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Conditioning Basket Giveaway- Just Comment on Articles Across CN.com!

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Hola Chicas,

I'm giving away 6 Conditioning Baskets(worth ~$90 each) this month (November 2015) to question askers and answerers!

If you see a curly-in-need who has asked a question under a post, answer it! If you are a curly who has a question that needs an answer, ask it! Not under this post, on all the posts! 

The first three baskets will go to the three curlies with the highest number of posts this month (11/1-11/30, comments from previous months don't count) and the next three will go to three randomly selected commenters.  Past winners are eligible!

Which posts/articles count for the contest? All of them!  Good luck!

*contest ends November 30, 2015 at 5pm EST*

*Please only post comments that spark conversation and further discussion. Free products are EVERYTHING but this is really about strengthening our community and helping other naturals!*

*US citizens only
 
Later Gators,
Nik

My Weekend in Pictures #HalloweenEdition

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This was my first weekend in the District in hella and it ranged from complete and utter shenanigans to #NetflixAndChill (I'm 24 episodes into Once Upon A Time and it's got me gathering the remnants of my life!).  I also watched (and made Gia watch) The Witches and Hocus Pocus for nostalgia . And now that these here bite-sized BabyRuths and bottles of red wine are wearing off, I do believe I owe y'all catch-up :)

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I spent a couple of hours volunteering at Gia's school for their Halloween Parade.  Her #DivasaurusRex costume went so hard that...

She won first place in her age category at the neighborhood Halloween Block Party later that evening! During the 30 minute convening of the judges, she kept asking, 'mommy, did I win yet?' #NoDoubt #SecondYearInARow

I blew out and lightly flat ironed my hair in 2 hours flat!  I was motivated by the memories of once a month styling, easy detangling sessions and chic-ass buns (this time last year). I love my perm rod fro-hawk situation but it's a beast to detangle.  This is a much needed respite. 
 For fluffy-luxuriousness, I create 3 big bantu knots at night and tie down the edges with a scarf.  I keep the ends happy with raw shea butter!

Boogie and the besties! We trick or treated in the building first (the kids chastised the neighbors while we sipped wine and talked shit) and then hit the block.

 #DaughtersAndDaddies

I was on a roll so I prepped Gia for her #SchoolPictureDaySlay ! 
 I washed, conditioned and detangled her hurr and set it in curlformers using Giovanni Direct Leave-in.   I use raw shea butter on her ends as well.  I've learned that the simpler the routine and products, the more our hair appreciates us.  

Later gators!

How was your weekend?!

Shasha Is Naturally Glam!

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Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why? 
I was a long term transitioner, although I didn't transition for as long as I intended to. I transitioned for 8 months and then took the plunge because 1 year of transitioning got to be an unbearable thought.

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When did you BC? What was your initial reaction to your natural hair? 
I BC'd on April 22nd 2010 and I looovvveedd it! I was excited and I was ready. I had 8 months to prepare myself for that moment and I relished every bit of it. I always say that I should have done it sooner and cut shorter but life isn't about regrets. Just live! And my big chop helped me live!

How did family and friends react to the new you? What was your response to them? 
My friends were like "Why?""What made you do that?" My family all gave me the side eye but now most of them are natural, including my mother who wanted to help me perm my hair again. It's quite interesting how life comes full circle.

What was your transition routine (products included)? 
I was never a product junkie and still am not but in the beginning I was an Aphogee girl and I also liked the ORS and V05 products. So as I transitioned I did my monthly Aphogee deep treatment, Weekly did a co-wash with V05 and conditioned with ORS. I then used my Kimmaytube leave in mix after every wash to seal. I didn't style much except braiding and throwing on a wig or doing my famous very SLICK slickback! That was it, until I got tired of detangling two different textures and BC'd.

What was your staple hair style during the transition?
I didn't style much but I did tinkle a little with some perm-rod sets to mask the straight hair against the curly hair. I usually braided down and threw on a wig or did my famous very SLICK slickback ponytail! That was it, until I got tired of de-tangling two different textures! That's when I BC'd.


How did you moisturize your hair to prevent breakage at the new growth line? 
I used my Kimmaytube leave in and the fake beauty supply bought yellow shea butter on my ends every few days after a quick mist down. Worked wonders for my line of demarcation and gave me some slip for de-tangling and shine!

Why did you choose to go natural? 
I was trying to prolong a perm for a few months due to breakage and I started to see some beautiful curls that I hadn't seen in forever, that sparked the idea. I chose to go natural because I was a new college student and didn't want to spend money in the salons anymore lol times were hard. But most importantly, I always wanted to go back to natural. I wanted to enjoy my curls for what they were, and one morning I was overwhelmingly ready to do it, all of a sudden. I just ran with the feeling and never looked back. Now I am a proud Loc-head and I am loving this journey so far! You can read more about my journey and others journeys on Locdbeauty.com XOXO

Love,
Shasha
LocdBeauty.com

Long Natural Hair Care- The Woes.

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by Keora Bernard

At the beginning of my natural hair care journey, I was envisioning what my natural hair would look like once it began to grow out. I began thinking about all of the naturals I had seen with long, thick, and healthy hair. Not to mention, I was more than giddy about the boundless styling options that were available for the looks I wanted to achieve. However, I didn’t understand that having longer natural hair came with a whole new set of challenges. Below are the things I have discovered while having long natural hair:

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1.) TANGLES ARE TERRIBLE. My tangles make Charlotte’s Web look simple. On top of that, I have been getting more single strand knots than ever! I can easily spend upwards of 2 hours detangling, if I am really trying to avoid breakage and be gentle. However, when it concerns tangles it is much wiser to prevent them from occurring. Protective styles, washing hair in sections, and co-washing are all effective methods for reducing the amount of tangles you get.

