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How To Transition Hair Care During Vacation

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By Emilia Obiekea of AdoreBotanicals.com

It’s Spring Time and we know that means it's time for some much needed fun! But while vacationing, many people forget to protect their hair while they are enjoying outdoor activities. Just as your body needs sunscreen, your hair needs a layer of protection as well. After all the fun, you may notice your ends looking a bit frayed or raggedy. The best thing to do is trim the damaged ends and start taking care of your ends as a preventative measure. Who wants unnecessary length loss? No one! Especially when you are transitioning into your newly natural hair. The following tips below will help you maintain your journey without any setbacks.

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Hair Care

Before swimming:

Be sure to soak your hair with water. Next, you'll want to coat it lightly in a semi thick oil like rice bran or coconut oil. This step will prevent your hair from absorbing too much water.

After Swimming:

Wash your hair. You can use a swimmer's shampoo or cleansing conditioner.
Always condition your hair after cleansing. Using a quick rinse out conditioner is good for regular or daily use. They are formulated to be effective in 3-5 mins. Super easy.
If your hair is very dry and needs some TLC be sure to do a hot oil treatment or oil rinsing. I like to use Green Triad Triple Infused Oil for my hot oil treatments. It is most effective for me and I love the minty scent. You can use any oil that you like or have on hand. Can't go wrong with an oil treatment.
Moisturize your hair and apply a light amount of oil on the ends to deter splitting.
Do your best to avoid direct heat. With so much exposure to sun and water on a regular basis the last thing your hair needs is to be blasted with heat or flat ironed. Embrace low manipulation styles.

Hair Styles

Don't stress yourself out with overly complicated styling. You are on vacation to enjoy yourself right? Wear your hair in simple, stress free styles. Tight braids or styles can damage your hair due to the tension of the style. This can cause the hair to break or tear and can also cause damage to your follicles. Great styles to wear are lose buns, braids, twist,etc…whatever is simple and doesn’t pull your hair is always a great option.

Hope these tips are helpful. If you have any questions or tips you would like to share post them in the comment section. We are a community of naturals in every stage of their journeys lets help each other out.

Enjoy!

Becoming Best Friends With Humidty

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By Emilia Obiekea of AdoreBotanicals.com

The #1 problem in the natural hair community is combating dry hair. For our textured hair this is definitely an issue. Cold weather robs our strands of moisture. The spring and summer months we can turn it around. Humidity can over-saturate the hair with moisture. Then when it dissipates the hair is left feeling super brittle. When we talk about humidity it is usually brought up as a bad thing but it really isn't.

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How do I form an alliance with humidity? Easily....adjust your regimen on the spot. When it is a humid day don't do the LOC or LCO method. Yep...I said it...Do not moisturize and seal your hair for the day. Taboo right? Don't stop reading....Let me expand on this. Humidity is when there are large levels of moisture in the air. Your hair will absorb the moisture in the air throughout the day. There is no need to over moisturize your hair. Change your regimen.

New Regimen: Abbreviated Wash Day

Prepoo, Cleanse, Protein Treatment (when needed), Deep Condition, apple cider vinegar or tea rinse (optional) and do a final rinse with cool water. The cool water rinse helps to close the cuticle layer of the hair. This maintains the moisture in the hair better and smooths the cuticle.

Moisturize and Seal (LOC/ LCO method) on wash day only. On the following days (humid): Apply an oil and a cream styler (optional) to your hair as needed.

Use a blend of penetrating oils. They aid with maintaining moisture and smooth the cuticle layer of the hair. I only have to moisturize my hair 1 time midweek now! What oils are able to do this? I struggled to find oils that would preform the way I needed them to. I formulated daily dew oil and triple infused hair oil with custom blends of penetrating oils. They have the ability to be applied regularly without weighing the hair down. These are my go to oils. I apply it to my damp hair after washing and during the week as needed. This technique is how I have been able to not LCO nightly and my hair is thriving.

Low manipulation styles will be the love of your life. You should aim for styles that are not time consuming and work with your natural texture. Personally, I love to do twist outs. They traditionally have lasted the whole week for me with the abbreviated regimen from above. It leaves the hair with tons of body and softness. Wash and go styles, Braid outs, flat twists, a bun, braids or an up-do are all great optional hair styles.

Don't fight the humidity. Enjoy it!

Afro Cubans: We Are Many

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Hola chicas!


Yesterday we spent some time in old Havana with some new friends. I first learned of Gloria Rolando on Afro Cuba Web after some creative Google searching. I reached out on FB and received a response within 24 hours! She was interested in meeting me and sharing a bit about herself with the CN fam. She's a renowned filmmaker and documentarian who works to piece together Afro-Cuban history and produce positive images of black Cubans.


She maintains that Africans have made substantial contributions to Cuban culture and that she feels a responsibility to show that Afro-Cubans are more than 'rumba dancing and cigar smoking (which are well-worn stereotypes). Since Gloria and her family believe that there's not been an appreciation for the fullness of the African contribution to Cuban history,--

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she's made it her life's mission to document that history and change those images. Her latest documentary, 'Dialog With My Grandmother' continues in that vein.


Me with Gloria (white), Sasha (their doggie), Magaly (sister) Aida (cousin)

In it, she shares conversations she recorded with her grandmother, Sessia, back in 1993. Although she passed away in 1999, the legacy she left behind lives on in her grandchildren, great grandchildren and now in this documentary. In it, we learn about her life, her goals and what she experienced during the revolution. Yesterday we met Gloria after a press conference she held for the premier of her newest documentary. She was tired but said it was very well received! Today, she's working to have it translated for English subtitles as well. Finally, I asked her what she wanted the CN community to know about Afro-Cubans. She said, 'I want them to know that we are many'.



