I've received from them and use it for good. I'm fairly new to the natural hair journey but my goal is to one day be a natural hair guru too!

Donkey of the Day.

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Hola Chicas,

I ain't one to gossip, so you ain't heard it from me...

but I've heard a lot of so called, 'celebrity stylists' make disparaging comments about natural hair and now they all up in the commercials, shiny suited up, dancing like Diddy.


One in particular, Andre Walker (Oprah's stylist) has a new product called, 'Beautiful Kinks Créme Gelee', which is ironic, considering just a few years ago he said that, 'kinky' haired women should consider relaxing.  Old Andre, meet New Andre...

Read On!>>>
 Old Andre says:

“I always recommend embracing your natural texture. Kinky hair can have limited styling options; that’s the only hair type I suggest altering with professional relaxing.” (see entire article from 2011, HERE)

Old Andre's rebuttal:

“It is a fact that kinky hair (my Type 4 definition) is extremely fragile and breaks easily. Even when you are very careful, something as simple as combing can break this texture. It is very difficult to achieve a longer length when the hair breaks, even with simple combing. That being said, there is the style option of wearing braids, dreads, or twists, which allows the hair to grow longer because it is combed less often. Another style choice is to simply wear a shorter cut, which is very attractive on some women but just not right for others.

So when I say to embrace your natural texture, but consider relaxing kinky hair, am I contradicting myself? I don't think so! You see, even relaxed hair can still be worn naturally. If you want a natural look, but find that your kinky hair is difficult to manage, breaks too easily, lacks shine and luster, and limits your preferred styling options, I say feel free to consider a mild chemical relaxer, sometimes called a texturizer, that eases your hair to a more manageable texture and allows you to Make Peace With Your Hair.”

New Andre says:

"My motto for The Gold System is "Make Peace with Your Hair." Everyone has beautiful hair. Do what it does naturally. Let's embrace it!"

and


"It used to be that people looked at natural hair as unattractive or militant. It had all of these negative connotations. People wanted straight hair - the straighter the better. If you had kinky hair, that was bad hair. Today, kinky hair is considered beautiful. It's something to be embraced." (see entire interview with Michelle, HERE)

I don't know why the hell Michelle Breyer didn't ask New Andre if he had met Old Andre. #HarpoWhoDisMan
 
Later Gators,
Nik

Are you buying it? (see what I did there?)

The Power of the Natural Hair Movement on Dating

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nik and Dr. Daddy


I received many comments about my natural hair, both positive and negative. For some reason, the latter tend to weigh heavier than the former. Around the time that I started my transitioning process I met someone who became my love interest. My best friend was rocking her curly hair and as he looked at her he was touching my hair. “I really hope that your hair turns out like hers,” he said.

My first boyfriend loved my curls. Back then I was relaxing my hair and occasionally I was too lazy to straighten my hair. To be honest, he was appreciating this laziness since he was able to walk proudly next to his curly girl. He started convincing me that natural is better, since I show the real me to the world. A year after the end of our relationship, I decided to transition my hair. Why? Because I wanted to make sure that this was my own choice.

Read On!>>>

During my freshman year, I developed a love interest. This person was the opposite of me: our personality, culture and appearance differed as day and night. He always touched my hair and called it ‘fancy’. However, at some point he was expressing how he wished that my hair looked like the hair of my best friend. At some point, he came to me with a straightening iron in order to straighten my hair. Looking back, I often realize that this was no good. I do not blame others for being ignorant. Being from a different culture or having a different personal background is not always a motivation for education about other cultures. But if you are dating someone from a different ethnicity it might be worthwhile to learn about his/her ethnicity, instead of trying to influence him/her in such a way that you are changing the person…because in this case there is no love involved.

In the Netherlands we often say: ‘Shit happens, appreciate and go on’ and so I did. It took me a while to love my curl pattern, for years I hated it and many times I felt the desire to grab the relaxer and get over with it. However, I gave up many things, which I regret afterwards. My hair and my personal appearance were not going to be one of those things. Hence, I decided to adjust my hair regimen. Nevertheless, the problem with regards to my feelings and perception towards my hair did not change. So I decided to wear my hair down, no matter what. This brought me to a position in which I was at peace with myself. I no longer put my hair in a bun during dates, no…my hair was being the subject of conversations and the excuses for me being approached by other genders. I realized that the more I loved my hair, the more my surrounding loved it. A couple of weeks ago, a guy asked why I was wearing my hair in a bun: ‘Your hair is precious and you should show it to the world,” he said.

The natural hair movement is so powerful and brings light in the life of those who have difficulties accepting their hair texture. Until now, the movement successfully erased the deep-rooted beliefs that natural hair is not precious. Not to forget, this hair revolution connected naturals all over the world simply by motivating us to embrace ourselves. Every day again I am proud to be part of this movement.


Share your experiences!

SHOW AND TELL- FIERCE FRIDAY!

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Hola Chicas!

Fierce Friday is a way to celebrate our natural hair, displaying our dopest styles and best hair days... for inspiration and motivation. Wanna be featured? All you have to do is upload your favorite pics to Instagram with the tags #FierceFriday and #CurlyNikki. Be sure to share a brief description of the style, where you were headed, why you felt amazing, etc.!


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Its all in my #eyes #naturalhairjourney #curlynikki #kinkychicks #beautiful_girl #beautifulhair #naturalhair @charmingcharma

Beauty is not flawless; It shinesemoji even through your flaws... #kinkychicks #curlsaunaturel#curlynikki @amia_renee

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A New Category of Hair Care Products, And Why I'm Not Impressed. (Beware the 'Smoothing' Treatment)

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by Susan Walker of DrWalkerWellness

What began as a curious investigation into a technique and system many naturals are using to style their hair ended in anger and frustration and a revelation that as naturals, some of us a don’t feel as though our specific hair texture is “good” enough.