2.) YOU WILL GET MORE HAIR FALL. At some point in a natural women’s journey, her hair goes through less than stellar moments. This could be attributed to diet, improper haircare, illness, stress, or hormones. However, another plausible explanation is hair growth. The more my hair grows, the more strands I am seeing on wash day. Now don’t get me wrong, if you know your hair fall has to do with any of the controllable factors mentioned above then make the change. On the other hand, if it doesn’t then just chalk up your increased hair fall to having more strands.

3.) YOU WILL WANT SIMPLICITY. You will realize that having longer and denser hair means spending more time on it. This will compel you to cut coroners where you can, and to find simplicity among a mane of complexity. I have found that deep conditioning is great but so is co-washing. When you co-wash it serves as both a cleanser and conditioner so you kill two birds with one stone. I still love shampooing my scalp once a month but co-washing keeps my hair soft and pliable. The more pliable our hair is, the less we have to worry about breakage.

4.) YOU WILL CHOOSE EASY PROTECTIVE STYLES. Yes, I know I sound contradictory right about now. At the beginning of this article, I was talking about how having longer hair provides you with more styling options. On the other hand, it’s simply not practical for many naturals to sport an elaborate style daily. Instead, you will find that French braids, Chunky Twistouts, and Braid Out’s will be your ally. Give yourself grace and save the elaborate styles for special occasions.

5.) YOUR ROUTINE MAY CHANGE. You may find that the techniques and products that worked for your hair at the beginning of your journey are no longer as beneficial as they use to be. One of the newest practices I have incorporated into my routine is washing my hair in sections. In the past, I remember thinking that naturals who did that were doin the most! However, washing in sections helps prevent tangles and is a surprisingly good way to access the scalp.

Going natural is such an interesting and complex process. I call it a process because you are constantly evolving and changing. Just like with anything else in life, you have stages. The process of being natural is no different. Take things in stride and remember to grow, grow, and grow!

Natural Hairstyle | Twisted Chignon Updo

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by Jensine from junglenaps.com

For those of us that live the #bun life during the cooler months, I have a fun way to switch things up. This classy style is perfect for a day at the office or school and my favorite part is that it can be done on “old” hair. Basically, this means that you don’t have to wash and set your kinks the night before. You can now say yes to more free time, while still looking chic in your updo.

This twisted chignon style is easy to create and it can be done in under ten minutes. All you need is one hair tie, a good amount of bobby pins, and an edge control product of your choice. In the following video, I show you in detail how I accomplish this style on my own hair. Give this style a try and let me know what you think in the comments section.

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You can find Jensine on her Youtube channel Jungle Naps, on Instagram, and on Facebook.

5 Conditioning Ingredients You Have In Your House Right Now

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by WestNDNBeauty of ConfessionsofaBlogVixen

Experiencing dry, brittle, or frizzy hair? You may be in need of a moisturizing, conditioning treatment. Sure you can purchase a pricey concoction from your local store, but nothing beats the convenience of your own kitchen! Here are 5 ingredients that make excellent DIY conditioners.

Eggs
Eggs are rich in lecithin which both help to strengthen and moisturize. The yolk is the primary ‘active ingredient’ in eggs when used on hair. The yolk acts as a serum, helping the hair to reflect light for an appearance of shiny hair. Rinse hair with cold to luke warm water to avoid the egg yolks cooking.

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Mayonnaise
The most complete of kitchen conditioners, mayo offers the benefits of eggs and glosser (oil) in a ready-to-use, convenient form. A few drops of your favorite essential oil can cut down on the scent of the mayo.



Avocado
Avocado is a wonder fruit with so many excellent benefits when consumed. It also funnels its awesomeness when applied externally on hair. In addition to moisture, this fruit is full of amino acids, all promoting strong, healthy hair growth. Before applying to hair or mixtures, use an electric blender to pulverize the avocado and get rid of chunky pieces.



Yogurt
In addition to being a softener, yogurt also contains lactic acid; an AHA which strips the outer layer of the hairs’ keratin, helping to improve absorption of other strength building ingredients. Due to the stripping properties, this treatment is best used as a pre-poo prior to application of a moisturizing deep conditioner.



Coconut Butter
Also known as coconut cream concentrate, this tropically scented butter cream totes all the benefits of coconut milk times ten! Of all listed, this is the most pleasant ingredient which can easily be added to your store-bought moisturizing deep conditioners for a weekly deep condition. Tropical Traditions offers the most bang for your buck with frequent BOGOs for this locally hard to find item!

What ingredients do you use for DIY treatments? 

This post was originally published in November 2013, and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

Dove Launches Curly-Haired Emojis for #LoveYourCurls Campaign

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Hola Chicas!

So y’all know I wear many hats, to include mommy, wife, daughter, sister, bestie, best-selling and NAACP Image Award Nominated author, TV personality, habitual over-sharer, natural hair advocate, diva, psychotherapist and lover of ham. But it’s the mommy, psychotherapist and #TeamNatural hats I was wearing when Dove Hair reached out to share the #LoveYourCurls campaign that they had recently launched.

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Their team was armed with stats like-

• Only 4 in 10 little girls with curly hair think their hair is beautiful
• Only 10% of women in the US with curly hair feel proud of their hair
• Curly haired girls are 7 times more likely to dislike their curly hair if their mother dislikes her own curls
• 84% of girls whose mother’s like their own hair, say they like their hair as well (1)

Now you know, this is what we do all day every day, so I was already in my choir robe when they started preaching. I didn’t need to see their fancy reports. I know it, I've seen it, I’ve lived it. I used to hate my natural hair, but now I love it. I’ve come full circle. And now I’m trying to make sure that my little sponge, aka Boogie, loves her natural self too, which seems to be working out quite nicely
‘cause--
#SheStayFeelingHerself

So this just in—Dove Hair has launched the third phase of their curl lovin’ campaign and this time, they’re tackling the world of Emojis. 1 in 3 women in the U.S. have curly hair (2), and 74% of people in the U.S. report using Emojis daily(3). Yet there continues to be no representation of curly hair available in the Unicode Emoji keyboard.