Of course, over dinner we had to talk about hair! Before I arrived from the U.S., Gloria told me to bring some hair products if I could. After my few short days here, I understand why.  Their only options for hair products are a few Brazilian brands, which she doesn't think are particularly effective. Furthermore, Gloria simply can't afford to use oils on her hair due to the limited rations. Whatever oil they have, is better used for cooking rather than for haircare. So I did what I could and brought her a few products from my personal stash.










This morning, I also met with Maritza Lopez. She welcomed us into her home, which also happens to be the unofficial Afro-Cuban headquarters for her neighborhood, Balcon Aramao. The neighborhood is on the outskirts of Havana City, making it difficult to access various services and resources. Because of this, she's established a community network to educate, inspire and raise funds to support the small businesses of the neighborhood. They help 4000 people each year. One project that is close to her heart is their natural hair initiative. Each week in their community house, they teach women of all ages about 'their roots and the importance of being Black.' They cover topics like traditional Afro-Cuban hair care techniques and how they compare to hair care today.


According to Maritza, "the beauty industry is not focused on our hair or our skin. Rather the beauty industry is focused on the white, straight hair aesthetic."


She also said that in this new economy they [Afro Cubans] continue to have little leverage and little or no capital. So they are working together as a community to raise and re-invest their money in small businesses.


She and her sister, Moraemo, plan to open a hair care salon that not only provides services but also teaches women to care for their own hair.



Later Gators, Nik




Personal stash

Gia playing while we talked

Gloria found this in a tourist shop and bought it cause she couldn't believe the imagery













Maritza, her sister, Moraemo, me and their family friend and interpreter, Lillian. She's in law school!







More from our visit!

What is MSM? Can it Help My Natural Hair Growth?

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It’s always a pleasant surprise when you stumble upon a vitamin or supplement that can cure some of the most common health issues, while also giving you a nice little beauty boost. And such is the case for MSM!

I was recently chatting with a newly natural neighbor (try saying that 3 times fast!), when she asked about supplements she could take for hair growth. I suggested MSM. I guess she expected me say something like biotin or a multivitamin, because she instantly looked confused. So I explained that MSM, aka methylsulfonylmethane, is a sulfur-based compound that is naturally found in many foods such as milk, onions, garlic and green vegetables. Next to water and salt, MSM is also the 3rd largest compound found in the human body. Within the medical community, MSM has been traditionally used to treat pain bone and joint diseases such as osteoarthritis and tendonitis. But it also has a really cool side effect. And this really cool “side effect” is hair growth.

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How is this possible?

The main ingredient in MSM is sulfur- one of the principle building blocks of hair (and nails). So MSM helps hair growth because it gives your body a building block for hair. But besides just contributing one of the main building blocks of hair, it is also theorized that MSM increases hair growth potential by lengthening the growth phase (anagen phase) of the hair cycle.

Where to get MSM?


You can find MSM supplements at any local health food store or pharmacy. Or you can just skip the pills and powder supplements and just focus on getting MSM from your food. But sometimes that’s easier said than done.

In addition to a healthy diet, I also take an MSM supplement. I primarily do this because, although MSM can be naturally obtained through a healthy diet, the cooking process and other factors can diminish MSM content in foods.

What Else Is MSM Used For?

MSM can be used to treat a variety of conditions including:

• Muscle and bone problems
• Chronic pain
• Hay fever
• Allergies
• Asthma
• Snoring
• Stretch marks
• Wrinkles
• Eye swelling
• Dental disease
• Stomach upset
• Constipation
• Premenstrual syndrome (PMS)
• Obesity
• High blood pressure
• High cholesterol
• Type 2 diabetes
A Few Precautions Before Taking MSM

There is no recommended daily allowance for MSM, but high doses can cause MSM might cause nausea, diarrhea, bloating, fatigue, headache, insomnia, itching, or worsening of allergy symptoms in some individuals. And although MSM is generally for most people, not much in the medical literature is known about its safety during pregnancy and breast-feeding. So if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding it would be wise to consult your physician before taking this supplement.

Do you take MSM for hair growth? Have you noticed a change in your hair or nails since taking MSM?

This article was originally published on November 2011 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

Do THIS for the Best Curl Definition, Ever!

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Do you struggle with the frizzies? I know I do. It seems to come along with the territory once you decide to go natural. You don’t have to scurry away in defeat, though; the battle against frizz can be won! Here are some practical tips that can guarantee success.

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TIP #1
Completely Detangle Your Hair Before Applying Any Styling Product

In order for your curl pattern to be evident, tangles HAVE to be removed. A great way to do this is by finger detangling. Before attempting to detangle, though, be sure to soften the hair with a good detangling conditioner, one that has slip but that also is non-drying.

Some people even sleep with the conditioner on their hair the night before wash day; that really makes the hair much easier to work through. Two surprisingly good liquids to use that also detangle extremely well are watered down flax seed gel and okra gel. I have used both of these liquids, and I was amazed at the way my hair INSTANTLY relaxed when they were applied. Both of them can provide a great base under oil and cream, but it is advisable to water them down.

TIP #2
Style wet hair, freshly washed hair is the best!

This seems obvious, but it’s when your hair is wet that the optimal time to apply product occurs, thereby sealing in moisture and protecting your curl pattern. For some, this means the addition of an oil followed by a cream. Other hair textures may require something heavier, like an oil followed by a gel. Other textures may get maximum curl definition with a mousse or other light styler. At any rate, the soaking wet method works the best and also lasts the longest.

What do you do to maximize your curl definition and keep frizz at bay?

Should I Detangle My Natural Hair Before or After I Shampoo?

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by Sabrina Perkins of SeriouslyNatural.org

The natural hair community is chock full of information of all kinds. From co-washing to deep conditioning and sealing, there are many different tips and tricks that are shared by some of our favorite natural hair gurus. One of the most discussed topics by far is definitely the different methods of detangling and whether it’s more effective when done either before or after shampooing the hair.

