This DC weather got me day drinking and vacation thinking...
Sunnin'
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Sara Is Naturally Glam!
Tell me about yourself!
My name is Sara, and I am a graphic/web designer and natural hair enthusiast. I love all things curly. I live in Chicago, and I am mother of one 5 year old boy.
Were you a slow transitioner or a Big Chopper & why?
No, I actually transitioned pretty fast from heat damage. I don't know if that is a quicker transition then transitioning from relaxer or not. I did chop some of the damage off.
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Had you always embraced your texture?
No, I used to be obsessed with stick straight hair. My mother had to talk me out of a relaxer numerous times. If it wasn't for the fear of severely damaging my hair, I would have probably relaxed it. I just flat ironed the heck out of my hair.
How did family and friends react to your decision to go natural? How did they react to the new you? What was your response to them?
It really wasn't a surprise. I started to wear my hair curly a bit in high school, but I still wasn't doing a healthy routine. My fiancé is very supportive. He told me that he likes my naturally curly hair more than my straight hair. In high school, I used to assume that I could skip deep conditioner on wash days, and I didn't believe in a leave in conditioner. Ugh, what was I thinking?
Describe your hair (fine or coarse, thin or thick, highly porous, low, etc.)
I have fine/medium, somewhat thick, low porosity hair. It takes forever for color to actually penetrate into my hair shaft. My hair type is 3b/3c. The back is the 3c part which used to give me a lot of issues. I finally figured out how to moisturize that section better. That 3c section really likes Jamaican black castor oil.
What's your current hair routine? How often do you wash, condition, and style? favorite products! Deets!
My current routine is to shampoo/clarify one a month (twice in the summer). The rest of times I co-wash. Over all my washdays are every week whether I use shampoo or conditioner to wash. It is usually always followed by deep conditioner, which I leave on for about 45 minutes to a hour. After that, I dry my hair a bit with a T-shirt to get it to stop dripping and to help with frizz. Then I do the L.O.C method which means leave-in, oil, and cream. This last wash day I used Kinky Curly Knot Today as my leave in, 2Curls1Mission Jojoba, Rosemary Mint Oil as my oil, and Camille Rose Naturals Almond Jai Twisting Cream as my cream. I use the cream for wash & go's and twist outs. I like that cream because it does not wear down my texture too much. To help out with frizz, I then applied a bit of Camille Rose Naturals Curlmaker Gel. My holy grails are pretty much all Camille Rose products. I haven't used something that didn't work for me as of yet.
What's the best thing about being curly?
I just feel more free, wild, and edgy. Curly hair is unpredictable and un-uniform. I like getting compliments on my hair and the fact that I do not blend in. Mostly everyone has straight hair. Also, color looks more interesting on curly hair to me.
Where can folks find you on the web?
Website: Naturalsara.com
Facebook: www.facebookcom/naturalsaradotcom
Twitter: @Naturalsarablog
Youtube: Naturalsara
Instagram: @Sweetestsaranade
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Hair Loss or Hair Breakage? What Do You Have?
If you've been diligently measuring and monitoring your hair growth since going natural, you may be discouraged by each strand you see collect on your comb when you detangle. Many women are distressed by the amount of hair they shed in the shower daily. But, are you losing your hair or are
you experiencing hair breakage?
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What's the difference between hair loss and hair breakage? Understanding this difference can be the key to solving the problem.
What is hair loss?
When your hair naturally falls from the root, you are experiencing hair loss. Some amount of hair loss normal and to be expected.
In fact, while you may not be aware of it, you’re likely losing up to 100 strands each day. The “100 strands” theory is based on the assumption that we have approximately 100, 000 hairs on our scalp and lose around 1% of them daily.
Additionally, the rate at which you’re losing hair can vary based on gender, diet and genetics.
What is hair breakage?
Curly hair is especially prone to breakage. You may experience breakage when combing, detangling, or styling your curls. Breakage is most noticeable when brushing or combing your hair, removing a hair band, or in the shower.
Which do you have?
If you look closely at a strand of your hair, hair that has been lost through the natural process of shedding will still have the root attached. Hairs that have suffered from breakage will be in shorter sections, and will not include the root.
How to prevent both
One way to decrease both hair loss and breakage is to take extra care in the detangling process. Be gentle with your curls, use a wide toothed comb, and determine the method which works best for you. For some this will involve coating your strands with a high slippage conditioner and combing in the shower, for others this may be finger detangling after your shower.
Alternatively, focusing on the overall health of your hair can prevent excessive breakage. Give your hair weekly deep conditioning treatments to help strengthen your strands.
3 ways to treat them
1. If you missed the boat on prevention, there are several techniques that can help remedy the situation.You can start by using a conditioning shampoo that works to moisturize the scalp as well as cleanse, like Kinky Curly’s Come Clean. You’d use this in addition to your regular conditioning routine.
2. Also be sure to trim your split ends at least monthly. Split ends travel right up your hair shaft and if you don’t tackle them at the ends of your hair, they’ll cause your hair to split and break several inches from the tips.
3. Finally, make sure you’re giving your hair a deep condition at least once a month. Your hair will soak up this soothing treatment and will thank you by staying in place!
Share your experiences below!
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Healthy Natural Hair vs. Damaged Hair: Are They the Same?
With all the care you’ve taken of your hair, would it surprise you to know that even if you don’t have overt signs that your hair is in fact damaged? And the longer your hair is, the more damage it has sustained?
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Damage can be defined as any condition where one or more of the hair structures – the cuticle, cortex, medulla, etc. – are physically or chemically altered so much that they are unable to return to their original state. Cuticles can become cracked and frayed, the hair shaft can become cracked damaging the cortex and medulla, and the hair fiber can be exposed and unprotected in extreme cases.
The question is, to what extent is your hair damaged?
Main Causes of Damage
Common causes of hair damage include that from regular hair care practices such as mechanical manipulation, to extreme processes like chemical altering.
Mechanical damage includes damage from friction and tension. Friction occurs when the hair strands rub against each other. In some hair types and textures this can lead to a build up of static electricity and flyaways. This is rarely the case for textured hair. What we tend to experience is the rising of the cuticles and tangling. Causes of friction include combing, brushing, manipulation of the hair with our fingers, shampooing and conditioning the hair.
Tension is another culprit when it comes to damaging the hair. A common example of this is traction alopecia which results in hair loss along the hairline. It’s caused primarily by pulling forces being applied to the hair, and occurs commonly from tight ponytails, puffs or braids.