While Emojis are slowly diversifying (as evidenced by the last update), there is still a “one size fits all” for hair – "straight" and "sleek", you know, the traditional beauty standard. And there are no curly hair updates in sight.

Knowing it takes extensive time to petition Unicode to update its keyboard, Dove Hair will offer an immediate solution for all of the curly girls of the world who currently have no accurate representation of their hair when “speaking” in the increasingly common social language of Emojis.

The Dove Love Your Curls Emojis will be available for free download in the App Store or Google Play TODAY, NOVEMBER 4, 2015 (standard data rates apply). Also, beginning today every time you tweet #LoveYourCurls a curly Emoji will automatically appear within the tweet right after the hashtag.

Happy Texting,

Nik

Sources:

(1) “Dove Hair Study Conducted by Edelman Berland, October 2014
(2)H&E Study, 2014 
(3)Swift Media, August 2015

7 Ways to Get Super Moisturized Natural Hair Right Now!

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by Charlene Walton of TexturedTalk

Besides hair growth, moisture is by far the number one area women struggle with in terms of their natural hair.  If you are a new natural or in the process of transitioning, this may come as a shock to you but, it is OK to moisturize your hair every day.  This does not mean shampooing and conditioning every day but, pure and simple moisture.  Moisturized hair will lead to less breakage, greater lengthen retention, easier manageability, softer hair and so forth. The confusion comes into play when women THINK they are moisturizing their hair but, the hair is still dry and brittle. The common thing I hear is “I put tons of coconut oil in my hair so it’s moisturized.” Unfortunately, that will only lead to a head full of oily hair and clogged pores.  If you constantly put coconut oil on your hair only to discover your scalp is itchy and the hair is brittle, there is no hydration in your regimen.   Remember: oils do not moisturize.  If you want to achieve moisturized natural hair here are 7 things you must start doing TODAY.

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 1. Increase Moisturizing Frequency (Morning, noon & night)
Moisturizing your hair once is the morning may not be enough. Curly hair is naturally prone to be drier than other textures because the sebum has to work 3 times as hard to get from our root to ends due to all the curves along the strand.   Use a daily moisturizing lotion in the morning and gently mist your hair with water at night.  If your hair also feels dry by mid-day, using a refresher spray like the Obia Natural Hair Curl Hydration Spray as well.  The main take-away is moisturizing once or twice a week isn’t going to do the trick.  You must moisturize daily and even multiple times a day if needed.

2. Change Your Deep Conditioning Regimen

Deep conditioning is another option where changing the frequency is possibly needed.  Hair that is extremely dry and breaking should start on a weekly moisturizing deep conditioning regimen.  Moisturizing deep conditioners like TGIN Honey Miracle Mask Deep Conditioner, which is void of protein, will help boost moisture levels and reduce shedding. If you want a pure moisturizing deep conditioner without protein make sure to read the label to confirm.

3. Don’t Confuse A Moisturizer With A Styler
Another common mistake several new naturals make is confusing a styling product with a moisturizer. While there are a few products that work as double duty action, products like gels, curling custards, foaming lotions and mousses should not act as your daily moisturizing product. Stylers are mainly formulated for hold and definition first. A moisturizing product should still be used in conjunction with these items as you will see in most product lines. Use products where water is the first ingredient on the label such as hair lotions and hair milks for daily moisture and stylers to define your curls.
 
4. Understand How Glycerin Works
Glycerin is a common ingredient found in tons of products and when used correctly, glycerin can also be amazing for your hair. But, you must understand how glycerin works first. At the core, glycerin is a type of humectant, which means it attracts moisture to itself and your hair when it is found in your products. The hydrogen bonding properties of humectants attract water from the atmosphere bringing moisture to the hair and ultimately improves moisture retention. On extremely humid days too much moisture can be attracted to your hair causing the hair to swell and frizz. However, on low humidity days (cold, dry days) where the surrounding air is more dry than your hair, the opposite occurs. Moisture is drawn from the hair back into the air to balance the moisture in the atmosphere. Did you catch all that? If not, read more About Glycerin and Natural Hair.
 
5. Seal Moisture for YOUR Hair Type
Another key to obtaining moisturized natural hair is ensuring you are sealing moisture for YOUR hair type. I underlined “your” for a reason. Using the L.O.C method is great but this is pointless if your leave-in conditioner, oil and cream do not work for your texture. Every curl type and texture is different. What works for one woman or blogger may not work for you. Ingredients my fine, 4a-4b hair texture enjoys are shea butter creams like the Alikay Naturals Moisture Rich Parfait, thick and creamy leave in conditioners with aloe vera, and avocado oil. My hair remains moisturized up to 3 days with just leave in conditioner and shea butter…very simple and easy to manage. And because coconut oil doesn’t work for everyone also read 7 Amazing Oils for Natural Hair Besides Coconut Oil .

6. Cleanse Hair & Scalp More
Clean hair is another way to achieve more moisturized natural hair. Why? Because cleansing the hair and scalp on a regular basis will ensure product build up is removed which, in return enables your products to work better and allows moisturizing products to actually penetrate the hair and scalp. If you co-wash often product build up will happen and a clarifying shampoo is suggested for use at least monthly. Shampooing your hair every 5-7 days will remove build up, sweat and environmental elements.
 
7. Drink More Water
Of course this one is a no-brainer but as you’ve probably heard before, healthy hair starts from the inside. If your body is de-hydrated your skin and hair will follow. How ever you choose to take care of your skin, think of some of the same characteristics for your scalp. The common rule of thumb for daily water intake is half your body weight. For example, I am 160 lbs, therefore; I would drink 80 oz, or about 5 bottles of water per day.   

What ways do you keep your hair moisturized? Comment and let me know!


The Ultimate Twist-n-Curl Tutorial

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by Michelle Thames of HappilyEverNatural.com

I decided to put a twist (literally) on my old trusty twist and curl. I used to do this style way back in the day (2011), when I first started wading in the waters with my natural hair. This style is excellent for those who are transitioning.