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 While the efficiency of each detangling method varies from person to person, it’s important to look at the facts of the different characteristics before making your choice. So, which one is best for you? Let’s take a look...

Pre-Detangling
Detangling the hair before shampooing is a great method to use if you’ve just taken your hair out of twists or braids. Removing the bulk of the shed hair beforehand will reduce the amount of breakage and tangling you might experience if you waited to detangle your hair later on in the washing process.

This method is also great if you prefer to wash your hair while it’s plaited due to the fact that it ensures that the amount of tangles formed will be significantly less than usual. Some natural prefer this method when they have put off washday a tad too long and know some of those tangles need to be worked on prior to shampooing which can create tangles on its own.

The bad thing about this method is that you may need to detangle the hair again after you shampoo in order to get rid of the tangling from the friction of washing the hair. However, detangling before washing the hair can cut down on wash time and leave less fall out in the shower.

Post-Detangling
If you ask any number of naturals, most opt to detangle the hair after it has been shampooed and doused in the conditioner of their choice. Whether it’s with a wide toothed comb or your fingers, the best part about this method is the fact that the conditioner provides slip and makes the hair softer, making it easier to detangle the hair. Detangling post-shampoo will also guarantee that you won’t have to detangle twice, but it will leave a lot of shed hair in the drain.

The down side to detangling after is you may have created even more tangles with your shampooing. Many opt for pre-pooing to help eliminate this problem. I prefer this method because I do not suffer from a ton of tangles.

All in all, your decision will really be based on your particular regimen and situation. Whether you choose to detangle before or after you shampoo, (or both as many do) no way is the “right” way so try both ways and see which method works best for you!

Do you detangle before, after or both? Share below!

How To Slay Your Frohawk

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via Jensine of JungleNaps


Jungle Naps is sharing her go to method for creating a frohawk. This edgy style is so cute for any event that requires “slayage.” The style is easy to recreate and will give you poppin’ results as long as you follow these steps.

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  1. Start off with a method that will give you stretched, yet defined curls. My method of choice is using multiple flat twists that I subsequently pin to opposite ends. Bantu knots, twist, and braids are also good options.
  2. After unraveling your curls, section the top portion of your hair and pin it up for later. This will subsequently serve as your pompadour.
  3. Gather your loose hair with a banana clip to create your frohawk.
  4. Divide your pompadour into 2 section. Roll the back section in a downward motion and secure with some bobby pins. Bring the front section over the back portion and tuck away any loose end. Taking care to use bobby pins to keep everything in place.
Watch the video for a more detailed demonstration.

How to CUBA

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Hola Chicas!

I don't usually share how I put these trips together because (1) there's no formula, and (2) I have a flare for the dramatic. But as this epicness comes to a close, I thought I'd do y'all a solid and provide you with a how-to manual of sorts.

Obviously there are other ways to get to and 'do' Cuba both legally and illegally (i.e. Mexico or Canada, groups, cruises), but I visited Cuba both legally and on my own terms.  I didn't get herded around in large groups, or have to pretend to be doing anything.  So if you're like me, do it like this.  

1. Choose a category and have the documents to support it.  

Because of the embargo, you can't just 'go to Cuba'. 
 You will need special permission from the US government and the Cuban Government in order to do so.  Because of Obama, #ThanksObama, you may now make your own declaration as long your reason for going meets one of the 12 valid exemptions-- 
  • Educational activities in Cuba for schools, including people-to-people exchanges open to everyone
  • Professional research and professional meetings
  • Public performances, clinics, workshops, athletic and other competitions, and exhibitions
  • Religious activities
  • Humanitarian projects
  • Journalistic activities
  • Family visits to close relatives
  • Activities in Cuba by private foundations, or research or educational institutes
  • Any type of support for the Cuban people
  • Exportation, importation, or transmission of information technologies or materials
  • Certain authorized export transactions including agricultural and medical products, and tools, equipment and construction supplies for private use
  • Official business of the US government, foreign governments, and certain intergovernmental organizations
You actually have to go for the reason you cite, sign an affidavit with the travel agency and keep your records for 5 years after your trip.  We went with the journalistic category and Gia got in under the 'family visit'.  Even if you choose a people-to-people visit, you'll have to have a full agenda, like a whole itinerary of stuff to do...this is not tourism.

2. Find a travel agency. 

We went with ABC Charters, INC (with offices in and flights directly to Cuba from Tampa and Miami, Florida).  We flew out of Miami and the tickets for the chartered situation were only $475/person.  They will also help you secure your visa (if you don't want to do like me and knock on the Embassy's door) and get your schedule of tours popping.  I have nothing but good things to say about them-- very professional, fast service, and a smooth check-in process. 


3. Secure the crib.

We've been using Airbnb for our international adventures since 2011.  And y'all know how we do-- #BallOnABudget.  The aesthetic is really, really important to me, as well as the location.  I like to be in a safe neighborhood, but one that's off the beaten path-- I don't do tourists.  This spot fit the bill and while we usually get pretty lucky with amazingly hospitable hosts... this right here?  Special.

Let me tell y'all about our Havana Ocean Front Condo, and our hosts, Cesar and Maria.


Since we weren't supposed to be 'chilling on the beach', we thought it wise to bring the beach to us to enjoy the views after our days running around town with the Afro-Cuban heroes!  The owners of the condo live in Florida, are super responsive and allow you to book via Airbnb for your comfort.  But the caretakers, tho!  Cesar and Maria are family of the owners and I actually don't even have words to describe our appreciation.

First of all, the condo is dope-- 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, fully renovated.  The rocky beach we stayed flexin' on... is literally the back yard!


that pink/red building on the right is the condo! 


You can see the beach from the living room and 2 of the bedrooms!