I’m going to preface this post by saying that my own personal bias is woven throughout because of my own personal hair journey and the thoughts, feelings and perceptions of beautiful natural hair I’ve had to fight through when it comes to my hair, to get to the place I’m at right now. It’s candid and to the point. And it may offend. You can stop here or continue to read on.

Read On!>>>
The Press Release for a new product on the market. Beautiful Textures is not the only product line that is offering these types of products. But it’s the one I’ve chosen to assess since many women are intrigued by the freedom, flexibility and – well read on.
Strength of Nature, LLC the makers of African Pride, Beautiful Textures, Mega Growth, ElastaQP, Soft&Beautful , TCB, and Proline is changing the rules in hair care with a ground-breaking new product: the Reversible™ Straightening Texture Manageability™ System! 
Now women can have the hair versatility they want without harsh chemicals and without permanently altering their curl pattern. 
Whatever your hair texture – curly, kinky-coily, wavy or frizzy – the Reversible™ Straightening Texture Manageability™ System (TMS) allows you to go from natural curls to straight styles and back again. For relaxed hair, the system extends the time between relaxer new-growth applications. 
“We’ve heard what women have been asking for,” says Strength of Nature CEO Mario de la Guardia. “They want styling versatility. They want no harsh chemicals and they want healthy hair. The Texture Manageability™ System provides all three in a simple, at-home, four-step process. This is truly a game-changer and we at Strength of Nature couldn’t be more thrilled to be ushering in a new category in hair care: texture manageability.”
The secret is the Inner-Active™ Leave-In Conditioner, which is infused with essential oils, natural butters and amino acids, and has no harsh chemicals. The Inner Active™ leave-in conditioner penetrates the hair, causing it to elongate and soften while making it easier to detangle. Once the detangling process is complete, the hair is blow-dried and flat ironed, creating beautifully straight, touchably soft hair with unmatched body, movement and shine – all in a fraction of the time of most traditional straightening methods. 
It just takes four quick steps:
Step 1: Shampoo and rinse hair 3 times. Towel dry.
Step 2: Apply leave-in conditioner. Wait 20 minutes.
Step 3: Blow dry hair using medium heat.
Step 4: Flat iron for desired results. 
TMS gives Reversible™ Straightening that lasts 4 to 6 weeks with the use of the Humidity Defense™ Anti-Reversion Shampoo and Conditioner. 
To flip back to natural, shampoo hair several times with a clarifying shampoo. 
I’m especially interested in the above paragraph:
“The secret is the Inner-Active™ Leave-In Conditioner, which is infused with essential oils, natural butters and amino acids, and has no harsh chemicals. The Inner Active™ leave-in conditioner penetrates the hair, causing it to elongate and soften while making it easier to detangle. Once the detangling process is complete, the hair is blow-dried and flat ironed, creating beautifully straight, touchably soft hair with unmatched body, movement and shine – all in a fraction of the time of most traditional straightening methods.”
If you’ve learned anything from me and my posts you’ll have basic understanding the of the hair’s chemistry.

So you know that there is NO WAY the hair texture can be modified without changing the hair’s chemistry somewhat. No way. In order for your hair to be straightened – be it temporary OR permanent – bonds need to be rearranged. And how can this be done? There are a few ways:
  • Blow drying
  • Flat ironing
  • Brazilian Hair Straightening
  • Japanese straightening system
  • Relaxer
So part of this straightening process of the Texture Manageability System process is blow drying and flat ironing the hair. We know that adding heat through these processes will straighten the hair. But the effects don’t really last 4-6 weeks unless there is some type of heat damage and the hair won’t revert to its curly state. And everyone knows that blow drying and flat ironing naturally curly hair doesn’t make it resistant to humidity. Moisture is not your best friend. So how is it that this system is able to result in hair that resists moisture?

Let’s take a look at the ingredients of the products included in the kit shall we?

Gentle Cleansing Shampoo: Aqua , Sodium Olefin Sulfonate , Shea Butter Amidopropyl Betaine , PEG-150 Distearate , PEG-75 Shea Butter Glycerides

Hmm, nothing too out of the ordinary hair. Looks like a pretty good formula.

Inner-Active Leave-In Conditioner: Aqua , Glyoxyloyl Carbocysteine , Glyoxyloyl Keratin Amino Acids, Shea Butter Aminodpropyltrimonium Chloride , CyclopentaSiloxane , dimethiconol , dimethicone crosspolymer , Silanetriol , panthenol , Isopropyl Palmitate, methylchloroisothiazolinone , methylisothiazolinone
Ahh, yes, this is worth coming back to!

Humidity Defense Anti-Reversion Shampoo: Aqua , Sodium Lauryl Ether Sulfate , Shea Butteraminopropyl Betaine , Cocamidopropyl Betaine , Cocamide MEa , Polyquaternium 67 , Ethylene Glycol Monostearate , Imidazolidinyl Urea

Looks okay. I’m leaving this alone.

Humidity Defense Anti-Reversion Conditioner: Aqua , Cetearyl alcohol , glycerin , Shea Butter Cetyl Esters , Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil , Behentrimonium Methosulfate , Shea Butter Aminopropyltrimonium Chloride , Butyrospermum Parkii Fruit (Shea Butter) , Olea Europaea Fruit Oil (Olive Oil) , Hydrolyzed Glycine Soja Protein (Hydrolyzed Soy Protein) , Mangifera Indica Seed Butter (Mango Butter) , Argan Spinosa Kernel Oil (Argan Oil) , Hydrolyzed Vegetable Protein , Cocos Nucifera Oil (Coconut Oil) , Hydrolyzed Triticum Vulgare Protein (Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein) , Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis Oil (Sweet Almond Oil) , Hydrolyzed Avena Sativa Protein (Hydrolyzed Oat) , Citrus Aurantifolia Peel Oil (Lime Oil) , Citrus Limon Peel Oil (Lemon Oil) , Citrus Limon Peel Wax , PHenoxyethanol , TBHQ , Phospholipids , Glycolipids , Glycine Soja Oil (Soybean Oil) , Glycine Soja Sterols , Hydrolyzed Keratin , Creatine , PEG 90M , Butylene Glycol , hydroxyethylcellulose , Imidazolindyl Urea , DMDM HYDANTOIN , Citric Acid , fragrance , BEnzyl Benzoate , BEnzyl Salicylate , Coumarin , d-limonene , Hexyl cinnamal , Lyral , Methyl Ionone Gamma
Ditto. 