I began with freshly washed hair. I used Shea Moisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil shampoo, followed by Obia Natural Hair Babassu Deep Conditioner, *pause, faints*. I then followed up with the L.O.C. Method using

L- Leave in by Koils By Nature Shealoe Leave in conditioner
O- Oil by Mielle Organics Mint Almond Oil
C- Cream Eco Cocktail Super Fruit Curl Complex Curl & Style Creme.

Check out my video! Happy Twisting!

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Natural Hair Got You Confused?- 4 Reasons You Aren't Seeing Results.

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Photo by David Stuart -- Getty Images

Everyone learns about their hair care needs and wants at their own pace and sometimes there are stumbling blocks that seem to have you at a halt. Overlooking small parts of building a regimen can be the main reason you are not receiving the results you want. Here are four common misconceptions about caring for your curls, coils, and waves that people often don’t consider.


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Only sleeping on a satin pillowcases
Satin pillowcases preserve moisture, not hairstyles.

Solely sleeping on a satin pillowcase without covering or setting your hair is probably more applicable for someone with long, loose curls or wavy hair. Type 4, afro-textured hair holds the most memory (i.e. set styles) out of all the hair types, so regardless of your hair’s length, sleeping on your hair without twisting it, covering it with a bonnet, or coifing it into a pineapple will always result in squashed hair. Sleeping on your twist out, braid out, and other stretched styles without covering it with a bonnet or re-setting it will not render the best second and third-day hair, so that may be why you are struggling to prolong your hairstyles.
 
Having a wet curl pattern

Your hair’s curl pattern is reflected in its dry state not wet state.

Your hair is not Type 3c when it has conditioner in it and Type 4a when it dries. Your curl pattern can be determined when your hair is healthy and in a dry state; not dry in a sense of needing moisture, but dry as in not wet. So, the 4a texture you observe in a dry state is your true curl pattern. The way it looks with conditioner is due to the added weight of the product. If you want to maintain that definition, not elongation, consider using curl definers like gels and styling creams. Curl definers are designed to help capture that curl definition but as the water evaporates, the hair will still retract or shrink and also frizz.
 
Solely relying on heat protectants

Heat protectants help to decrease the potential of heat damage, but they are not completely preventive.

Using heat tools regularly, especially with temperatures over 400 degrees, will inevitably cause heat damage. If you are a straight-haired natural, then you may be ok with those results, but if you expect to maintain your hair’s porosity and curl pattern, then straightening every week or even every month is not ideal.
 
Wanting a curly cut with straight hair results 

If you get a curly cut (e.g. Deva Cut and Ouidad Carve and Slicing), do not expect your hair to be even when you straighten it.

People get curly cuts for two reasons: to prevent heat damage and if there are stark curl pattern inconsistencies. I had a classmate in high school whose nape hair would noticeably shrink to her neck but the front of her hair would hang to her armpit. It almost resembled a natural asymmetrical cut when curly, but when she straightened her hair it was even. If she preferred to wear her hair curly, she could get a curly cut to even it out, but since she enjoyed transitioning from curly to straight, she left her hair as is. Few people have distinctively different curl patterns that affect the overall shape of their hair, but if you know you prefer straight, even hair, then cut your hair while it is straightened.

Is there anything that you are confused about in your regimen?

Jewell Bell Is Naturally Glamorous!

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Were you a slow transitioner or a Big Chopper & why?
 I transitioned as well as big chopped. I decided to go natural back in July 2010 after discovering your site, CurlyNikki.com, as well as one of my biggest hair idols Corinne Bailey Rae who reemerged on the scene with massive and luxurious hair. All my life, my hair was a huge part of my identity and often dictated my self-esteem. Fortunately, my mother never relaxed my hair but years of flat irons and blow dryers completely destroyed my natural hair texture, similar to a chemical relaxer. I became tired of trying to conform to society’s biased standard of beauty. That’s when I made the decision to deviate from the homogeneous fray and go natural.  I transitioned a little over a year before officially big chopping on December 10, 2011. It was the scariest but bravest and most rewarding decision I’ve ever made. 




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Had you always embraced your texture?
 Honestly, I had no idea what my true hair texture was until I big chopped. My hair during my childhood years was heavily pressed, curled and greased down with bows and barrettes LOL But once I big chopped, there was a period in which I had to adjust and even learn to accept my hair texture for what it was. I didn’t have silky, loose curls that were easily manageable. My hair was thick, unruly at times, and even fro- like. But those were characteristics that I learned to embrace and are what makes my hair authentically beautiful. 

How did family and friends react to your decision to go natural? How did they react to the new you?  What was your response to them? 
My family for the most part was very supportive and positive. My mother was especially my biggest advocate and often said she lived vicariously through my hair journey until she gave up the “creamy crack” and big chopped herself this past December.  A few of my friends were not as supportive and thought it was just a “phase” I was going through. My best friend especially would always make comments like, “I like your hair better straight. You look much prettier!”  Now he can’t keep his hands out my hair and absolutely loves it! 

Describe your hair.   
My hair is very thick and fro-like. My curl pattern tends to be looser and finer in the back and middle but the front can be temperamental and at times a diva, especially where my hair tends to be naturally lighter in color. 

What's your current hair routine?
 I usually start with a hot oil treatment, in which I use Lisa Hair Elixir by Carol’s Daughter that I absolutely LOVE! During the week that I shampoo, I’ll use a homemade avocado, banana, and yogurt deep treatment and sit under my steamer for about a half an hour for added penetration. I shampoo my hair once a month with a homemade mud wash recipe from Naptural85, who I absolutely adore! With the exception of shampooing, I co-wash once a week with Trader Joes Tea Tree Tingle Conditioner and follow that up by sealing in moisture with my homemade oil that contains Vitamin E, Castor, Avocado, Sweet Almond, Grape Seed, and Olive Oil. I style my hair with my homemade Shea butter twisting cream, and Flax Seed Gel. I then apply Curlformers and bun my hair for a couple of days- leaving my hair stretched for a perfect mid week twist-out later on. I also use Carols Daughter Black Vanilla Leave in Conditioning Spray for daily moisture and protection. 