Heat styling is a major source of damage especially when the hair is being manipulated with a brush while being styled. These tools can deplete the hair of moisture resulting in dryness.
Shampoos that have a pH higher than 5.5 can cause a pH imbalance and affect the cuticle. If it contains harsh surfactants such as sodium lauryl sulfate the hair can be stripped of its natural oils located in the epicuticle, or the outermost cuticle layer. This can result in mechanical damage due to combing and styling. In addition, the intercellular “glue” which binds the fibers of the cortex together can be dissolved by repeated shampoos with a high pH and harsh detergents. This can lead to damage to the cortex (which accounts for the hair’s strength).
Lastly, hair can be damaged from modifying its chemistry through the application of chemical relaxers, texturizers and permanent colours. When the hair is damaged in this way, the fatty acids cuticle are stripped away leading to an increase in the porosity of the hair. More water will enter the hair shaft causing it to swell. A swollen hair shaft can result in a lifted cuticle, more friction, tangles and damage.
The reality is that the longer your hair is, the more exposure it’s had to physical manipulation. The hair towards the end of your hair is the oldest and most susceptible to being damaged from combing, brushing, exposure to UV rays, manipulation, friction, etc.
So what is “healthy” hair?
In her book “Hair Care Rehab: The Ultimate Hair Repair & Reconditioning Manual”, Audrey Davis-Sivasothy describes healthy hair as “damaged hair that is well-maintained”.
Characteristics of healthy hair or hair that is in good condition include the appropriate balance of the following properties:
- Elasticity – the ability of the hair to be stretched or manipulated without breaking.
- Porosity – the ability of the hair to absorb moisture.
- Strength – The ability of the hair to resist breakage with manipulation.
- Have minimal breakage;
- Feel soft to the touch;
- Appear shiny or possess sheen;
- Have the ability to properly retain moisture;
- Have a fairly uniform curl pattern from the base of the hair to the ends;
- Return back to its original position after being stretched.
How Damaged Is Your Hair?
To assess how damaged your hair is, answer the following questions:
- Do you have a loss of elasticity to your hair? Curly and kinky hair should be able to stretch to about 50% of its length before breaking. If it can’t be stretched to this degree without breaking then it has lost some elasticity and tensile strength.
- Is your hair breaking? This is related to loss of elasticity. Minimal breakage is normal but patches of broken hairs signify more extensive damage.
- Does your hair have shine or sheen or does it look dull? While lack of shine or sheen may be a characteristic of healthy hair of some curly hair types on healthy hair a tight cuticle layer reflects light.
- Is your hair dry and brittle? Hair becomes brittle when it has lost moisture. Damage to the cuticle and cortex are the main reasons for this brittleness.
- Is your hair highly porous? Porosity assess how easily the hair accepts and releases moisture and other substances. Porosity and moisture loss are due to cuticle damage. The cuticle is no longer tightly aligned and providing proper coverage to the hair shaft.
- Do you have split ends? Split ends are ruptures that travel up the hair shaft that expose the inner structures of the hair.
- Does your hair tangle a lot? Excessive tangling can be due to frayed hair fibers.
If you answered “yes” to two or more of these questions then your hair is need of some TLC. Stay tuned for repair strategies in next week’s post!
What's the state of your hair?
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Conditioning Basket Giveaway- Just Comment on Articles Across CN.com!
I'm giving away 6 Conditioning Baskets(worth ~$90 each) this month (May 2015) to question askers and answerers!
If you see a curly-in-need who has asked a question under a post, answer it! If you are a curly who has a question that needs an answer, ask it! Not under this post, on all the posts!
The first three baskets will go to the three curlies with the highest number of posts this month (5/1-5/31, comments from previous months don't count) and the next three will go to three randomly selected commenters. Past winners are eligible!
Which posts/articles count for the contest? All of them! Good luck!
*contest ends May 31, 2015 at 5pm EST*
*Please only post comments that spark conversation and further discussion. Free products are EVERYTHING but this is really about strengthening our community and helping other naturals!*
Later Gators,
Nik
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SHOW AND TELL- FIERCE FRIDAY!
Hola Chicas!
Fierce Friday is a way to celebrate our natural hair, displaying our dopest styles and best hair days... for inspiration and motivation. Wanna be featured? All you have to do is upload your favorite pics to Instagram with the tags #FierceFriday and #CurlyNikki. Be sure to share a brief description of the style, where you were headed, why you felt amazing, etc.!
You're not the only one..... I struggle with finding ... And keeping my balance also#happiness #balance #beauty #spiritual #soulful #namaste #browngirl #beautifulspirit #priceless @priceless_tamara
Found the light lol #naturalhair #naturalhairdaily #twistout #whowantstobuymeacanon??? lol @dana_labloom
The I'm ready but I'm not ready for summer look #BeYou #TeamNatural @curlssodope
First off I wanna thank the Hair Gods. Secondly the products I used because my 1st #washandgo was a total success!!! *twerks real quick* But seriously my bathroom lighting isn't doing it any justice right now lol. I didn't think my #4chair could do this but I am super excited!!!! I love my #naturalhair #NOFILTER But my face is BEAT @posh_syd
Would of never known 1 year and 5 months would of changed my life. When I first cut my hair off I was very insecure of my TWA. So I install wigs thinking it would keep me secure of myself but the whole time you have to be secure and confident within yourself. Now, I wear my crown like its nothing because I love and cherish my Fro. @iamkayfitz
If you're one of the three people to watch the TV show I work on, Grady Newsource, then prepare to cry...cause its our last week! So watch at 5 and I'll give you a present. Hint: I put out like a firefighter and go down more times than a sorority girl's self esteem. #naturalhair #afro #manbun @believahdahdiva
Being a natural has taught me to go with the flow and work with wat I got. I did a flexirod set with a new product yesterday and the results were less than ideal. I had no idea what I would do with my hair today. So this morning I tried out this cute braided style that I've seen on a few ladies. Super cute and done in less than 3 minutes. I think I've found one of my go to styles for the summer when I wanna switch up from my wash and go. Btw: Have you seen my updated wash and go routine I uploaded yesterday. If not check it out. @brandilou88
Natural Lighting is the best! #awkwardstage #naturallyshesdope @irocknspen
Natural hair never disappoints! :) @christypetko
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"The beauty of your hair is not defined by its texture, but its health."- Whitney R.