So how does this entire process work? I found an image that perfectly depicts the experience as well as the emotions you’ll feel once you use the system and your hair is – and I quote – “more manageable”.
Screen-Shot-2014-02-03-at-12.55.12-PMYou cleanse your hair with the Gentle Cleansing Shampoo and then apply the Inner Active Leave In Conditioner. You blow dry the hair until it’s dry and then flat iron. And voila! Beautiful straight hair. Or – if you choose – more manageable curls.
Sound too good to be true? Not really if you do some research and look up women who have used the product and swear by it. And there’s no doubt in my mind that the system does what it says; that is straightens the hair. But the question is, how is it doing this?

In order to determine what’s going on we need to look at the key product in this entire process. The Inner Active Leave-in that is not to be rinsed out.

Inner-Active Leave-In Conditioner: Aqua , Glyoxyloyl Carbocysteine , Glyoxyloyl Keratin Amino Acids , Shea Butter Aminodpropyltrimonium Chloride , CyclopentaSiloxane , dimethiconol , dimethicone crosspolymer , Silanetriol , panthenol , Isopropyl Palmitate , methylchloroisothiazolinone , methylisothiazolinone

There are a few ingredients in this product but let’s concentrate on the top 5 since it’s these ingredients that determine the effect this product will have on the hair:

Water, Glyoxyloyl Carbocysteine, Glyoxyloyl Keratin Amino Acids, Shea Butter Aminodopropyltrimonium Chloride, Cyclopentasiloxane…
I especially want to focus on these two: glyoxyloyl carbocysteine and glyoxyloyl keratin amino acids.

What are they?

Before I tackle this question, let me back up a little. Let’s go to Brazil. The beginning of…
The Brazilian Keratin Treatment (also called Breezilian Brazilian Keratin Treatment, BKT,Brazilian Blowout, Escova Progressiva, Keratin Cure or Keratin Straightening)

An attempt to achieve semi-permanent to permanently straight hair that was reversion resistant was used by stylists in Brazil starting in 2003. They used a liquid or lotion containing formaldehyde (1.5-5%) and other ingredients such as keratin, conditioning agents, aldehydes or other catalysts and preservatives. They used a blow-drying system (known as “escova progressiva”). The hair is blow-dried and flat-ironed at a very high heat (450F) while the product is still on the hair. After flat-ironing the hair is rinsed and then styled.
Why formaldehyde? The use of this chemical may be new in hair care but formaldehyde treatments have been commonly used in the wool and textile industry. Since wool and the hair fiber share similarities, the use of formaldehyde on wool can give some insight into how it may work on the hair.

Formaldehyde can form cross-links with protein in specific regions of the hair to form bonds, holding them together in a semi-permanent fashion. The best pH for this reaction is between 6.0 and 7.0. The bonds don’t last forever and are broken through repeated washing cycles, allowing the hair to return to it’s previously curly state.

The smaller polypeptides and amino acids of the hydrolyzed keratin in the active liquid or lotion penetrate the cuticle and help to plump the hair and fill in gaps. The larger molecular weight portions form a film on the surface of the hair and are held there by the crosslinks. The high-temperature (and I do mean high) flat-ironing process straightens the hair and locks in the new straighter configuration. It also seals the cuticle and the keratin film on the surface.

While the hair straightened using this process was silky and shiny, there was one major drawback. Umm, the formaldehyde?!

The allowable amount of formaldehyde in hair and skin care products in many countries can’t be more that .2% free formaldehyde. Note the solutions used contained way more than this amount. 1.5-5% formaldehyde. Exposure to formaldehyde solutions can cause contact dermatitis or skin irritations. The fumes emitted during the straightening and smoothing process containing formaldehyde were cause for concern. They caused irritation of the eyes, respiratory tract, nose and throat. The could also cause burning of the eyes and throat, watering of the eyes, dry mouth, loss of smell, headache and feeling of grogginess. To top it all off, formaldehyde is a known carcinogen.
The Occupational Health and Safety Adminstration (OSHA) has three airborne exposure levels for formaldehyde:
  • Permissible Exposure Limit (PEL) of .75 ppm of formaldehyde for 8 hours
  • The action level (AL) of .50 ppm for 8 hours
  • Short Term Exposure Limit (STEL) is 2 ppm for 15 minutes
In other words, these are the maximum safe exposure levels for specific time periods.

Since the toxicity of these methods has been established, companies have been searching for ways to give women what they want. Whether natural or not, women want to have their cake and eat it too. Am I wrong? Who doesn’t want more “manageable” hair? You know, the truly “wash n go” hair that requires nothing but a light misting of water, the application of conditioner for great curl definition and that’s it. It would save women time, money and a whole lot of stress dealing with their natural hair. They would also have styling versatility without a ton of risk. They can wear their hair straight if they choose and for longer periods of time. Yes, this is what women want. This is what the press release said! Give women what they want. This new “category” of hair care. This so-called “texture manageability”. Are you kidding me? This is the name for it???

In any case, enter the Texture Manageability System. And let’s turn our attention back to the “Inner Active Leave-In Conditioner”.