How do you maintain your hair at night?
 I maintain my hair at night by lightly moisturizing my hair with water and my hair oil mixture (especially towards the ends, which is the most drying) and pineapple it with a satin scarf, making sure my entire head is covered and all curls are tucked away underneath the scarf. 

How do you maintain healthy length?
I maintain healthy length most importantly by daily moisturizing my hair with water! In the past, I never applied water to my hair everyday and as a result my ends became damaged, forcing me to cut almost 4 inches off because of my ignorance and irrational fear. Protective styling and low manipulation, such as buns, are also essential to my length retention, which I wear mostly during the week. I also take hair vitamins, such as Biotin and MSM vitamins, as well as drinking lots of water and eating (trying to) fruits and veggies. What goes into your body has a tremendous affect on your hair growth and health as well. 

What's the best thing about being curly?
I love the versatility and how distinct it makes you look! Without sounding cliché or melodramatic, in discovering my natural hair I discovered myself. It’s allowed me to embrace the unique, eclectic, and even unconventional qualities about myself, and has completely transformed my overall image. I also love how I’m known for my hair, but in a positive way. For the most part, African Americans are the only race with our own distinctive texture of hair. Rather than view it as an abhorrence rooted in deep self-hatred it should be celebrated for its uniqueness and beauty! 

Where can folks find you on the web?
 I can be found on Facebook: Jewell Bell
Instagram: @jewellbell
 And my style blog: stopdropclothe.blogspot.com 

How to Get Sleek Edges...No Gel...No Brush

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Hola Chicas!

I'm re-posting the article below. After the Super Cute Headband blog, I received an influx of emails asking how I achieved my smooth edges, and this routine, unlike most, is one that has not changed (can you believe it?!). After you're done reading, leave a comment detailing how you get your edges smooth!

So yesterday evening, I was feeling like a frizz monster, and knew that I'd probably end up pulling my TnC into a pony or bun the following morning. I usually lack this foresight, as I turn into a pumpkin after 9pm, and my edges end up FUZZY...which is okay some days, but every now and then, I want a sleeker look! Here's what I did:

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  1. I gathered and secured my hair on top of my head using a scrunchy. I used only my 10 digits to do the job--no brush, no comb.
  2. I then took a bit of Shea butter, melted it between my palms, and generously applied it to my edges. 
  3. Finally, I put on a scarf, and went to bed.
  4. In the morning, I removed the scarf to reveal smooth, frizz free edges!

Before

Unlike with gel, my hair is not stiff or flaky. I have the control I need with a softer, more natural look. It's the best of both worlds! This method is low stress on your edges-- you're not using tools, and you don't have to pull them tight to get that sleek/smooth effect.

After

Of course, being the indecisive person I am, I changed my mind at the last minute, and took my hair down (not before attempting to jazz it up a bit, lol). I was surprised to find it still fluffy, and defined (albeit frizzy, lol). I liked the look and decided to rock it out again!


Moral of the story... apparently, pineappling (sleeping in a high loose pony to preserve curls) works for me! Go figure. Also, if you want a sleek pony or bun with out stressing your edges, try my Shea butter technique, and start the process the night before--or at least 30 minutes before you need to leave the house. Let the scarf and shea do the work :~)

Sometimes, if my edges are particularly fuzzy, I'll wet my hands, smooth my edges and crown, and then apply the shea butter. I've also found pure Aloe Vera Jelly (used in the same way as the shea) to be very effective, it just provides a harder hold... but the shine is unmatched! Also, I bet Castor Oil or butters similar in consistency in pure Shea would work just as well (i.e. Mango Butter).

Later Gators,
Nik

This post was originally published in August 2009 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

Gia's Crown- A Basic Natural Hair Care Regimen

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School Picture Day #NailedIt #BraidNCurlPonyGreatness #TarjayOutfitters

Hola Chicas!

Today is 'school picture day' and despite the disrespectfully damp conditions here in the District, I let her rock out with her hurr out. And I was feeling pretty good about that decision until I got word from a concerned (and obviously more well-informed) mommy friend that the photos were taking place OUTSIDE.  Like, outdoors... in all the misty, foggy water droplets.   I'm sure her braid-n-curl pony will quickly morph into a braid-n-puff, but you know how that ish go. #NaturalHairWoes #WhoGonDetangleItTho

 If you'll recall, I washed Gia's hair on Sunday.  So how did we go from this--


to this?




Once a month, after a 15 minute coconut oil pre-poo, I wash Boogie's hair (in 2 sections- right and left) in the kitchen sink with either Trader Joe's or Giovanni's Tea Tree Shampoo.  I follow up with a ton of Aussie Moist Conditioner and gently finger detangle before going through once with my seamless, wooden, wide-tooth comb. It's super gentle on her hair and it's cute too, lol.  #AestheticallyPleasingHairToolsForTheWin

I rinse thoroughly and apply a hefty amount of Giovanni Direct Leave-In throughout her length and a little Amla Oil on the ends.  I then install hella curlformers to stretch her hair (smoothing each small section with my Bass wooden brush before installing the roller).  I do small sections so that her hair dries faster.  As long as we start at like 9am, she's dry by 8pm... earlier, if she'll sit under the hooded dryer for 30 minutes or so.  But the time commitment is worth it because her stretched hair (which is easier to style) will last 3-4 weeks depending on the styles we opt for during the week, and how well I maintain it at night.   It takes me 1.5 hours to wash, condition, detangle and install the rollers. 

Later that night, after I take out the curlformers, I immediately french braid her hair and tie it down with a headscarf.  

 On regular school days, she wears two french braids, or two twisted pony tails, like this--
 

buns, when I'm feeling lazy--


or 2-4 braids/plaits and a headband.  Since the styles are so basic, I always dress them up with super cute headbands and bows.  I keep her ponies and buns loose to protect her ends as well.  I also switch up her part from time to time to prevent over manipulation. 