Every morning, (for a small extra fee), Cesar and Maria would come in through the side door and make breakfast-- all fresh everything-- coffee, eggs, bread, jamon, guava, pineapples, watermelon, etc. They also hooked us up with Dayner, who would wait at the door for us to finish breakfast (with his extra clean, vintage red car).

us on our way to Santa Maria beach after breakfast on Tuesday


Gia had so much fun with Cesar and Maria that they eventually brought their granddaughter over (Lauren, 6 years old).  Although she didn't speak English and Gia didn't speak Spanish, they hit it off so hard that they both cried when we left! She said, 'I already miss my cousin, I don't want to go back to DC!  It's cold and wet there'.


4. See Baby Lores, live!

He's like Beyonce-famous over there.  Everybody, everywhere knows and loves this man and his music.  He's a Raggaeton superstar and after seeing how he tore that club up, I can see why. 

Long story short,  we were so comfortable with Maria and Cesar by the end of the trip that on Saturday night we left Gia with them and her new cousin, Lauren.  I first learned about Baby Lores on Vice News and I reached out to him via FB (y'all know how I do-- persistence and diligence).  To my surprise, he wrote back and invited us to his concert.  Not only was it going down on the weekend we were in town, but it was literally a building away from our condo!!!!! #LookAtGod

At dinner, a few hours before the concert (there's a bar and grill 2 doors down from the condo as well!), we told our waitress (in broken Spanish) that we were gonna turn up with Baby Lores that night.  When we saw how geeked she was, we invited her out!  Again, we speak very little spanish and she spoke no English but she understood, 'Baby Lores' and met us as soon as she got off of work.  We walked in (with Cesar's help--doing a bit of translating) and they sat us down in the very crowded club, right at the front table with Baby's wife!  During the show (which I understood none of but the dope ass beats) he shouted me out and we turnt up even more! #EpicShit

 
 Our waitress and new friend, Ory!

 
Baby Lores!

backstage



5. Live. 

Thanks to my team, I was able to let my hair down a bit and enjoy myself while not worrying about CurlyNikki.com and all of you!  When I heard the internet situation would be hard to navigate, I still assumed I could at least get a post in here and there.  Before our departure I scheduled up my FB posts for like 10 days.  I curated some articles for the blog and sent them to family friend, CN guest blogger, freelance writer and now experience giver, Mike Orie--


He posted for me in my absence and kept everythang running smoothly.  THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!


The homie, Brittany, tho.  She's been my web developer since day 1(her name is at the bottom of the site) and has become one of my best friends. When I realized (first day) that all I could do is slowly load up pics to IG and FB (and only sometimes), I messaged her and she agreed to (with no previous warning) upload the pics and text I'd send her to create the Cuba posts you've been reading.  Without her, I would've had to wait til my return to share the epicness.  So, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.

Finally, big shout out to Susonnah, based in Texas, for keeping the CN fam up to date via timely emails!

Because of them, I was able to stay in the moment and enjoy the disconnect.

Here's a few extra pics from the outtakes, thanks again for coming along! If you go to Cuba (and I recommend that you do, and soon), let Cesar and Maria know that Nikki sent you!

Later Gators, 
Nik
 

Chinatown!



Creating Kinky Twists for Protective Styling

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by Lisa Michelle via NaturallyCurly

I always hear about people opting to wear protective styles during the harsh winter. But what about protecting your hair during the hot summer months? With summer just around the corner, it's time to think about protective styles during the hot months ahead. I’ve worn micro braids and Senegalese twists, but never tried my hand at kinky twists. If you follow the same premise of two strand twists, kinky twists should be a fairly straight forward installation and can save you lots of money should you choose to do them yourself. Here’s how I did mine!

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Preparation

I started with freshly washed hair, then washed, conditioned and also went ahead and deep conditioned since I planned to keep my hair in this style for at least a month. Once my hair was clean and separated into four sections, I applied Kinky-Curly Knot Today as my base leave-in, EDEN BodyWorks Jojoba Monoi Hair Oil and EDEN BodyWorks Jojoba Monoi Hair Milk to seal it all in. This combination of products gave me soft, well moisturized hair and allowed me to proceed to the next step.

Tips for Blow Drying Natural Hair:

  • During tension blow drying, it’s important to use a heat protectant
  • Grapeseed oil offers a natural option for heat protection because of its high smoke point
  • Make sure your hair isn’t soaking wet when blow drying
  • Working with damp hair will make it easier to keep the hair smooth and speed up your blow dry session
  • Finally, make sure to keep the heat settings on low to medium so you don’t burn your hair! 

How to Install Kinky Twists:
Now on to the fun and hard part!

  1. I started with my hair in eight sections, four across the front and four across the back. I found it easier to start in the back of my head, though you can start in the front or around the perimeter. I used Marley braid hair which comes sectioned into 20 pieces per package. I chose not to cut the hair in half since I have longer hair and wanted to make sure I covered my entire length. I also wanted the longer twists look.
  2. I made small parts, between ¼” and ½” and used the braiding first method to attach the extensions. 
  3. I started by creating a braid with my hair and the two sections of Marley braid hair. 
  4. With my hair between the two pieces of braid hair, I wrapped my hair over the braid hair and back to the middle position, creating a secure hold so that I could continue braiding. 
  5. Once I got down about an inch or so, I twisted my hair around one piece of braid hair to get two pieces and then began two strand twisting to the ends. 
  6. I repeated this over a total of 160 twists and 16 hours later I was done! 
It’s important to make sure you don’t pull the hair too tight, especially around your hairline. You can create larger parts, but try not to put too much stress on weak areas.

Final Thoughts

Although this was a long process, it was definitely worth it. If you were to get this type of style done at a braid shop it could easily cost upwards of $250 dollars or more, depending on the length and thickness of your hair. The great thing about being able to braid your own hair is that you can, not only save loads of money, but you can also refresh your style and perform any maintenance when needed. Kinky twists are a great protective style for any occasion and I’ve gotten lots of compliments on them already. They blend quite well with my own hair and will last four to six weeks.