From the Press Release:
“The secret is the Inner-Active™ Leave-In Conditioner, which is infused with essential oils, natural butters and amino acids, and has no harsh chemicals .”
Really? Let’s look at glyoxyloyl carbocysteine and glyoxyloyl keratin amino acids. Glyoxyloyl carbocysteine is a reaction products of glycolic acid + acetic acid + acetic acid. Glyoxyloyl keratin amino acids is the product obtained by the reaction of oxoacetamide and keratin amino acids.

It’s interesting to me, that if these ingredients ARE NOT chemicals, that they’re found on PubChem, a chemical database. What is Pubchem? PubChem is a database of chemical molecules and their activities against biological assays. Oh but I guess I missed the words “harsh chemicals”. Whatever that means.

Anyway these ingredients are relatively new so there is not much information about them. From what I have found they seem to function as anti-static compounds and hair straighteners. How do they work? The bonds in your hair that help hold its shape contain an amino acid called cysteine. When you use a product that adds more cysteine to your hair, under the right conditions of pH and temperature, you can rearrange some of the cysteine bridges and force your hair into a straighter shape.

Dr. Ali Syed, an accomplished researcher and expert in cosmetic chemistry and ethnic hair stated this:
“Some companies are starting to employ formaldehyde’s cousins such as gluteraldehyde or glyoxal in their systems and marketing that as a positive attribute. What they forget to mention is that they react with the hair in the same manner that formaldehyde does. The compounds expose the stylists and salon patrons to the exact same health issues. Gluteraldehyde or glyoxal may perhaps be weaker than formaldehyde but the companies may be using as much or even higher percentages to achieve the same effective straightening.” -Dr. Ali Syed, The Truth About Keratin (BKT) Treatments
Recently Dr. Syed conducted a study to evaluate both the effectivness and safety of the new reactive ingredient Glyoxyloyl Carbocysteine (and) Glyoxyloyl Amino Acids on smoothing and straightening the hair, and formaldehyde release on type 2A -3A hair. The reason these hair textures were chosen t0 be evaluated is that type 4 hair is usually easily straightened with conventional chemical relaxers; however type 2 and type 3 hair tends to be resistant.

It’s important to note that there are several “smoothing” systems on the market. While most systems have shampoos and follow up conditioners, the main product is the smoothing liquid or cream that goes onto the hair to do the job of straightening.

In general, the smoothing products will have the following characteristics and steps to take with some variations among brands:
  • It is based upon Glyoxylol Carbocysteine and Amino Acids at 15% active levels
  • The pH will be low – about 1.5-2.0
  • It is left on the hair for 20 to 30 minutes, blow dried in and then flat ironed at 230°C (about 450°F)
Hair is rinsed with water, shampooed gently, conditioned, and blow dried and flat ironed for final style

According to the study these smoothing systems offer the following:
  • Less damaging compared to othaer straightening systems (like relaxers)
  • Reduces hair volume for type 2A-3A hair types (the test hair types)
  • Hair is easier to comb during wet and dry combing
  • Hair has a radiant shine
  • Daily styling and manageability is a lot easier
  • During the application of the lotion and the time it sits on the hair there’s no formaldehyde detectable. However during flat ironing for about an hour levels were at .14 ppm
Compared with formaldehyde treatments, hair treated with glyoxylol carbocysteine:
  • Has less elasticity but better straightening ability
  • The ease of combing of Type 2 hair increases significantly after the treatment.
  • There’s more shine
  • Is more resistant to humidity
  • Emits less formaldehyde which falls well within the OSHA guidelines
So why am I angry?
I suppose I should be used to it by now. The shady, deceptive advertising that is done by companies. Preying upon the secret desires and fears of women and to have hair that is “more manageable” without the use of “harsh” chemicals. It’s like a relaxer without the chemicals right?

I guess I’m angrier at the message it sends to women who are natural. Those women who don’t have that desired hair texture. Let's call the texture what it is – the “feels like silk” hair strands. The truly wash n go hair. The hair that requires little work to look good instead of spending hours washing, conditioning, detangling and twisting, just to get the desired style. I feel the anger because my hair texture would be considered to be the “less manageable” texture. And I’ve fought so hard since I embraced my natural hair texture to understand it and appreciate it and truly get it and accept what I’ve been given. And I feel that some of us as natural, we haven’t truly embraced this process and we’re not truly free. So it both angers AND saddens me that “we” are asking for a new category of hair care products that chemically alters our hair without the permanence of a texturizer or chemical relaxer in order to make our hair easier to deal with.

And some naturals are truly believing what the product companies are feeding them about these types of products. I saw this on one blogger’s site:
In a nutshell, TMS is an amino acid (protein) treatment that helps you go from curly to straight and back to curly. It helps to manage your texture and helps you to achieve straightness for up to 4 to 6 weeks. BUT Beautiful Textures wants us to know it’s not a keratin treatment —keratin treatments typically have a longer “life span” in terms of how long it’s supposed to keep your hair straight. What makes it different? It doesn’t include any chemicals that permanently change your hair.”
See this statement above is why you can’t just take hair care advice and recommendations from just ANYONE. What does this mean anyway? An “amino acid treatment that helps you go from curly to straight and back to curly”… What is that?

Because this ingredient right here: Glyoxyloyl keratin amino acids tells me that there is keratin in the product. And if this blogger understood her ingredients, she would know that this is in fact a keratin treatment.

Yes, I’m a bit harsh and forgive me for being so. It’s just the that natural hair care misinformation is so pervasive that confusion, frustration and desperation is inevitable.

So where do I stand?

DO YOUR RESEARCH and know what you’re getting yourself into. You’re altering the chemistry of your hair! I don’t care how temporary or permanent it is, this is what you’re doing. The product is rearranging bonds, forming new ones and causing the hair to stay in a specific configuration.