On special occassions, like today, we rock out and hope for the best!  


To keep her hair happy between wash days, I plait her hair up every, single night (2-3 plaits).  I then apply a little raw shea butter to her edges to keep them laid and a little raw shea butter or organic amla oil on her ends and length while I braid for lubrication, nourishment and shine. She sleeps in her satin bonnet every night and due to the way it's made, it rarely comes off!  If her ends get super dry (they usually don't), I'll spritz her hair with a leave-in like Oyin's Juices and Berries before applying the oil.  However, I usually don't have to re-apply 'wet' products to her hair until wash day.  Keeping her hair detangled and lubricated makes my morning routine easier and the next wash day is a breeze (cause that joint is already detangled!)

For her school pic day look, I kept her fresh curlformer set in 2 french braids on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday (this kept the hair smooth and detangled).  Last night, I made 4 braids (two up front and two in the back) using a little raw shea butter to help set the texture.  I then spritzed the ends with Cream of Nature's Argan Oil spray leave-in and applied a little of their setting foam before rolling the last 2 inches of each braid on a flexi rod.  I tied down with a scarf and released this morning before pulling it up into a loose, high ponytail.  Easy peasey :) 

Later Gators,
Nik

Hair Volume: How to Get More or Less

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by Emilia Obiekea of Adorebotanicals.com 
Back when my hair was relaxed I liked to keep it as straight as possible. As soon as it would start to swell, the flat irons came out. Fast forward, 5+ years, I love my hair to be large and achieve maximum volume by the end of the week. We all have our preferences. Some love sleek others love fluff. No matter which way you sway...it's all about the volume. 

(image courtesy: istock)
What is hair volume anyway?
Hair volume is determined by the following elements:
  • Density: The amount of hair on your head determines the density/ thickness of your hair. There is not an exact expected number of strands per person. *Generally expected to be 100 thousand or so. The number of strands is largely due to genetics and can be impaired by health issues as well.
  • Strand Diameter: The size of width of individual strands.
  • Sebum: Natural sebum (oil) level on scalp and down the length of the hair. If hair is very oily the strands are prone to stick together. This can cause temporary loss of volume.
  • Lastly, general characteristics of the hair (hair types).
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Hair volume is basically due to genetics and affected by weather and other factors. The amount of volume is reduced or encouraged by the use of hair products.

Types of Volume

There are generally 3 recognized types of volume. 

Low Volume
Characteristics:
  • Hair is very lightweight
  • Tends to have a lot of flyaways
  • Strands are small in diameter
  • Usually the hair is straight/ lightly textured throughout
  • Can be difficult to curl/ maintain textured styles
Quick way to identify:
  • If the base of your ponytail is slender (dime size and under).
  • If you can easily see your scalp when your hair is soaking wet (without manipulation).
How to Increase Volume
  • Keeping your ends trimmed. 
  • Shorter hair styles. *Removing some length reduces the weight of the strands. This makes the hair to appear fuller.
  • Fluffing your roots.
  • Use products that increase volume/ "thicken" the hair.
  • Tip: When doing twist outs/ braid outs do not focus on the roots. Allow it to be puffy. This will give your style great volume from the roots down.*This is something I figured out during the 3 years I transitioned my hair from relaxed to natural. It really works.
Medium Volume
This is the most common type.
Characteristics:
  •  Not thin but not thick in density
  • Doesn't get easily weighted down my many products
  • Can have some flyaways
Quick way to identify:
  • If the base of the ponytail is the approximately the width of a nickle. 
  • If you cannot see majority of your scalp through your hair when wet.
How to Maintain Current Volume
  • Use anti-humectant products or normal daily moisturizers.
  • Wonderful anti-humectant oils and butters are: mango butter, argan oil and jojoba oil. *Jojoba oil is actually a liquid wax.
Large Volume
Characteristics:
  •  Usually highly textured by (curls, waves, zig zags or afro) 
  • Density varies from average to very thick
  • Strands range from fine to thick
  • Can use regular to thick/ heavy products for leave ins and stylers.
Quick way to identify:
  • If the base of the ponytail is anything larger than a nickle
  • When your hair is wet you cannot see your scalp through your hair.
How to Decrease Volume
  • Use anti-humectant leave ins and stylers.
  • Avoid leave in products that are heavy with humectants and oils that behave as humectants. 
  • Joico Humidity Blocker spray is a nice product to use. Some have mixed reviews. It has been decent for me.
  • Tip: When styling the hair for a braid/ twist outs be sure to braid the roots first. Then continue to braid or begin twisting the length of the hair to your ends. This will minimize the puffiness at the roots and keep it sleek. The overall look of the style will be less fluffy and more defined. Gel or a style of choice can be applied to the roots. No need to be heavy-handed.
*Common humectants are glycerin, honey and agave nectar. A common oil that behaves as a humectant is castor oil. 
How to Maintain Volume

I adore big hair! The bigger the better IMO. 
  • The best way to maintain large volume hair is to use light weight products and oils. The heavier the product is the more volume will be lost.
  • If these ingredients are in the top 5 on a products ingredient list they may not be best for you (unless you have very dense hair): castor oil, olive oil, beeswax (most waxes).
  • Use products containing the following light to medium weight oils: apricot kernel oil, avocado oil, grapeseed oil, argan oil, hempseed oil, jojoba oil, safflower oil, sunflower oil. Daily Dew oil is a great combo of most of these listed carrier oils.

Top 5 Wash and Go Tutorials for Type 4b/4c Natural Hair

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by Jonna of BlackNaps.org

Many people are under the impression that only the type 3 curly girls can do wash n go styles and achieve great definition. LIES. ALL LIES. Just because your type 4 curls are tiny little coils that zig zag, you can still get super defined results from your wash n go. If you’re not sure what your hair type is, check out the Know Your Hair Type page. If you fall in the 4b/4c category, here are five wash n go tutorials that garnered super defined results. Each one featured different products and different hair lengths. This just goes to show that it’s not just about the product, but the technique.