Have you ever installed your own Kinky Twists? Share!

This article was originally published in 2012 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

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#rooftoppin #DC

The face you make when you have a plane to catch tomorrow at 6am but haven't unpacked from Cuba (shit, still haven't unpacked from Brazil), have to wash and style Gia's hair, clean up, or at least call the people in, blog, get the nails did, respond to comments and emails and take a conference call in a minute, but all you want to do is re-read one of your favorite books and meditate. 

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For the record, read and meditate (i.e. 'me time') always wins. Every time, even this time.  I start with me (you can't pour from an empty vessel) and then everything else gets done much more easily, with a lot fewer cuss words. 

I'll check back in tomorrow or Saturday.

Love you guys!
Nik

p.s. and I will be responding to each and every Cuba comment-- just gimme a minute while I get my life together.

p.p.s. I did do my hair, tho.  I washed and set using Curlformers + Jane Carter's leave-in and a little Ouidad Mongongo Oil.  After 2 hours under the dryer, I took them out and quickly put my hair into two flat twists and put a hat on that joint.  #HairBreak #LikeABoss

How much conditioner should you use?

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by Anjana Muralidharan of curlsandbeautydiary.com

If you have noticed, almost all conditioners have the instruction “Take a coin size amount of the conditioner and spread through hair avoiding the roots” at the back of the bottle. Really?! Straight hair is so main stream that majority of conditioner brands forget that curly hair lives on conditioners. Conditioners do so much for curly hair. They hydrate, repair and very importantly – soften knots & help detangle curly hair. So yes, a coin size is more than enough when you detangling isn't a challenge!

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Slip is the term used to refer to a coating to reduce friction between 2 hair strands. You know, something like a lubricant.  Your hair should be soaked in conditioner so that there’s enough slip for you to detangle your hair and remove all the knots without damaging or breaking your hair. Without slip, the entwined hair strands can tighten further to become knots (picture combing your hair with a narrow toothed comb :P).

So the bottom line is to provide as much lubrication to our hair strands as it wants, to detangle smoothly. Each of your hair strands must be coated well in the conditioner. And by the end of your detangling process, your hair should feel soft to touch with all the tangles gone and the lubrication surrounding it. This will help you decide how much conditioner is the right amount for you to use. Start experimenting with half a palmful and go up if needed till you find an amount that works for you.

A palmful works best for me. A little less and the knots just sit there like a stubborn child. A little more and I am just wasting precious product and the shower floor gets slippery!

How much conditioner do you use?

Why Does My Natural Hair Always Look So Dry?

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by Sabrina Perkins of SeriouslyNatural.org

When it comes to maintaining moisture in your hair, sheen is one of the main characteristics you are told to look out for but what if your hair doesn’t have “sheen?” The reason being is straight hair reflects light, while highly textured hair with its curls and and bends actually refracts light, giving it a dull appearance.

There is a difference between our hair's natural less-than-sheeny look and being dry. Yes, it is possible for your hair to be lacking luster, but it doesn’t always mean that the hair is dry or lacking moisture. There are many reasons as to why some natural hair seems to look more dry than others, but here are 3 main reasons why your natural hair is lacking luster:

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Dehydrated
If you haven’t been drinking an sufficient amount of water, then your hair could be reflecting it. Water is needed to keep every portion of the body healthy, including the hair. Not drinking enough water can cause dry hair, dry scalp, and many other minor to major physical changes that are totally preventable.

Try drinking at least 4 -6 water 8oz bottles a day in order to maintain a healthy amount of water intake. Try fashionable water bottles as they are easy to carry around and make it less of a chore.

Improper pH
If your hair is too acidic or too alkaline, it may give off the appearance of being dull. A healthy pH for hair is 5, which is slightly acidic. Mildly acidic products flatten the cuticles, making the hair more lustrous. If products that are alkaline are applied to the hair, the cuticle is lifted which results in dull, brittle hair.

The only way to combat this problem is to invest in some pH strips to test the acidity of your products and adjust your usage accordingly. Use products that offer your hair a little bit of acidity to lay the cuticle flat in order to increase the amount of shine.

Hard Water
Hard water is caused by too many minerals in the water supply, mainly calcium and magnesium. This high mineral content causes a film to form on the hair which causes build up on the scalp and prevents moisture from entering the hair, resulting in dull hair.

If you find that you’re washing your hair in hard water, you can invest in a water softener, get a shower filter, do an acidic-based hair rinse like vinegar or lemon/lime juice, use bottled water or use a clarifying shampoo in order to both prevent and remove the film from your hair. You can also invest in a shower filter to remove those impurities from your water before they even get to your head like the T3 SOURCE FILTER FOR SHOWERHEAD.

This shower head filter for $25 is ideal because it is much less expensive than buying a water-filter shower head which can set you back anywhere from $75 to $250 dollars.

While these are only a few of many reasons as to why your hair could be a little more dull than you’d like, you should also remember that not everyone’s hair will have sheen and that’s okay! Sometimes the fact that your hair is not lustrous is just because that is its natural state, so embrace it.

Are you having problems with dry or lackluster strands?

5 Easy Homemade Natural Hair Gel Recipes

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by Jonna via BlackNaps.org

Hair gel is a staple product for everyone regardless of your hair type or texture. Gels provide hold for sleek styles, and define curls for those who want to rock their natural texture. However, gels have gotten a bad rap for being drying, and leaving the hair flaky and crunchy. Because of that, many have opted for natural, homemade option for gels.

Not only are these DIY homemade hair gel recipes easy to make, the ingredients are also relatively inexpensive. Here are 5 DIY homemade hair gel recipes that you can try yourself at home:

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Flaxseed Hair Gel. Flaxseed gel leaves hair soft, shiny, and moisturized, and you can actually reuse the flax seeds multiple times to create the gel. It gives hold with no crunching or flaking, and it mixes well with other products.