I’m all for styling versatility and wanting to manage your hair a little easier if you find it difficult to be natural. I get it. And I’m not judging you if you want to use these systems. My only issue is you not knowing what you’re putting on your hair and how you’re taking care of it. Again it goes back to taking someone else’s word for it and not doing a thorough investigation yourself. If you’ve done the investigation, understand the risks associated with it and you’re okay with them then go ahead! And what are the risks? According to the Beauty Brains:
“These…straightening products are safer than formaldehyde-based products. However, they can damage hair by making it dry and prone to breakage. If you like the straightening effect you get from these products you may be willing to put up with some degree of damage.”
 The use of these systems depends on your natural hair philosophy. You know, that driving concept that runs through all of your decisions when it comes to your natural hair. The purpose of having natural hair is to truly enjoy the freedom that comes with it. And that may mean straightening once in a while. Just don’t be fooled by companies and stylists that understand the fears of many women who are natural.

I get it.  Most of you have embraced your natural hair in order to NOT put chemicals on your hair. You were tired of the breakage, damage and likely concerned with the health issues that came with it. You tried “being natural” and it may or may not be what you thought it was going to be. Perhaps certain expectations weren’t met. Maybe you’re tired of spending tons of money trying products that don’t seem to work for you. And you’re desire for easier manageability has you trying different techniques to accomplish this without “chemicals”. Because that is the fear. Chemicals. So companies are going to market their products as being “chemical free”. The reality is, they’re not.

Oh, and they have a system for children too. What are we teaching them? A loaded question and one I don’t really want to tackle right now. But it’s something to think about. My view is skewed since the main reason I embraced my natural hair was because of my daughter. To set an example and ensure she loved her hair. So my personal philosophy prevents me from trying this system. That would go against everything I believe in about being natural even though I would love to run a comb through my hair when it’s wet with no tangling or breakage!
So what’s the bottom line?
  • The Beautiful Texture Hair Manageability System (I hate the name BTW) is a new generation keratin treatment. Don’t get it twisted or believe the marketing jargon. If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck then (fill in the blanks).
  • It IS a chemical treatment system that works by altering the chemistry of the hair through rearranging bonds and forcing the hair into a straighter shape…even if it is temporary.
  • The process requires the correct pH and heat in order for it to be successful. The heat application required is blow drying and flat ironing at 450F. Is this a problem? Maybe or maybe not. But one thing is for sure. Heat can damage the hair. Read this to find out how.
  • The leave-in lotions contain a lot of silicones. These silicones act as heat protectors to reduce damage from the application of heat during the process and to protect the cuticle from damage.
My take on it? It offers options. Styling options and texture flexibility. Just know what the product is all about and what you’re using on your hair. Don’t be fooled by marketing hype and persuaded by people who don’t know what the product is really about. If using the product allows you to embrace your texture more readily then I say go for it. Remember being natural is about freedom to choose how you want to style and care for your hair. For me at this point these products just don’t line up with my personal natural hair philosophy. I’m not a purist by any means, nor do I follow conventional “natural hair rules”.  But I need to do this for myself and for my beautiful daughters.

So there you have it. A new class of products designed to improve your hair’s manageability and softness and to give styling versatility. Does it do what is says? I have no doubt. It’s up to you to determine if a system like this is right for you.


Have you tried it? How did it work for you? Share your thoughts and experiences.


CN Says:
 Thank you Susan for doing us this service and breaking it all the way down.  The point of social media, the blogs, the vlogs, is to get the real information out to folks so that we can make educated decisions and honestly, we need to do better.  Ladies, if you take nothing else from this post, please, do your own research and double check label claims (against the actual ingredients).  #BeYourOwnGuru #TruthInAdvertising #NaturalsStandUp

Also, for those that want style versatility and tips on straightening natural hair, check out these links-
http://www.curlynikki.com/2014/02/the-dos-and-donts-of-flat-ironing.html
http://www.curlynikki.com/2013/04/a-heat-styling-regimen-for-natural-hair.html
http://www.curlynikki.com/2012/08/low-heat-styling-tips-for-natural-hair.html
http://www.curlynikki.com/2012/10/blow-out-tips-and-tools-for-natural-hair.html

Where the Amla At, Tho? - Using Amla Oil to Promote Hair Growth

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Remember that one time when I went to India?  Well, besides hipster trinkets like my fake nose ring, a gorgeous, ornate clutch and ALL the pashmina scarves, I also brought back a few beauty secrets!  Indian women are known for their strong, long, healthy locks.  And heads like this--


-- didn't even turn heads over there (well, except for ours).  Dope hair is what they do.  So when I was offered top shelf henna from M.S. Bitta and homemade amla oil from one of our hosts, Shakuntala, I didn't turn down nothin' but my collar.  I've been dipping into my private stash for the last 3 weeks and while the henna is not all that different, *insert Katt Williams voice* this sh*t right here... this amla oil situation, is something else entirely. I've been using it to pre-poo and my hair is, well.... 

#Fleekin

Amla Oil (coconut or sesame oil infused with dried amla pieces/powder) has been a staple in Indian households for centuries, and when used regularly as a pre-poo treatment, results in darker, shinier, THICKER hair.  They claim that it promotes hair growth and reduces premature hair fall.   I had heard all of this, so she didn't need to convince me... but my previous experiences with amla oil had been less than productive.   