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1 – LiveNaturallyLove. Just because your curls are small and springing, they can still be defined. See how in this tutorial for 4B 4C hair.


2 – FloridaNatural83. Have a few different curl patterns and textures? No worries with this tutorial. This is effective for a variety of type 4 curls.


3 – NaturalCurliesTV. As our hair grows, it has different needs. For those of you who have longer tresses, here’s a tutorial just for you.


4 – SkinnyGotCurves. For the ladies with short hair or with a tapered cut, this wash n go routine is perfect for you.


5 – NaturallyGlamTV. In this tutorial, you’ll see a helpful technique specifically to help define the kinkiest of curls and coils. It’s not always about the product – sometimes it’s about the technique.



With these tutorials, you’ll be able to find what works best for your 4B/4C hair to achieve a super defined wash n go. For more information about achieving the best wash n go results read these articles:

Have you tried any of the products or techniques used in these tutorials for defining your curls?


SHOW AND TELL- FIERCE FRIDAY!

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Hola Chicas!
Fierce Friday is a way to celebrate our natural hair, displaying our dopest styles and best hair days... for inspiration and motivation. Wanna be featured? All you have to do is upload your favorite pics to Instagram with the tags #FierceFriday and #CurlyNikki. Be sure to share a brief description of the style, where you were headed, why you felt amazing, etc.!

#TBT --missing my curls. Wash day is tomorrow. I've been wearing my hair in a bun all week to give it a break from styling. Ladies, how do you give your manes a break? Comment below & lets chat!👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾#HealthyHairToToe @_cebelamour_

This is for #FierceFriday #CurlyNikki... Loving my third #BigChop! It's a keeper! Off to my career transition group in #Memphis @glowinginsideout


OdesseyOnAJourney... For me it wasn't #DreamsComeThrough, I live life on #Faith & #Destiny. I give #Credit where its due & i owe My #WindowOfOpportunity to @edrissalon for giving me the #Foundation on which a significant amount of whom i am as a stylist was built. SB: The assistant becomes a stylist that can stand with the #Masters. #ThatLittleBlackGirl #BlackStylistThatDoesEveryTexture #curlygirl #CurlyNikki #CurlBox @myjourney_odessey




✌️🏾️ Queens. @curlswithlove


Such a Vibrant Thang! #indynaturals #naturalistasinnap #productjunkies #naturalhairproducts #indynaturals #naturalistasinnap @daricerene


What Do You Do While Deep Conditioning Your Natural Hair?

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by Marchay Sledge of ChayNaturals.com

We all know the glorious benefits of deep conditioning (hydrated, soft, elastic hair), but what do we do while deep conditioning? Well that depends on the length of time you plan to deep condition and how much moisture you need. Besides just sitting under a dryer on your phone playing games, there's a lot of more productive things you could be doing with that time. As a college student, I know the value of every precious second of the day. No one wants to be confined to the dryer for possibly hours at a time. While the heat of a dryer does help, there are also options available that allow slightly more freedom, such as portable bonnet dryers, a hot towel, etc. Here are some ideas for what you can do:

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Sleep - this is one of the most moisture-rich activity of all. Why? Because it takes the longest. The longer you spend with the conditioner in your hair the more it will soak into your hair. Some naturals practice this regularly, which is called the greenhouse method.

Laundry - anybody else hate doing laundry? No? Just me? Well this is one time where I don't mind. Because I'm not doing anything anyway, I feel more efficient when I actually get something done that I've been meaning to get around to. I don't mind putting in three different loads because that's just more moisture for my hair. Not only that, but this is one of those tasks that you can double down on. I can get my laundry done while I wait on my hair, and some third task while I wait on my laundry. It's a win-win!

Read - whether it's assigned or for your leisure, what I enjoy about this is that I can actually do it under the dryer. Some of the tasks on this list rely heavily on the heat from your scalp and time. This, however, can be as long or as short as you please because the heat will help the conditioner settle into your strands much faster.

Homework/Studying - again, another task I'm not very fond of. Hey, it needs to be done and what better time to do it? You can do this under the dryer if you have flash cards or an e-text reading. Otherwise you can sit down for some homework and wait it out. If you have a portable dryer like this one I bought from Amazon, you can still sit under the dryer even if you're working on homework.

Shower - I do this one a lot. I'll use a deep conditioner but I won't really have time to let it sit. So, I'll start my shower with washing my hair (up to the point of applying the deep conditioner). I then let the deep conditioner sit on my hair for the duration of my shower with a shower cap on. The steam from the shower should be sufficient in helping work the conditioner into your hair.

Do you know of any other tasks that are great for deep conditioning? Comment and ask questions below.

5 Tips to Prep Your Natural Hair for Cold Weather

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Days are getting shorter, nights are getting colder. Fall is upon us — seemingly out of nowhere. It almost seemed like Summer would last forever but alas, it’s time to break out the boots, sweaters, and scarves. And drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes from Starbucks. No? Just me?

Caring for your hair in the warmer versus colder months is and should be different for maximum growth and length retention. In Spring and Summer, lighter products is the name of the game. But for Fall and Winter, heavy hitters are needed to maintain moisture, prevent breakage, and promote growth.

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Pre-Poo
If you don’t pre-poo, Fall is a great time to start. Moisture retention begins before you even let a drop of water touch your hair for cleansing. Pre-pooing the hair with heavy-hitting conditioners or penetrating oils means that moisture will go into your hair, making it softer, improving elasticity (preventing breakage), and preventing hair from being stripped during the cleansing process. It also makes detangling a breeze. For maximum moisture, pre-poo hair for at least 30 minutes before cleansing.