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Aloe Vera Hair Gel. Aloe vera gel makes hair easy to detangle, is moisturizing, and has many scalp healing properties. It restores pH levels, decreases frizz, and helps with the generation of hair growth.


Chia Seed Hair Gel. Similar to flaxseed, chia seeds can also be reused. They offer the same benefits of an all natural alternative to gel that provides moisture and hold without crunch and flakes.


Flax and Chia Seed Combo Gel. Get the best of both worlds with this recipe that combines both flaxseeds and chia seeds. This recipe also uses aloe vera and vitamin e, which have tons of beneficial properties for your hair.


Xanthum Hair Gel. Xanthum gum is inexpensive and easy to find. Making this gel is quick and easy, and can be made without heat. You can make a little or a lot, depending on how much hair you have.


Having so many options to making your own homemade hair gel means the possibilities are endless!

Have you tried to make you own hair gel?

CAN LA Kick It: A New Day Party Celebrating LA's Black Millennials

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By Mike Orie of TheConsciousTip.com
For quite some time, day parties and brunches have gathered hundreds of young Black millennials in cities such as Atlanta, New York, Houston and DC. With large Black populations, college graduates and a strong presence of Black Greek Letter Organizations (BGLO’s) this community was only natural to happen. But while these cities have developed a strong Black community, other cities like Los Angeles have struggled to create something similar. “CAN LA Kick It” is Mike “Orie” Mosley’s answer to this problem.

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As diverse as LA is, I’ve often found it difficult to find large groups of people who look like me and around the same age. My hope is to create this community through a new African American focused entertainment company called Afrotrak. “CAN LA KICK IT” is a new monthly day party designed specifically to celebrate young, Black millennials in the Los Angeles area. A lot of things I saw in New Orleans, Chicago and other places, I’ve struggled to find it here in Los Angeles. I’ve talked with both people who’ve relocated here, and people who were born here. It’s a common conversation we all seem to be having.

But I may not be alone in his thoughts; an article written by the LA Times highlights the exodus of African Americans on the West Coast. With a huge population shift of Blacks to southern cities such as Houston, Dallas, Atlanta and Charlotte, cities like LA now have a lower Black population than they did in 2000. We may be spread out, but LA’s the second largest city in the US. We’re definitely here, just not in the same place, atleast not yet.

CAN LA KICK IT premieres this Sunday, May 29th from 1-6pm at Blue Whale. Advanced tickets are available for general admission at $10, and $20 including bottomless mimosas. You can purchase tickets now at www.canlakickit.com

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Mike "Orie" Mosley is a freelance writer/photographer and cultural advocate from St. Louis. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Arts, Entertainment & Media Management from Columbia College Chicago and a Masters in Higher Education Administration from LSU. He is also the co-founder of music and culture website www.theconscioustip.com. In his spare time, he's probably listening to hip hop & neo soul music, hitting up brunch or caught up in deep conversations about Black music. You can follow him on Twitter @mike_orie or on Instagram @mikeorie

Living NAOMI: Not Afraid Of My Imperfections

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By Mike Orie of TheConsciousTip.com

Think of your biggest fear or insecurity. Take a deep breathe. Now imagine what it might take to not only embrace it, but to in fact proactively work towards overcoming it. This is what Stacy Ike is working on. She calls it, “Living N.A.O.M.I.” N.A.O.M.I. is an acronym for not afraid of my imperfections.  It’s an idea that she embraced several years back, but recently decided to re launch through her blog after overcoming a tough stint in LA.



The 25-year old Houston native relocated to LA to pursue her dreams as a host and actress. “I believe, everyone on this earth has a God-given purpose, and I also believe God doesn’t make mistakes. That said, all of those “imperfections” we try and perfect are actually what make us qualified for greatness.” But LA proves to be a difficult and lonesome environment for many African Americans pursuing careers in the entertainment industry. Earlier this month, she hosted a re launch brunch for her website titled “Mirror Mirror.” And while I caught the very tail end of it, I heard enough to resonate with her thoughts. The struggle to find a strong community of people pursuing similar goals was something that Ike and I both shared in common.  This is probably what made the intimate event so successful. Of the group of 18 women, many of them shared personal stories of their own. I, the lone male, along with my frat brother who served as the events photographer and her publicist, had the rare opportunity to hear women share their honest, vulnerable thoughts about success. It allowed me the ability, to even if just temporarily, breathe a sigh of relief, knowing everything would be alright in due time. I believe Ike to be a young influencer in the making. These days, it’s not always just about how many people you’re reaching, but about how you make people feel when they’re around you.  At one point though, Ike had the potential to live a complacent live that many of us are all too familiar with.  


College days swiftly pass, and before you’ve got it all figured out, you find yourself back where you started, home. “I knew eventually I would move to LA but I didn't have things together yet so I came home to TX after moving back from Australia,” says Ike. Sometimes though, moving back home can provide good opportunities. But opportunities will often prove unfulfilling if it doesn’t align with your purpose. “I started working at a retail store I previously worked at in high school because there was already a good relationship there. After a few months, my boss offered me a promotion and instead of being happy, I went to Barnes and Noble in front of the performing arts section and cried!” It was at this moment that Ike realized that this wasn’t the dream she once saw for herself. Her degree in Broadcast Journalism from Mizzou would go to waste if she didn’t do something, and fast. “I called my parents and told them I had to quit and a few days later I put in my notice. My heart was in LA.”