My name is Whitney Rochette and I was born in Curacao (a very small island somewhere in the Caribbean). I am half Dominican and half Antillean. My hair is a beautiful struggle and my mother noticed this when I was little Whitney. Whenever she announced that she was going to wash my hair, I immediately ran to the garden and tried to hide myself between some animals. At some point my mother got tired of this routine and decided to relax my beautiful curls. Twelve years later, at the age of 18 years old, I decided to start transitioning…best choice ever!
How long have you been natural? Have you always embraced your curls?
I am officially natural since 2013, so almost two years. I started transitioning in 2011, but I made a huge mistake…I used a texturizer. My hairdresser explained me that a texturizer is similar to a relaxer. At that point, I decided to cut my hair.
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What motivated you to transition? Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper& why?
I was both, sounds a bit odd, but it is possible. I transitioned my hair until my jawbone and thereafter I went for the big chop. Personally I do not think that a very, very short haircut will look good on me and therefore I decided to wait until my hair reached a certain length before cutting. On the other hand, I lost patience…
How would you describe your hair?
My hair is a beautiful struggle: It keeps surprising me with her personality and PMS moods. In the beginning we were in a continuous battle, I was trying to manage my curls and my hair was resisting. I hated everything about my hair and the more I was hating, the bitchier my hair became haha. But then I decided to sit down, relax and to analyze. I had to accept my hair in order to be happy and ever since I accepted my hair, we have been fierce together.
What do you love most about your hair?
It is so fluffy, big and special to me!
What has been the most memorable part of your journey?Has it been easy or difficult or both?!
The moments I have been battling with the values which my environment taught me. I will be honest with you, I cried a lot. I was very insecure and it was difficult for me to accept my hair texture. But then I realized that these difficulties were caused by the fact that my hair was relaxed when I was six. As a child I developed the thought that my natural hair is not beautiful…Guess what? Currently, I love my hair and I do not want it to be different!
What are (or were) some of your favorite transitioning hairstyles?
During the transitioning process, I did not really have a hairdo. I always kept my hair in a bun. Currently, I mostly wear my hair down.
What have your experiences been as a ‘natural?’ Any memorable reactions from family or others?
My family did not really like it. Some tried to convince me that relaxing my hair would me much better and less damaging (seriously?) to my hair. I just decided to prove them wrong. It is difficult to convince people who do not want to be convinced.
How did you experience dating while natural?
Sometimes I laughed my but off; Sometimes I felt awkward; but most of the times I felt really special. My first boyfriend tried to convince me to go natural, but I was not ready.
At the beginning (A couple of year later) of the transitioning process, my second lover told me that he wants me to have type 3 hair. This made me more insecure about my hair texture. Luckily, we found out that things would not work out together.
Thereafter, I had some dates which were hilarious. The guys were looking at my hair, instead of my face. I was like: “Hello, my face is down here you know?”
What is your hair regimen (including fav products)?
The night before washing my hair I pre-poo using Amla-Mint-Rosemary-Castor oil. Why? Because my hair loves it! It becomes soft, bouncy and less frizzy. For some reason the night before washing my hair I have the best hair day of the week, haha! I was my hair with sulfate-free shampoo thereafter I deep condition my hair for at least an hour. Lastly, I finger detangle my hair and rinse.
My favorite leave-in conditioner is from the coconut-hibiscus line of Sheamoisture. Besides, sometimes I use the green ecostyler. But I mostly use the Amla-mint-rosemary-castor oil, which I have created myself.
What are some of your favorite natural hair websites,YouTuber’s, or blogs?’
Whitney from Naptural85, she is so awesome!
Anything you want the readers to know? Inspirational words?
Yes, I noticed that there are many people who question their hair texture. I have said this many times, but I will say it again: “The beauty of your hair is not defined by your hair texture, but its health”.
Do you feel sexy with your fro?
Of course I do! The bigger the fro, the better!
Where can people find you for more information?
Instagram: @WhitneyFromTheBlog
Beautyblog: www.curlsnlashes.wordpress.com
Instagram beautyblog: @Curlsndlashes
Fashionblog: www.whitneyfromtheblog@wordpress.com
Global Couture is trying to spread the word about embracing your natural hair. Love your HAIR, if it is wavy, curly, kinky or coily.
Are you naturally fierce? Email us to share your hair journey at globalcouture@aol.com
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The Coconut Milk Treatment for Soft, Humidity-Resistant Natural Hair
by Veronica of blackdymondnaturals.com
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I like adding a tablespoon of honey (a natural humectant), 1 tablespoon of olive oil and a few drops of Rosemary essential oil to half a mason jar of coconut milk. I prefer using Thai brand of coconut milk. This can be used as a pre-poo while detangling hair. You really can't go wrong. Either way, you'll have nice, pliable, soft hair. Just remember to add honey/and or oil. Coconut milk contains protein and can be drying to the hair, this is why I use honey and olive oil.
Now, I don't deep condition with heat. Violet doesn't like that (found that out during the winter). My preferred method is steaming in the shower or with a hair steamer. By the end of the day even in this humidity my hair is still soft and manageable. I usually use this mixture once or twice a month. Remember, moisture and protein balance is key to the overall health of your hair!
I freeze my leftovers until I'm ready to use it again. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
What's your go-to pre-poo or deep treatment?
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If You're Reading This, I'm Already in the Lou.
Hola Chicas!
It's damn near summer and you know what that means...
For the next couple of months, I've traded this view--
#HighLife #DCliving
for this one--
#ThisHomeTho #SoSaintLouis #WeOutHere #ASAPFerg #FergusonStrong
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Before dipping out, we sipped tea--
#SideEyePerfection #PinkyGameSkrong
And 13 hours later, we were in the LOU with our favorite ladies for Mother's Day!
So Grandma Maxine is a whole, entire trip!
I told y'all she's dealing with a bit of dementia and she knows I stay worried. So when we first arrived, I walked in the front door and found her standing there with a confused expression. Before I could say anything, she asked 'and what's your name?' Reading my face, knowing that I had somehow bought her Oscar-worthy performance, she immediately laughed and followed up with,'Hey Nikki, where's my Gia?!' #SheGotJokes
I'll be checking in tomorrow... on my BIRTHDAY!!!! #GoShawty
Later Gators,
Nik
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Valerie Is Naturally Glam!