1. Soft Sheen Carson Optimum Amla Oil- ($11/5oz)  I was gifted a few bottles last year and they were promptly re-gifted when I flipped the bottle over to check out the ingredients.  As you know, I'm all about that first five... if the 'featured ingredient' is suspiciously absent from the top of the list, I'm not here for it.  #WheresTheAmlaAtTho   In this case, it was number 8... of 10 ingredients... after the fragrance.  It's Natural Hair101, folks-- ingredients near the end of the list are typically comprised of less than 1% of the total. TheBeautyBrains appropriately refers to situations like this as 'fairy dust'--
'They are added to increase consumer appeal. These ingredients are also called pixie dust, fairy dust, marketing ingredients and a few other names. These are truly “inactive” because they’re added ONLY because they look good as part of the label. They serve no function other than to attract consumer’s attention. These ingredients include botanicals, vitamins and minerals, (some) proteins and just about anything else “natural.” You can easily spot these ingredients because they are often incorporated into the product name (Sun-kissed Raspberry Shampoo) or placed on the front label (lotion with jojoba oil).This depends on the product – if you have a shampoo with natural jojoba oil . It’s likely to be used as a featured ingredient. It would be at a very low level and it would be rinsed away.'
I cannot. They're charging what it would cost to source amla from India, except they don't have the decency to actually put amla in the damn bottles! 

#WhyTheseBrandsGottaLieFor #CantFoolMe #Next 





2.  Dabur Amla Oil -($7/16.9oz)  I bought some from Amazon (super popular brand) when I was on the Vatika Oil bandwagon.  See above for my complaint.  #WhereTheAmlaAtTho #Next


3. Qhemet Biologics Amla Oil Pomade  ($16/4oz) Gifted from Qhemet (back in 2011).  It was a staple for a few months but sadly proved too thick for daily use (#TeamFineHurr) and can be hard to acquire.  The ingredient list is on point, but that price, tho... at least you're actually getting what you pay for!

My Experience

I've been using my gifted, homemade mix (coconut oil + amla powder + what has to be essences of frankincense and myrrh) before every wash (with a plastic cap and heat for 20 minutes) and it does seem to perform better than just coconut oil alone.  My hair feels heavier (when I shake it and y'all know I likes to shake it), I shed less (no little beasties in the shower) and there is no need for a shine serum once my hair dries.  It's the real deal. By the bye, Shakuntala says that pre-poos are absolutely essential for healthy hair-- Indian women don't miss a pre-poo session and neither should we. 

Where to get REAL Amla Oil

So where does that leave us?  If you wish to incorporate this ancient Ayurvedic preparation in your natural hair care routine, you can either-

1.  Make your own-  Probably your best bet and it's not even hard!  Get some amla powder and a jar of unrefined coconut oil, pour an enormous glass of Pinot,  read this and watch this video--



and/or 

2.  Cop the real stuff- If you're like me and want your ish pre-made, head over to FromNatureWithLoveButters-N-Bars or HennaSooq.  The prices are decent and there's actually amla in the bottle!  I haven't tried any of their mixes, but the ingredients check out. 

Then, you can use it as a pre-poo, add a few drops to your hot oil mix, mix it into your henna or even to seal your ends! 

Later Gators,
Nik 

Have you tried amla oil?  Share your experiences below!

Boho Chic Protective Style- French Braids!

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Bianca Alexa writes:

Happy Monday!  Today I'm sharing a quick, protective style for when you want to give your natural hair a break.  I love it and I hope you will too!


Winner Winner Chicken Dinner! (April's Basket Winners!)

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Hola Chicas!

So y'all went hard in the paint and I appreciate the initiation of discussion and helpful advice you shared with one another. Thanks to everyone for your participation!

The April winners are--
KurlyKP
Jessenia Johnson
Bre
Brendee
Janai
Michelle R. 

Each winner will receive:

(1)Hair Therapy Wrap: $21.95
(1)Aubrey Organics HoneySuckle Rose Conditioner: $10.93
(1)Elucence Moisture Benefits Shampoo 10oz: $6.00
(1)Curl Junkie Curl Rehab - Gardenia: $20.00
(1)Oyin Handmade Hair Dew 8.4oz: $13.99
(1)Oyin Handmade Juices & Berries: $13.99

Please email me at nikki@curlynikki.com with your full name and home address using 'April Winner' in the subject line. Oh, and I'm hosting the exact same giveaway for May! Past winners are eligible! Remember, no one word responses! Ask questions, get answers, foster positive discussion! Love y'all! 

Later Gators,
Nik

Danielle Is Naturally Glam!

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Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why? 
I would have to say that I am a long term transitioner. I started my process at the end of 1998 to early 2000. One of the reasons that I decided to go natural is because I just wanted to really get to know and understand my hair in general, which was a quest all within itself. It was very funny, as a hairstylist my clients couldn't believe that I was about to leave the world of relaxers. It was so strange, because many of them started to transition as well.

When did you BC? 
I recently did a BC August of 2014 after being in locs for about 8 1/2 years.

What was your initial reaction to your natural hair? 
I LOVE natural hair. I always have. I will say coming from having hair down my back for nearly 8 1/2 years to a TWA was very different, but it was hair and it will grow back.

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How did family and friends react to the new you? 
My husband was a bit disappointed, because we started growing our locs together. But for me, I had this style for a long time, and I did everything from colors to styles. I was ready for a change. I shocked everyone, because of how long my hair was when I had my locs.

What was your response to them? 
I was ready for a change, and I was missing my fro dearly.

What was your transition routine (products included)? 
What I did wasn't much different with my locs. I used black soap shampoo that I made, a cholesterol conditioner twice a month, and cranberry aloe vera juice with essential oils as my leave in conditioner. That was also something that I made after doing some research on the different benefits that would be good for my hair.

What was your staple hair style during the transition? 
My staple hair style is the twist out. It is easy to do, and it provides the look that I want.

How did you moisturize your hair to prevent breakage at the new growth line? 
I never really had an issue with moisturizer in my hair. When I take my two strand twists down, I put a little jojoba oil, rub it in my hands, then applied it to my hair. Even though I had already added the oil before twisting, I would do this.

Why did you choose to go natural? 
I went natural because I love my own hair in its natural state, besides adding color. I love the texture of my hair, and the many styles that I can do with my hair. It has been a wonderful experience from the very start, and wouldn't trade it for anything.