Too many times, we tell ourselves that we have to maintain this sort of a façade. A façade that doesn’t allow us to openly express our challenges, embrace our fears.  Stacy Ike is very open about it, and that is what she would describe as “living N.A.O.M.I.” It was through our exchange for this interview that I realized we have something very important in common, our biggest fear. “My biggest fear is not fulfilling my God-given destiny and potential. It literally haunts me sometimes. Why? Because I have experienced how crippling fear can be,” says Ike.  Her website, NaomiLiving.com will serve as an encouraging and uplifting space for fellow dreams. As seasoned African American journalists and actresses began to pass the torch over the next few years to developing talent like Stacy Ike, I’m confident. I’m confident not only in her ability to represent Black millennials in the proper light, but succeed at achieving that dream we all have, the intersection of passion and purpose. Tune into the journey, because Stacy Ike is going places, and if you’ve ever once doubted yourself, you too can certainly relate.
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Mike "Orie" Mosley is a freelance writer/photographer and cultural advocate from St. Louis. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Arts, Entertainment & Media Management from Columbia College Chicago and a Masters in Higher Education Administration from LSU. He is also the co-founder of music and culture websitewww.theconscioustip.com. In his spare time, he's probably listening to hip hop & neo soul music, hitting up brunch or caught up in deep conversations about Black music. You can follow him on Twitter @mike_orie or on Instagram @mikeorie


EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Curl Defining Crème: The Community Review

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Emme G writes: 

Description of your hair: My hair is medium density, fine, highly porous, cottony and nearly hip-length at its longest point. I have mostly 3C, S-patterned curls that are looser in the front and crown and tighter in the back. My ends form spirals except for the strands that frame my face which maintain the S-pattern.

Name of Product in Review:EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Curl Defining Crème- $8.99/16oz

Product Description: Coconut Shea Curl Defining Crème has a humidity-resistant formulation to define and separate curls and waves. This product infuses moisture to strengthen hair, provides frizz control, and optimizes style definition. Medium hold.

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Product Ingredients: Water (Aqua), Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil , Vegetable Oil, Aloe Barbadensis (Aloe Vera) Leaf Juice, Cetyl Alcohol, Stearyl Alcohol, Persea Gratissima (Avocado) Oil, Butryospermum Parkii (Shea) Butter, Cetyl Esters, Glyceryl Dilaurate, Steareth-20, Polyquaternium-7, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Milk, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Limnanthes Alba (Meadowfoam) Seed Oil, Lactobacillus/Tomato Fruit Ferment Extract, Oryza Sativa (Rice) Extract, Keratin Amino Acids, Acyl Coenzyme A Desaturase, Cetrimonium Chloride, Glycerin, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Tocopheryl Acetate (Vitamin E), Hydrolyzed Silk, Panthenyl Hydroxypropyl Steardimonium Chloride, Fragrance (Parfum), Dehydroacetic Acid, Benzyl Alcohol

Gifted or Purchased: Purchased from Sally Beauty Supply, $7.99 for 16 oz.

Fragrance: This smells like creamy coconut. It lingers in the hair and smells delicious!

Texture: Thick and creamy. It is slightly thinner than Aussie Moist conditioner.



Your experience: I use this as a curl cream or as a moisturizer under heavier gels. It’s said to have medium hold, but it only provides a light hold for my curls. As a curl cream I layer it over a leave-in conditioner and jojoba oil following the L.O.C. Method. I also use it with success under As I Am Smoothing gel, Ampro Clear Ice gel and Herbal Essence Set Me Up gel.

Would you recommend to a curlfriend: Absolutely!

How many curls overall (on a scale of 1 to 5, with 5 being the kitties titties!):  I give this product a 4.5 out of 5. I docked a ½ star because it takes a bit for the product to be absorbed and I can only reapply a few times before I start to get product build-up. A co-wash takes care of that though. This is a great product that I will repurchase.

What's Your Experience with Eden? Is this a Holy Grail?

This post was originally published in October 2013 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

Respeck My Bachelorette

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All the way up with the Bride-to-Be! #SoSaintLouis 
Hola Chicas!

Just touched down in D.C. after several days of celebrating my bestie and younger sister Syl, in the Lou.  I'm coming to you live, from my bed (too old for this shit), so I'll keep things brief.  Here's the rundown--

Peep #BrideTribe headquarters!

Located on Washington Ave via airbnb.  We had three bedrooms, impeccable decor and 2 dope bathrooms, right in the middle of all things popping in STL.  There was also the requisite rooftop situation!




We kicked things off with a traditional Bridal Shower-- family, fun... loosely veiled sexual humor.  My eyes only started sweating once, missing Gma... she was there in spirit!   

Momma, Syl, Me!

#Squad 



Tissue wedding dress contest, of course... mine fell off-- 



My headgear was hot, tho. Look at Gia mocking me! 

Boogie and little cuzzo, Jade! 

#RespeckMyBachelorette  

frilly, short, see-through, sexy things


Dr. Marquita!

Then, the wholesome fun was left behind to learn the mechanics of the twerk.   

 Right before we learned how to 'dance for you' like Beyonce.  

But then we was all,

I'm throwed on that Liquor, I'm bout to hit the Club, And Dance Like a Stripper





Back to the roof for girl talk and 'never have I ever'... #DontGetScoopNecked


Then to the club to practice our newly acquired moves--




Everybody. On. Their. Phones. They were immediately confiscated.

Syl taking her first shot in the history of ever! #SorryPerry 





 HUTCH going to werk!


Kara and PJ!

 Hutch, Marquita and Emily!

I was on my best behavior ;)
 
Tesha and Syl



 Big thanks to Cassandra, Syl's other sister, for helping plan an epic weekend. 

Off to hydrate. 

Later Gators, 
Nik 

The 'Water Only Washing' Method for Softer, Healthier Natural Hair?

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by Jonna of BlackNaps.org

The Water Only Washing method isn’t a new concept, but it started to gain notoriety on natural hair forums around 2013, and the premise is that our naturally occurring sebum is all the product we need. By eliminating all other products from your regimen, including natural oils and butters, you can simply use water to move the sebum down the hair shaft and eventually coat the hair completely. Once the hair is completely coated with sebum from your scalp, your hair is said to be soft and moisturized, easy to detangle, and your natural curls will pop.