Tell me about yourself!
I am an artsy 30 year old professional. I recently moved back home to Kansas, after living in Dallas for 7 years. I love lakes, oceans, traveling, music, talking, spending time around my family, and being creative.
Were you a transitioner or a Big Chopper? What was your journey like?
I transitioned... on accident. As a teen, I had a friend who owned a beauty shop in Kansas, and she would always be able to do my hair. My hair was relaxed at the time. Once I got to college in 2002, I was no longer able to afford the beauty shop, and I wasn't taking care of my hair. It started to break off. So, I decided to not get another relaxer and gradually cut off the relaxed portion. Natural hair wasn't "in" at that time, so I got the most flack from African American men.
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Had you always embraced your texture?
Yes! I've always had long, soft textured hair. I actually won "Best Hair" in high school. I know, there are better titles to have won in high school; however, I was proud!
How did family and friends react to your decision to go natural? What was your response to them?
My close friends loved my natural hair, but my family, and many others repeatedly told me, "I like your straight hair better." Their opinion clearly didn't matter. Unfortunately, I still receive those comments.
Describe your hair (fine or coarse, thin or thick, highly porous, low, etc.)
My hair is bi-polar. When it's freshly washed and groomed, it's long, soft, curly and shiny. After some hours, it's shrunken and appears dry, though I'll have soft curls.
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done to your hair?
Good question. I recall trying to create my own Chinese bangs and looking crazy, but overall I've kept it safe with my hair. I've had it combed out and pinned it up into a huge styles, but nothing too "crazy".
What’s your biggest hair related regret?
I cut my hair earlier this year myself. Yea. It was bad. I miss my length, and now I'm just waiting for it to grow back.
How often do you wash, condition, and style? Favorite products! Deets!
I shampoo my hair once a week and I usually condition it 2 to 3 times a week. I do a homemade deep condition once a month. I've tried soo many products, and actually make my own at times. The national brands I use are Cantu, Miss Jessie's, African Pride Olive Miracle, and As I Am. Thus natural hair experience is ALL about trial and error. I've had to test products out until I found what works for my specific hair type.
What’s your favorite hairstyle? Where do you get hairstyle inspiration?
I love to simply wear my wash and go. The bigger, the better! I constantly check out IG and FB for hair ideas and tips. I also love how my hair looks when it's twisted, but I don't do it often because it's takes 4 hours!
Who is your curl crush?
I have several, but my #1 crush is Lavish Hunter. Add her on IG under "Lphunt3r"
How do you maintain your hair at night?
Honestly, some days I just go to bed. However, I have a satin cap that I use, or I'll moisturize it then twist or braid it up before bed.
How do you maintain healthy length?
Oils!!! Olive oil, coconut oil, caster oil, jojoba oil. My hair drinks up the oil, but my goal is to always keep it moisturized
What's the best thing about being natural?
I love knowing that I present myself exactly the way God made me.
Where can folks find you on the web?
Add me on Instagram under "youcancallmeVal" or on Twitter under "valeriejanea"
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What to do When Your Natural Hair Won't Let You Be Great...
@BaronessCountess
by Kanisha Parks of BlackNaps.org
We’ve all been there: you set out to execute a flawless style, you have the perfect combination of products and the best tools, you make preparations regarding how much drying time you’ll need, etc., and yet- the style just doesn’t turn out right. Other times, your hair seems like it just wants to behave badly and the scissors start to look pretty good. Exasperation with the state of your hair may mean change could be good or even imminent.
Let’s face it- as awesome as it is to be natural, dealing with natural hair can be frustrating, time consuming, and unpredictable at times, especially when you’re in a time crunch or just ready for something different.
When you experience a bad hair day, or think you’re ready for a change such as a cut of some sort or maybe a little color, the first thing to do is always assess the situation and go from there. Here are a few solutions that will help you weigh your options!
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1. Salvage the style. If your hair style turned out poorly in the morning or frizzed up beyond your liking throughout the day, don’t panic before trying to save the style. Times like these, it’s good to have a few styles that are easy to do and will work no matter what. Check out these videos from ItsMyRayeRaye and Traeh who showcase styles for long and short hair, respectively.
What do you do when your hair isn’t acting right? Let us know!
2. Trim your ends. Depending on the situation, if a style isn’t going well, your ends may have something to do with it. Dry, split ends can have a terrible effect on any style where your ends are out, so in many cases, just getting a much needed trim may do the trick.
3. Protective style. If you lead a busy life where styling your hair often isn’t always the most convenient option or if you simply feel as though you want something different, try a protective style. Wigs, braids, twists, crochet braids, and even updos are all terrific options for protective styles and the best part is, you can wear the style you’ve always wanted without embarking on a permanent commitment.
4. Try something new. There’s certainly nothing wrong with coloring your hair, getting a side shave, an undercut, or cutting bangs or layers into your hair if that’s your preference. Just make sure that your decision is based on a true desire for this change, not just because it seems like a good alternative to your current hair situation. You don’t want to end up regretting an irreversible hair decision. Also, do your research: check out other ladies on Instagram and YouTube who have chosen the hairstyle you are itching to pursue. You can also try to compare hair textures to see how the style will behave on your own hair. If you feel any degree of hesitation then don’t rush the decision and make sure you find a stylist you trust or is highly recommended.
5. Big chop #2,3, 4? A second big chop is always an option, and it could be for different reasons: the fact that you enjoy short hair, miss having shorter length, want to get rid of damage, or otherwise. Keep in mind that a second big chop doesn’t necessarily mean cutting it all the way off. Two years ago, my hair started to become damaged after months of overusing heat. After a year of growing it out, I decided I couldn’t hold on to those scraggly ends any longer and I cut my hair back to shoulder length (it has now grown to arm pit length). I didn’t want to let go of my “length” but having see through ends was simply not the business. If you are considering another big chop, keep in mind that it may not be for the same reasons as you did the first big chop and that’s okay. Just be sure it’s the right decision for you.
In this video, Carmen of MyNaturalSistas explains what made her want to do Big Chop #6:
3. Protective style. If you lead a busy life where styling your hair often isn’t always the most convenient option or if you simply feel as though you want something different, try a protective style. Wigs, braids, twists, crochet braids, and even updos are all terrific options for protective styles and the best part is, you can wear the style you’ve always wanted without embarking on a permanent commitment.