This Is Way More Important Than Your Curl Type...

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 by Amanda

When people inquire about their hair type, they usually want to identify their curl pattern, which is probably the least important means of learning how to care for your hair. More hair care enthusiasts are switching the conversation to focus on porosity rather than curl pattern. Your hair’s porosity is determined by how quickly or slowly your hair absorbs and releases moisture, products, and chemicals. Knowing your hair’s porosity will help guide you in selecting products and also help your hairstylist determine how to approach your hair for color treatments.


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There are three porosity levels: low, medium (normal), and high. Low porosity hair has a tightly bound cuticle that makes it difficult for moisture, products, and chemicals to penetrate and release. High porosity hair typically has a cuticle that has been chipped away due to damage from over manipulation, chemicals, or excessive heat styling. High porosity can also be genetic. Medium porosity is the easiest to manage. One thing that everyone has in common, regardless of their porosity, is the desire to maintain moisture for as long as possible. Moisture is the foundation for a healthy hair care regimen so understanding your porosity will help you when reading ingredients lists before purchasing products.
 
Products
When seeking product recommendations, curl pattern is a factor, but looking to someone with the same porosity and a similar curl pattern is far more helpful. When it comes to products, lower porosity hair does not experience as much buildup with thinner, lightweight products; while high porosity hair maintains moisture much longer with thicker, heavier products.
 
Styling
When learning how to style your hair, it can be better to seek guidance from someone with a similar curl pattern. Sometimes the difference is just a matter of products with different holds or creating bigger or smaller sections. When it comes to products, most 3a and 3b women will opt for a mousse or light, styling cream with a softer hold (e.g. Eden BodyWorks Curl Soufflé) while people with 3c and Type 4 hair might opt for a gel or heavy styling cream with a stronger hold (e.g. Eden BodyWorks Curl Defining Crème).

Testing Your Porosity Without a Cup
You have likely heard of the cup test for porosity, but the best way to observe your hair’s porosity without a cup is by noticing how long your hair takes to dry after washing. My fine, medium density, 4a coils take a full day to dry so that is how I know I have low porosity hair. And when I wash my hair, it takes my hair 2-3 min. for my hair to become saturated with water before I start washing. If your hair seems to dry almost immediately after washing, then you probably have high porosity hair.

Another thing to consider when going or returning natural is the feel of your unique texture. A lot of naturals will obsess over dryness even though their hair is moisturized. Textured hair has bends, curves, and sometimes kinks (kinks are not synonymous with coils). Also, fine strands tend to be softer than coarse strands. Understanding that you are feeling texture and not dryness can be an adjustment. The best way to test whether your hair is indeed suffering from excessive dryness is to go a day with naked hair (i.e. no products). If you feel a difference between your hair with moisturizer versus your hair without moisturizer, then how your hair feels with product is your hair in a moisturized state. If you do not notice a difference between the two, then you may have brittle hair that a stylist can better advise you on caring for.

The quickest way to build your regimen is to listen to your hair. After I learned that I have low porosity, medium density, 4a coils, the next thing that helped me was reading ingredient labels every time I purchased products. I try to observe consistency in products with ingredients that my hair loves (e.g. shea butter, fatty alcohols, glycerin) and products with ingredients that my hair hates (e.g. petroleum, silicones, corn oil). You have to make a conscious effort to understand what your hair responds best to and knowing your porosity is the best place to start.  

How has knowing your porosity and curl pattern helped you?

The Fastest Growing Plant in the World Also Improves Hair Growth!

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I recently got a haircut and want nothing more for it to grow long again healthier and stronger than before.

This led to extensive research to find what, if anything, can help speed this process up. One plant in particular kept appearing in many of my readings, both from internal and external use: bamboo. I have been testing this ingredient for weeks on my own hair and want to share with you some of the claims as well as my own hair health results.


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Bamboo is actually the fastest growing plant in the world! Certain species of bamboo can grow up to 10 centimeters a day. Not only does it grow quickly, it also stays strong and flexible in the process. According to OrganicAuthority, bamboo stalks are "strong as steel, more sturdy than concrete and grows to timber size in a year."

Bamboo has the highest amount of vegetative silica in any plant--up to 70%! Silica is a trace mineral that slowly depletes as we age and if we are lacking in it, it can not only affect our hair but also our skin, nails and other organs in our body, as well. Also known as silicon, silica it is a combination of silicon and oxygen, the two most abundant elements on the planet.

Briogeo uses bamboo extract in their hair products because it "helps improve the moisture and natural sheen of the hair, while increasing strength and elasticity. This nutrient rich ingredient also has protective antioxidant properties and improves hair health through its silica rich nutrient base. Silica is known to improve hair texture, prevent split ends, and accelerate hair growth."
The benefits of silica

You should be getting enough silica. Here's why:


  • adds shine to lackluster hair
  • may help increase hair growth
  • help to prevent hair thinning
  • may help to address hair loss
  • ensures the hair follicles are supplied with all the vital minerals necessary for hair growth and vitality.
  • hair can become stronger
  • decrease in hair shedding
  • hair may become thicker
  • may help temporarily mend together split ends
  • helps to restore the appearance of healthy hair
How to consume more bamboo
Bamboo leaf tea is a popular way to consume bamboo and get your daily dose of silica. I have been drinking two cups a day for the past two weeks. Of course it takes a while to notice any true difference and it isn't magic, but the taste is pleasant to me and a few days in I noticed less shedding and an added benefit that my body has not felt as achy.

If you won't want to drink bamboo tea, several companies also make bamboo supplements as well.

Bamboo shoots are a vegetable, very popular in Asian dishes that are nutrient dense and another way to get the benefits of Bamboo internally as well. Bamboo shoots are low in calories, high in fiber and contain vitamins and minerals as well.
 