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To start the Water Only Washing method, you must first completely clarify your hair of any product build-up with either a clarifying shampoo, apple cider vinegar rinse, or clay wash. Then massage the scalp daily and do daily water rinses, until the sebum has completely coated your hair strands from root to tip. This can take several weeks. Once your hair is fully coated, you can water wash n go each day, detangling with your fingers or a seamless tool.

While you can find lots of people who’ve tried this method and sing its praises, there are also those who have tried this method, and experienced negative effects. Some report clogged hair follicles that result in slow hair growth, itchy scalp, and dryness. Others report waxy buildup, a grey tinge to their hair, and bad smelling hair and scalp. When these issues occur, many WOW advocates recommend introducing some plant-based products into your regimen, like plant-based deep conditioners, leave-in conditioners, and hair rinses.


Many in the professional hair care arena do not recommend it. This is based on their training and expertise about the science of how the hair and scalp work. While the sebum itself is awesome, they would argue that there is so much other dirt and buildup that your hair and scalp is exposed to that need to be removed, and water just won’t do. Sweat, dirt, and pollen are just a few things in the environment that land and sit in our hair and scalps, that water alone may not remove. Also, there are many like myself who’s scalp produces an extremely excessive amount of sebum that this method would not be a good fit for.

While the Water Only Washing method is not recommended by the pros, it’s hard to deny the videos and blog posts describing hair bliss by following this regimen.

Have you heard of the Water Only Washing method? Would you try it?

3 DIY Castor Oil Masks for Restoring Damaged Natural Hair

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by Sabrina Perkins of SeriouslyNatural.org

Castor oil is a natural oil that is rich in fatty acids and other nutrients that help to moisturize, strengthen and condition the hair. Castor oil is best known for having the amazing ability to promote growth in all hair types. It contains hair growth and regeneration properties and the oil’s triglycerides of ricinoleic acid makes it anti-fungal, anti-bacterial and anti-inflammatory. That makes it an ideal oil for combating and preventing scalp infections, fungi and unhealthy bacteria.

If you suffer from hair loss or dry scalp, here are 3 castor oil hair masks that will work to repair and strengthen your damaged hair.

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SLEEPING BEAUTY CASTOR OIL MASK
If you suffer from serious hair damage, such as thinning edges or bald spots, this overnight castor oil mask is ideal for you. This mask is an intensive overnight treatment that works to repair severely damaged hair and very dry scalps. For this mask you’ll need a plastic shower cap and the following natural oils:

Ingredients
-5 tbsp. Castor oil
-2 tbsp. Sweet almond oil

Directions
1. Mix the oils together in a small bowl or applicator bottle.
2. Apply the mixture to the hair from roots to the ends, making sure that damaged areas are thoroughly coated.
3. Massage the oil into the scalp for a few minutes before applying a plastic shower cap.
4. Cover the shower cap with a sleeping bonnet or satin scarf and let the mask sit overnight.
5. Shampoo and condition your hair the next morning. For best results, use a sulfate-free shampoo.

SOFTENING EGG MASK
This mask combines the shine power of eggs with the strengthening capabilities of castor oil in a treatment that both nourishes and softens the hair. For this mask you will need the following ingredients:

Ingredients
-1 egg
-2 tbsp. Castor oil
-1 tbsp. honey
-Plastic shower cap

Directions
1. Mix all ingredients together in a small bowl.
2. Apply the mask to the hair, working in small sections. Be sure that any damaged areas are thoroughly coated.
3. Cover with a plastic shower cap and let the mask sit for at least an hour before rinsing with cold or lukewarm water.

CONDITIONING CASTOR OIL MASK
This mask works like a hot oil treatment to nourish both the hair and scalp. For this easy to do treatment, you’ll need a shower cap and the following oils:

Ingredients
-2 tbsp. Castor oil
-2 tbsp. mustard oil
-2 tbsp. olive oil

Directions
1. Mix oils together in a glass bowl or bottle.
2. Apply the mixture to the hair, paying close attention to the ends and any damaged areas.
3. Cover the hair with a plastic shower cap and let sit for at least 30 minutes.
4. Rinse the oil from the hair using lukewarm water and cowash as usual.

Is there another oil you would love some hair recipes on? Let me know below!

#BlackGirlMagic: Celebs Rocking Braids for Perfect Summer Styles

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by Sabrina Perkins of SeriouslyNatural.org

The beauty of black women is real, present and in full swing this spring and summer.  As warmer weather engulfs us, many celebs are taking breaks from movie, music and the TV so they can soak up the sun and drown themselves in carefree vacations.

With social media making it easier than ever to keep up with our favorite celebs, they share how rocking braids (in any style) is the perfect style for this summer whether working, playing, vacationing or entertaining. Check out a few of our faves and their amazing braided styles.


Monica Brown

Singer, songwriter and actress Monica Brown opts for long, small braided box braids that are perfect for anytime of the year but wonderful for summer. Rocking them beautifully, she looks ready for any and every outing this summer holds.

Teyonah Parris

The busy actress Teyonah Parris took off from filming to share her much-needed vacay in the Bahamas. The star of the up-coming TV One Original Movie The Miki Howard Story shared fun in the sun while rocking shoulder-length Nubian twists and just how easily they make for lazy vacation days.

Tichina Arnold

Tichina Arnold is enjoying the #IslandLife with gorgeous box braids and shaved sides. The actress and singer is taking off some time to enjoy the sun poolside with friends with a simple style that is just as elegant as it is functional.

Meagan Good

The beautiful Meagan Good is known for rocking braided styles and we love her goddess faux Locs that are also excellent for vacationing, night's out or everyday outings.

Want to give them a try yourself? Here's a video on installing box braids and one for goddess faux locs that will make these styles more affordable and the perfect protective styles to rock this summer!

Box Braid Installation 

Goddess Faux Locs Installation
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