4. Try something new. There’s certainly nothing wrong with coloring your hair, getting a side shave, an undercut, or cutting bangs or layers into your hair if that’s your preference. Just make sure that your decision is based on a true desire for this change, not just because it seems like a good alternative to your current hair situation. You don’t want to end up regretting an irreversible hair decision. Also, do your research: check out other ladies on Instagram and YouTube who have chosen the hairstyle you are itching to pursue. You can also try to compare hair textures to see how the style will behave on your own hair. If you feel any degree of hesitation then don’t rush the decision and make sure you find a stylist you trust or is highly recommended.
5. Big chop #2,3, 4? A second big chop is always an option, and it could be for different reasons: the fact that you enjoy short hair, miss having shorter length, want to get rid of damage, or otherwise. Keep in mind that a second big chop doesn’t necessarily mean cutting it all the way off. Two years ago, my hair started to become damaged after months of overusing heat. After a year of growing it out, I decided I couldn’t hold on to those scraggly ends any longer and I cut my hair back to shoulder length (it has now grown to arm pit length). I didn’t want to let go of my “length” but having see through ends was simply not the business. If you are considering another big chop, keep in mind that it may not be for the same reasons as you did the first big chop and that’s okay. Just be sure it’s the right decision for you.
In this video, Carmen of MyNaturalSistas explains what made her want to do Big Chop #6:
What do you do when your hair isn’t acting right? Let us know!
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4 Reasons to Not Give Up While Transitioning
by Tammy Goodson of CurlyChics
How many times have you heard “I want my hair to look like yours” only to get the side eye when you explain to them that you are relaxer free? Their face completely deflates and they are immediately defeated. As if it’s the world’s best kept secret. So many women think they simply can’t do it or they think the only way to go natural is to do the big chop. “I don’t want to cut all my hair off”. You don’t have to cut it all off, you tell them. You can transition. Easier said than done, I know. I was a two time transitioner and the first time after 8 months I was done. It was too much for me and I simply wasn’t ready. Round two was equally as rough, however, I stuck it out that time. So it got me to thinking, what kept me in the game? What was different this time? Why didn’t I give up? Once the process has begun, these are the things I kept in mind.
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1. Positive results are ahead.
When you can envision a positive outcome, it’s much easier to withstand tough times. Think about it. If you KNOW 100% that something awesome is in your future, doesn’t that motivate you?
2. Starting over.
You’ll have to start all over again, thus negating all the progress you’ve made thus far. Remember that everything is temporary and the struggles of transitioning will be a thing of the past. You won’t know that until you go through it though.
3. You’ll never get to see what all the hype is about.
It may sound silly but sometimes you just want to be “in on it”. You hear all of these proclamations about how it’s such a great thing to be natural, why not see for yourself?
4. It’s an obtainable goal.
Many have done it in the past and many more will do it in the future, so there’s no reason why you can’t be one of those people who accomplish it as well.
If you transitioned, how did you maintain your sanity?
Sharing hairstories and life experiences from a curl’s perspective. Find Tammy at her blog, Curlychics, on Twitter, and Facebook.
Sharing hairstories and life experiences from a curl’s perspective. Find Tammy at her blog, Curlychics, on Twitter, and Facebook.
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The Terrible Twos- Surviving an Awkward Hair Stage
The terrible twos are not just for toddlers. It is not just for those weary parents to battle and rear. The terrible twos can be something as odd as your natural hair coming into its own and you trying to adapt. As your hair grows it changes and as you adapt to one length and temperament, you can wake up one morning to a sea of confusion and doubt on just how to take care of the halo on your head. I know what that can be like. For an entire year my hair did not curl the way it curls now, and once I finally understood and became familiar with what was growing out of my scalp, my hair changed. Then, it changed again and then again, and I was left bewildered and unsure because I was dealing with something I had not encountered before…I was dealing with natural hair’s toddler years and it was not fun.
Natural hair is fun so please do not let me scare you. It is fun, exhilarating, and liberating all at the same time. Now, there are moments when your hair is working through something and has not made you aware. That would be year two as you begin to feel you have a take on what is actually going on. It is different for everyone but with naturals taking two clear and distinct paths there is a division. You have the BCs and the transitioners.
Big chop
With the emancipating nature of a big chop you feel like a new woman as soon as the relaxed ends disappear. Despite feeling released you are not exactly…free from the effects of chemicals. The line of demarcation may not be your issues but as your hair gets used to the lack of relaxers there may be some wonkiness going on in that first year of going natural.
Most naturals feel that once they hit year two most of the problems may begin dying down but that could be premature thinking. Your natural hair and you have only dealt with one another for one round of seasons and as that first one rolls around again there may need to be some adjustments made. The texture will be different from a year ago and that product that your hair seemed to responds so well with may be the evil villain this time around. Confusion? Yes, for the natural but as your hair is growing and thriving, it has different needs so checking labels and listening to your hair is crucial.
You are probably out of the TWA stage and then come styling issues as your go-to style may have already went! Checking out YouTube videos are avenues to finding new styles since your hair is at a new length and will do cooperate as it had while shorter.
Most naturals feel that once they hit year two most of the problems may begin dying down but that could be premature thinking. Your natural hair and you have only dealt with one another for one round of seasons and as that first one rolls around again there may need to be some adjustments made. The texture will be different from a year ago and that product that your hair seemed to responds so well with may be the evil villain this time around. Confusion? Yes, for the natural but as your hair is growing and thriving, it has different needs so checking labels and listening to your hair is crucial.
You are probably out of the TWA stage and then come styling issues as your go-to style may have already went! Checking out YouTube videos are avenues to finding new styles since your hair is at a new length and will do cooperate as it had while shorter.
Transitioners
Transitioners are all about hanging on with grace and flair. You not feeling the BC? No worries! Rock both textures like a #hairboss. There are some strange yet common issues that most transitioners face like the line of demarcation or the point where your two textures meet. It is extremely fragile and may even look different from your relaxed hair or natural hair.
As you become accustom to your hair’s ‘look’ the first year of naturalness may have you feeling stronger by the end of year one, but by year two your hair may be trying to sing a different tune. Is it time to take off the remaining relaxed ends? Probably so. I have heard of some transitioners going two years or longer but many tire of the process and cut BC within year one. Whenever you choose to ditch them becomes a time to learn your hair’s new look and needs.