The hair benefits
  • Our hair can also benefit from bamboo being an ingredient in our hair products.
  • Shampoos that contain bamboo extract are good at washing away dead skin cells and other unwanted agents that can build up on hair strands. By playing a role in removing a build-up of pollutants, body oils, and chemicals on the hair, bamboo extract can also add a natural shine and luster to your hair.
  • Bamboo has anti-irritant and antioxidant properties which is especially beneficial if you have a sensitive or dry scalp.
  • Using hair products with bamboo in them can help the overall appearance of your hair, allowing it to become more manageable, shinier, softer and stronger.
Products with bamboo
A few lines that contain Bamboo extract in them are
In addition to hair health, bamboo and silica can have excellent benefits for the skin and body as well. This extract can be worth looking into not only to achieve optimal hair health, but to help your body overall. Please note this article is for information only and absolutely should not take the place of advice given by your medical professional. Individual results using bamboo enhanced products and/or drinking bamboo tea will vary.


 
Do you use products with bamboo? Share below!

How to Minimize Breakage During Your Transition to Natural Hair

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 by Kanisha Parks of BlackNaps.org

When it comes to transitioning, breakage has always been a big concern. Maintaining and manipulating two completely different textures yields a significant amount of “wear and tear” on the hair. As your natural texture begins to grow in, your relaxed hair will become increasingly more and more fragile with time. But that doesn’t mean that you have to experience severe shedding and breakage. There are definitely ways to keep your hair relatively healthy throughout your transition. Keep in mind that the way your hair responds to transitioning will depend heavily on the state of your hair at the start. So if your hair is already broken, damaged, and/or prone to breakage at the onset of your transition, you may have a more difficult time minimizing breakage than someone with a healthy head of relaxed hair. Either way, you can successfully transition to natural hair without experiencing heavy breakage by following a few simple tips:

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 1. Keep it stretched. One way to see less tangles and therefore less breakage is to keep the hair as stretched as possible as often as possible. This will make your wash day much easier to endure. You won’t be ripping through tangles at the demarcation line or pulling out balls of shed hair.

2. Don’t be afraid to trim. How often you trim will depend on the length of your transition and the length of hair that you are comfortable with, however, sometimes exceptions need to be made for the betterment of your hair. If your hair is continuously snagging and just all-around tough to deal with, getting rid of some of that relaxed hair can definitely help because it wars against the natural hair that is coming in. Remember that more important than the health of your natural hair is more important than length. It’s good to grasp this concept before becoming fully natural so you won’t be holding on to ends that really just need to go.

3. Stick to one style. We’ve discussed the benefits of sticking to one style. It keeps you from manipulating your hair too much and makes it much more likely that your transition will be an easy success. You don’t have to wear one style for the entirety of your transition, but choosing to master a style and wear it for 2 weeks at a time, if possible, will help keep your hair from breaking. When I was transitioning, I loved wearing flexi rods because they blended my textures, were easy to install, and lasted me all week without redoing them. You can also choose to protective style to give your hair a break, but remember to properly maintain your hair underneath.

4. Be patient when detangling. This is incredibly important because poor detangling can affect your new growth, which is what you absolutely do not want. There will be times when all you’ll want to do is comb through the strands quickly and easily like you could when you were relaxed, but don’t. Load up on the conditioner and brace yourself: you’re in it for the long haul.

5. Bye-bye Shampoo, Hello Conditioner. Pre-pooing and co-washing are great tools for transitioners. Sudsy shampoos (even the ones without sulfates) are drying to the hair, and even when you condition after this, it isn’t always enough to restore the moisture to your hair. Use a moisturizing shampoo that is not sudsy once a week and if you wash your hair during the week, co-wash instead of applying more shampoo. Clarify every 4-6 weeks to remove any possible build-up and remember to deep conditioner (preferably with a steamer) afterwards to give your hair an instant boost of moisture. Following these steps will maintain your hair’s moisture level which will make everything: (conditioning, detangling, and styling) easier and will keep breakage at bay.

How do (or did) you keep your hair from breaking during your transition? Weigh in!

"You Are Too Old for That Hairstyle."

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Hairstyle and Colors Rules by Age


Red, yellow, blue, pink, orange, green, purple. I could be naming the colors in a rainbow or I could be describing someone’s hair. Vibrant and funky hair colors have become increasingly popular in the natural hair community. With cool innovations such as hair chalks and colored clip-ins, women no longer have to fear color damage. We can rock multiple hues at the same time without sacrificing our beautiful tresses. Though versatility of style and color are great, some say certain colors and styles should come with an age cap. I absolutely disagree.

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A woman of any age should be able to rock any hair color and/or style she chooses so long as it doesn’t impede your livelihood. Outside of business, I see nothing wrong with expressing yourself through your outward appearance. You pay a car note, mortgage, rent, cell phone, take care of kids, go to work…you don’t need to prove through your hair color or hair style that you’re an adult! We wait many years to grow up and be able to do what we want to do without permission or opinions just for society to tell us we are too old to have pink or blue hair? Pa-lease! We have people telling us what to do all day long. Bosses, parents, family members, in-laws, etc. The way we choose to look is one of the few things in our lives that is completely up to us so we should take full advantage of this.

I am 31 years old and I have yet to try any hair colors except for black and blonde/copper highlights. Personally, hair colors other than black aren’t really my thing but I LOVE seeing them on other women, of all ages. I’m currently obsessed with blues and purples. Now that I discovered hair chalks I may give it a try! They seem fun and can take your hair from drab to fab in minutes.

Hair color is awesome and nowhere on the packaging does it say “For ages 10-25”. Don’t cater to the opinions of those who feel you are “too old” to wear that hair color or rock that cut. Do what you want to do and do it well. You have my full support and admiration.

Do you think women of a certain age should be limited to certain styles and colors?


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CN Says:

Wanna experiment with temporary funky colors, check this out--

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