Cleansing
In the warmer months, co-washing is an ideal option for cleansing hair, since many curlies tend to use lighter products during this time of year. When temperatures begin to drop, heavier products with oils and butters high on the list begin to come in to play. Unfortunately, many conditioners and co-washing products don’t have the muscle to adequately lift product buildup. This is where having a great sulfate-free shampoo or shampoo bar becomes beneficial. Gently lifting buildup and clarifying the scalp leaves a great foundation for the ultimate moisturizer to shine – water. If hair still has buildup from occlusive agents (like most butters and oils tend to be), water cannot penetrate and moisturize the hair. In turn, hair will become dry, brittle, and prone to breakage. Clarify those strands at least once every 2-3 weeks, if not more frequently.

Deep Conditioning
I cannot emphasize how important deep conditioning is to the moisture retention process – especially on the heels of using clarifying cleansing products. Deep conditioning corrects any dryness, improves elasticity, strengthens, moisturizes, and closes cuticles. All of these functions are integral to maintaining moisture and preventing damage to the hair in colder months. To get the maximum benefit from deep conditioning, let it sit for at 30 minutes to 1 hour. If you can, use indirect heat or steam to up the penetrating factor.

Leave-In
During the colder months, many naturals ascribe to the LOC method (Liquid, Oil, Cream) to retain moisture. If your hair can take that much, this is a great method for retaining moisture long-term. However, my hair is not robust enough to withstand the overwhelming moisture of oil and cream-based products at the same time. If you are building moisture into your regimen at every step along the way, or your hair is finer in texture, water-based leave-in and a non-solidifying cream are ideal. The last part is key — if your butter or cream congeals in colder weather, it may not be the best “final” sealing product. If it gets hard at cold temperatures inside the jar, guess what happens to it once you step into the cold weather outside? Despite all the moisture you’ve put in, hair will feel hard and wiry. Stick to blended smoothie-like products to avoid this feeling.

Styling
Many curlies resort to protective styling during the colder months, and with good reason. Hair can become easily ensnarled in sweaters, jackets, scarves, and other texturized/woven clothing that is popular in Fall and Winter. However, if protective styling isn’t your cup of green tea, it is still perfectly acceptable to rock “out” styles like wash n’ go’s and twist-outs. You just have to become hyper-vigilant about keeping your ends strong with protein treatments, and sealed to retain moisture and prevent splitting. If you really want to take a hands-off approach to your hair, Fall is the perfect time to experiment with beanies (line with satin to retain moisture), scarves, and head wraps.

What changes to your regimen will you be making this Fall?

CurlyNikki's #AskAway Monday

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jumpman, dem boys up to something... #NotJustBluffin

Hola Chicas,

Every Monday morning, I'll be live from the rooftop taking your most burning questions!  If you've got hurr (or whatever and what have you) questions, ask below!

I'll do my best to get to them all!

Later Gators,
Nik

#StraightFluffy

Dorcas Is Naturally Glam!

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Tell me about yourself!
My name is Dorcas. I am proudly Nigerian-Canadian. Born in London, England and living in Toronto, Canada. I am a creator, writer and strive to educate and empower.  I’m also currently wearing mismatched socks.

Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper? What was your journey like?
I’m both! My first go at the natural hair thing I transitioned for about 22 months. At different points I took a few inches off but I refused to part with my length.

I did a second big chop (which maybe isn’t the right word… I got a big haircut) in November 2013 after being fully natural for about 10 months.


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Had you always embraced your texture?
I never got a chance to embrace my texture. I spent my childhood with other’s caring for my hair then moved into caring for my relaxed hair as I got older. Me going natural was all about the journey to discovering my texture and my hair.

How did family and friends react to your decision to go natural? What was your response to them? 
Everyone was overall encouraging with a slight dash of shade. I think those in my family who knew how thick my hair was as a child were doubtful that I could manage it and keep it in good shape. After all, they had battled my head and given up years ago with tales to tell.


Describe your hair (fine or coarse, thin or thick, highly porous, low, etc.)
My hair is thick and multi-textured. It’s overall coarse but with the right products, time and attention it’s absolutely manageable.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to your hair? 
This may be a bit vanilla for most but my cut back in November was the craziest thing for me. My hair was the definition of me. Chopping it all off was a massive and bold step for me.

What’s your biggest hair related regret?
At this point I have none.

What's your current hair routine? How often do you wash, condition, and style? Favorite products! Deets!
With my TWA I’m all about the wash, style and go. I have yet to master the TWA twist out so I stick to what works for me. I cleanse with Deva Curl no poo, deep conditioner with whatever I have on hand (Shea Moisture Raw Shea Butter Masque or Shea Moisture Yucca & Baobab Anti-Breakage Masque) and then finger detangle or use a denman brush if I am lazy. I style from there with ecotyler gel, Kinky Curly Knot today leave-in and Jamaican Black Castor Oil.


What’s your favorite hairstyle? Where do you get hairstyle inspiration?
Back when I had more length it was a twist-out on wet hair, my secret was taking the twist down when they were 90% dry and letting my hair fluff up and become big.
With my shorter hair I am loving definition so I stick with my wash, style and go.

Who is your curl crush?
I don’t think I have one. I mean there are tons of curly girls with great hair but not one person stands out. I think I love all curlies.


How do you maintain your hair at night?
I’m a simple person. Sometimes tying a scarf can be an effort after a long day. I sleep on satin pillowcases, it’s easy and I do nothing other than lay my head down.
With my longer hair I did have to re-twist with certain styles.

How do you maintain healthy length?
Moisture! Quickly followed by a healthy detangling method. Genetically my hair grows quite fast so my effort is focused on maintaining the length. Keeping my hair moisturized and detangling with care keeps my strands strong and breakage-free.


What's the best thing about being natural?
The fact that I’ve completely fallen in love with my hair. It intrigues me, it has inspired me, taught me patience, it has taught me lessons of facing fear. It’s truly a gift!

Where can folks find you on the web?
I’m new to the YouTube scene: https://www.youtube.com/curiousaboutmycurls
Instagram: instagram.com/DorcasOla
Writing Blog: thecuriousproject.ca
Tumblr: curiouscurls.tumblr.com
Twitter: twitter.com/DorcasOla
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