Working with two textures is not the same as working with one and as you have learned how to care for your hair with both during the beginning of your journey, now your tresses may require different styles, routines, products and mindset. Year two brings less stress of breakage if you have found the right techniques, but it does bring questions on styling options. No longer masking one texture while working on another, you have one job to do and that is just figuring out what your hair needs. Many transitioners protective style when rocking both textures but once down to one, are you ready for dealing with your hair unprotected?
YouTube will become your best friend. Decide if it is time to BC or transition longer. Whether you BG or transition, year two can bring new challenges and concerns, but if you realize they are arriving, you can better prepare and combat any falls or frustrations. Change keeps life fresh and exciting and the adjustments during the natural hair journey should stay positive. So guess what? Embrace it, take each challenge as a course for learning about maintaining healthy hair and grasp the need for listening to your tresses. The terrible twos can be pretty sweet if you know what to look for and what to expect.
Transitioners are all about hanging on with grace and flair. You not feeling the BC? No worries! Rock both textures like a #hairboss. There are some strange yet common issues that most transitioners face like the line of demarcation or the point where your two textures meet. It is extremely fragile and may even look different from your relaxed hair or natural hair.
As you become accustom to your hair’s ‘look’ the first year of naturalness may have you feeling stronger by the end of year one, but by year two your hair may be trying to sing a different tune. Is it time to take off the remaining relaxed ends? Probably so. I have heard of some transitioners going two years or longer but many tire of the process and cut BC within year one. Whenever you choose to ditch them becomes a time to learn your hair’s new look and needs.
Working with two textures is not the same as working with one and as you have learned how to care for your hair with both during the beginning of your journey, now your tresses may require different styles, routines, products and mindset. Year two brings less stress of breakage if you have found the right techniques, but it does bring questions on styling options. No longer masking one texture while working on another, you have one job to do and that is just figuring out what your hair needs. Many transitioners protective style when rocking both textures but once down to one, are you ready for dealing with your hair unprotected?
YouTube will become your best friend. Decide if it is time to BC or transition longer. Whether you BG or transition, year two can bring new challenges and concerns, but if you realize they are arriving, you can better prepare and combat any falls or frustrations. Change keeps life fresh and exciting and the adjustments during the natural hair journey should stay positive. So guess what? Embrace it, take each challenge as a course for learning about maintaining healthy hair and grasp the need for listening to your tresses. The terrible twos can be pretty sweet if you know what to look for and what to expect.
What issues have you noticed during your terrible twos?
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The Reason Your Hair is STILL Dry (and why your moisturizer doesn't work)
glam idol, Alesha!
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Why is the hair cuticle so important?
Cuticle layers play a very important role in the health of your strands since it is the first barrier of protection against the inner cortex of the hair shaft. To further explain the importance of pH balance I contacted chemist and CEO of Obia Natural Hair Care Obia Ewah to lend professional and scientific knowledge about the importance of pH in hair care products.
According to Obia, pH is particularly important for people with naturally curly hair because it is a way to close the cuticle without the use of heavy oils and creams, using lighter products instead. Since the pattern of naturally curly hair makes maintaining a closed cuticle more difficult, using products that are properly pH balanced is an alternative way to close the cuticle besides other methods like temperature. Closed cuticles prevent damage and breakage, reduce dryness and frizz, and seal moisture. Since healthy human hair as a pH between 4.5 and 5.5, the goal is for your hair to maintain a pH around that level.
If you ever wondered why we shampoo first and condition next, the answer also lies within pH balance. Obia states that clarifying shampoos contain a higher pH, normally around an 8, opening the cuticle to infuse water and immensely cleanse in order to remove buildup, which is the purpose of a clarifying shampoo. However, if nothing is done to lower the pH afterwards, then the cuticle remains open, leading dry hair and potential damage. This is where conditioners come into play, as they are formulated with a lower pH to restore the moisture balance by closing the cuticle after shampooing. Furthermore, leave-in conditioners should have the lowest pH, which is why it is used as the finishing product in most regimens. Again, the goal is for the hair to main its natural pH level between 4.5 and 5.5. Aside from a clarifying shampoo, seek a moisturizing shampoo with a pH close to 4.5 or 5.5 as well.
Obia also notes how pH also plays a significant role in continuous co-washing. A healthy hair regimen should include a clarifying shampoo at least once a month.
How can I ensure my hair is properly pH balanced?
Using products that explicitly state they are pH balanced is the most effective way to ensure your hair is properly balanced; however, Obia also shares these effective options:
- Use pH-testing strips. While this option might seem like a lot of work some women prefer testing their products at home with plastic pH testing strips, saving time and money on purchasing products. You might as well tests your products with pH strips before using them, so you can return them if you want to.
- Use an entire hair care collection. Using products from the same hair care line has more benefits than just a bundle deal sale. If formulated correctly, the hair care line should be created from high to low in pH based on the order of how the products are used for optimal hair care. Ever wondered why a certain product flakes when mixed with other brands? Obia also warns of mixing products from different lines because they might not be formulated to work together. An adverse reaction, like flaking, could occur when mixing a leave-in conditioner from one line with a twisting butter from another line.
- Contact the company directly. If the pH is not explicitly listed on the product label, contact the company directly through email to ask if the products are pH balanced or to inquire about the pH level of a specific product within a collection.
- Pay attention to how your hair feels. More than usual tangles and single stranded knots is a first sign of products that are not pH balanced. If your cuticles remain open, it has greater potential for tangles versus hair with smooth closed cuticles.
Are you a stickler about pH balance? How has this changed your use of products?
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Birth #DayDranking with @stillnupey
#32Tho
#32Tho
This makes my 14th born day spent with Dr. Daddy and we were most certainly on our #WorstBehavior. Gearing up for next week... you should probably tune in.
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You're Not Crazy, You're Introverted.
by GG of AllTheManyLayers
I've always been shy and self-conscious, afraid of embarrassing myself. I cannot remember a time when I didn't feel this way.
I wanted to be perfect. I wanted to look perfect, fit in with everyone and never miss a beat. Say-all-the-right-things perfect. Always-get-the-joke perfect. I never lived up to these goals, but in my head these were the things to strive for.
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But I was shy. I knew that I couldn't please everyone, so I felt safest when I stayed under the radar. I was sensitive and I thought that put me at a disadvantage. I thought acceptance would give me confidence and criticism would kill me -- death by sticks and stones, of course -- because I was too delicate to tolerate a harsh word.
By the time I got to high school, I was an avid people-watcher. I studied before I befriended, avoiding aggressive, confrontational people. I became more outgoing over time, fueled by the attention of my carefully selected friends (true friends that I still have to this day). We weren't the most popular or the least cool; we were safely in the middle and generally liked. At the time, I viewed this as success. No one expected too much or too little from me.
This middle of the road posture carried me through high school, then into adulthood where it started to feel like a problem. I was afraid to rock the boat; afraid to say how I really felt about things if I suspected that someone would disagree. I hated confrontation. I hated debate. I didn't stick up for myself because I wasn't sure about anything, and I didn't want to make myself look stupid. I partied a lot and listened to other people more than myself.
I was quiet. I liked being quiet. But I also felt limited by it because loud people seemed to always get more of what they wanted.
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I didn't realize it at the time, but there is a difference between choosing to be quiet and being afraid to speak. Between self-preservation and self-denial. Between being introverted and being anti-social. Between being loud and being heard.
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Does any of this hit home for you?
Awhile back, I wrote a book of essays called Wallflower that walks through my clumsy journey from a shy kid to an emotionally suppressed adult who finally found freedom in embracing her quiet voice. Before my breakthrough, I'd been trying to be someone I wasn't. The effects of silencing my authentic self and trying to live up to the expectations of other people took a toll on me and everything I'd been ignoring was bubbling up.
This is what happens when you are out of alignment with your spirit and you've allowed outside demands to outweigh and overshadow what really matters to you.
I'd filled my life up with so much noise that I couldn't hear myself. I'd abandoned everything that made me feel creative and special. I was working tirelessly to achieve goals that meant nothing to me. And through it all, I was beating myself up for not being more vocal, more aggressive and more competitive. I thought the answer to my problems was to try harder to be like everyone else, or at least how they seemed to be.
Then one day, I discovered that I'm an introvert.
I began to understand why I was so exhausted by people's energy and needed to recharge for a long time after socializing and...
...that I wasn't alone in dreading confrontation and having to speak up without time to process my thoughts.
...how I could go LONG periods of time without speaking to my loved ones (and that I wasn't a bad person because of it.)
...why I instinctively stand back in social environments to see if I want to play or stay on the outskirts looking in.
...why I get cranky, impatient and eventually sad and even depressed when I don't get enough time alone.
...why I'm so preoccupied with and inspired by my inner world, to the point that sometimes I have to literally rip myself away from it in order to function and be present in the outside world.
Instead of fighting against my nature, I started thinking about how to nurture it and express it to the world in unique ways.
I stopped calling myself crazy and I stopped apologizing for needing time to be alone with my thoughts. With an enlightened view of myself, I learned how to set boundaries without feeling uncertain or selfish. I learned how to be myself and cultivate a life of my own choosing. A life that is loud with purpose and full of meaning, now that I know how to use my quiet powers and express myself confidently in my own way.
**If this resonates with you, join GG's Quiet Powers course today!**
Are you an introvert? Share your story below!
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Making Your Own Natural Hair Butter
While most of us come nowhere close to being kitchen mixtresses, almost all of us have at least tried our hand at whipping up some of our own hair products — namely whipped butters. They are so easy to make, and for the curly on a budget or one who does not have easy access to some of the well known natural brands out there, this is a great alternative. Making your own butter is so easy almost any curly can do it, so here’s an easy to follow guide to get you started.
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Hair Butter Recipe
Begin with some butter of your choice, like shea, cocoa or mango, and your favorite hair oil. However, be careful where you purchase your butters and oils as you may not be getting the purest thing. Since it's an all natural butter we want, be especially weary of commercial oils that are really laden with silicone and mineral oil with only a few drops of the actual oil. Also keep in mind what you want to use your butter for. If you want to create a hair butter, then mixing in heavy oils with an already heavy butter like shea may leave your strands weighed down and oily. Likewise, if you are trying to create a body butter, using light oils may not be heavy enough to keep your skin moisturized, especially in the winter months. Before even mixing, plan out what proportions of oil to butter you want to use keeping in mind that less liquid oil will make a firmer thicker butter and more oil will keep it fluffy and light.
- When heating your butters and oils, never place them directly into the pan as it may cause them to boil and burn. Instead, place about a cup and a half of water in a small pan and place a glass bowl over it then place your ingredients in the glass bowl. This is called a double boiler and is a much gentler way of heating up your oils and melting your butter.
- After the butter has melted, turn off your burner and remove the bowl from on top of the pan. Stir the mixture to ensure that all of the oils and butters are thoroughly combined and allow it to cool for a while. Don’t wait too long, however, since you do not want it to begin to harden before you start to whip it. Now is the time to add your essential and fragrance oils. Remember, you only need a few drops as these are concentrated oils.
- Once your ingredients are melted, mix until it’s nice and fluffy. It is much easier and faster to use a stand or electric hand mixer but if you don’t have one then a whisk will work just as well and tone your arms nicely. In order to make your butter nice and fluffy you will have to leave the mixer on or whisk continuously until it is no longer in the liquid form. If for some reason you stop the mixer or stop hand whisking for too long it could harden and not create the whipped mousse-like consistency that you want. Once your butter is whipped transfer it to a clean container with an air tight lid and store it in a cool dry place.
- Lastly, remember that oil and water do not mix. We may be tempted to add water based ingredients like aloe vera gel to our mixture, but the ingredients will not mix and you will be left with the butter at the bottom and liquid floating on top. In order for the liquids and oils to mix, emulsifiers must be used and unless you are a serious kitchen mixtress who has done her homework, you shouldn’t even attempt it. Also, adding any water based ingredient to your mix will drastically shorten its shelf life so let’s stick with the butters and oils.
Share your favorite butter recipes below!
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Is Your Hair Fine, Medium or Coarse? And Why It Matters.
Curl pattern gets all the hype even though knowing your porosity is more helpful in building a regimen. With length being the next biggest obsession, most people never realize the importance of hair width. Width is an object’s distance from side to side with hair width being no different. Hair width refers to the actual thickness of the strands of hair and not the volume of hairs on your head. Knowing your hair’s width is just as important as knowing the curl pattern, because the more you know about your hair the better you can maintain its health and length. Selecting products and styling your hair require knowledge of what your hair needs and rejects.
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Types of hair width
Coarse
These strands have the widest and largest circumferences and this makes them the strongest of all hair textures.
Medium/Normal
As as the name suggests, this is the middle of the road for thickness of hair strands; neither too small nor too big. Medium texture is somewhat resistant to damage while being strong and elastic.
Fine
The circumference is extremely small and narrow, making it delicate and easy to damage.
Why it makes a difference
It affects how products perform...
Most product formulators are not taking into account your hair’s width when they formulate and make product claims. Your hair’s width will give your hair a unique feel after any product is applied, and that can be attributed to the health of your hair and the ingredients in the product. Do not expect the product maker or the retailer to give you all the answers on how it will affect your hair’s particular width. Trial and error will guide you on many occasions.
Finer strands tend to respond better to milks and leave-in conditioners while coarse strands love thick butters and creams. All of those products can differ in thickness so it will depend on the individual product.
It is often mistaken...
Not knowing your hair’s width can make for frustrating styling sessions and wasteful purchases. Oftentimes curlies confuse width with density when describing their hair. You may have dense hair with fine strands. A lot of strands does not mean coarse hair and thin hair does not mean fine hair. Once you have figured out the width of your strands, you can make better choices in styling, products, and how to foster length retention.
It determines your hair damage...
Stronger hair (healthy, coarse hair) can be manipulated more than weaker or more fragile hair (healthy, fine hair), so it goes without saying that if you have fine strands then tightly braided styles and constant manipulation can be damaging. Even though we all need to give our hair a rest between sew-ins, braids, chemical treatments, and heat applications, if you have fine hair then being more cautious toward those applications is crucial for less damage and length retention.
What products to use with your hair’s width
This is not the Holy Grail of decision-making, because all of our curls are unique, we live in different geographical locations, are different ages, and have dissimilar genetics. Despite those differences, we can still find commonalities among hair width types that may assist you in product selections and styling.
Fine(grab a single hair and roll it back and forth between your thumb and forefinger-- if you can barely feel it, you probably have fine hair. Now take a look at it-- if you need to hold it up to the light to see it good, you probably have fine hair)
You need to steer clear of heavier products, as they will weigh down your fine strands. Lightly layer products without being heavy-handed and make sure to deep condition after every wash, since your delicate strands need to be rebuilt after daily and weekly manipulation. Protein treatments can be used monthly or every few months to help rebuild the hair, especially if using heat or chemical treatments. Heavy butters may be too heavy for your strands (unless in the winter months), so try light butters like mango butter or coffee bean butter or use the lighter natural oils like grapeseed and almond oil.
Medium
Layering products is not an issue as your strands can withstand the weight better than those with fine strands. Deep conditioning should be applied after every wash (and if not then regularly) along with an occasional protein treatment to rebuild the hair shaft, especially if using chemicals and heat applications. You can use the heavier butters and oils, but in moderation.
Coarse(these hairs are substantial-- easy to feel and see like beard hair or even pubes! #TMI)
Your hair is not easily weighed down, but you need products that will allow you to retain moisture to stave off dryness. This hair is stronger but less elastic than medium width hair, so you can manipulate it more but of course in moderation, as it is not invincible to breakage. Never take its strength for granted and know that coarse hair can be prone to dryness, which can then lead to breakage.
Where do you fall?
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Goats Milk: Hair Benefits and a Conditioning Mask Recipe
by Shelli of Hairscapades
About a year ago, my girl Dottie of Threadmill (you know, the one who makes satin-lined, crocheted hats for us natural girls … and it IS that time of year) messages me on Facebook:
I have had a hair epiphany! Do you want to hear about it? I’ve been cowashing lately, and added one moisturizing ingredient to it, and WOWEE, my hair is amazing! It was an experiment that actually worked. My hair is the “heat”! I’ll be doing this at least twice a week! (I’m so excited about my new hair discovery… not sure if it’s an approved thing for natural hair…. but it is surely the thing for mine!!!!)
Maybe someone else thought of it before me, but for me, it’s my own discovery…. And if it is truly a new thing, I want you to have it! (if it’s good for you)
Goats milk lotion… made by an etsy friend. I added 1 part of my favorite no-sulfate conditioner with 1 part of the goats milk lotion, and about 4 parts water, shake it up! Added liberally, washed through my hair, and seriously Shelli, this is the best my hair has EVER looked without styling agents, or heat agents!
My hair is soft, yet has definition, and the curls aren’t frizzy but, they’re refined.I’m literally pingy with my discovery!Needless to say, I was intrigued. So, started to do a little research! Check out some of what I discovered:
via Black Hair 101
Goat Milk Hair Benefits:Read On!>>>
- Make hair soft and manageable.
- Good for dry scalp and especially for dandruff conditions.
- Softens hair and smoothes out nicks or scratches across the hair strand.
- Makes scalp healthier and less prone to dryness.
Goat milk can be added to shampoos, conditioners or used with other nutritious ingredients as a deep conditioner or with tea as a rinse or added to your shea, mango or cocoa butter preparations for hair and skin.
- When added to other moisture rich ingredients can make hair moisturized and pliable and extremely healthy.
Now, here is where it gets really interesting. Dottie’s friend had to take a hiatus from making her goat’s milk conditioner, so I wasn’t able to get my hands on any. But, in a serendipitous turn of events, a friend of mine at work tells me that her daughter, who is a farmer, just bought nursing goats and she would give me some milk once the baby goats were weaned. Fast forward to a year later (lol) and I finally got 3 freezer bags full of some authentic, straight-off-the-farm, unadulterated goat’s milk! (But, in the interim, I had started using Curl Prep Sweet Buttah. L. O. V. E. Guess what the fourth ingredient is? Yeah. Goat milk.)
So, back in late September or thereabouts, the experimenting commenced. After the first use, I didn’t notice anything particularly amazing. But, on the following wash day, I noticed less shedding and breakage. The same thing occurred after the second use … and the third. By the fourth use, my hair seemed a bit shinier and definitely stronger, with drastically decreased shedding (or breakage as the case may have been).
And now, we get to why it has taken me so long to tell you about the awesome results I have been getting from goat milk conditioner. You see … this stuff is really watery. And kinda sticky. So, my first three treatments with it were NOT cute, though they were effective.
Experiment #1: Goat’s Milk solo – drippy, somewhat sticky, mess.
Experiment #2: Goat’s Milk mixed with full fat yogurt – thicker, but still a bit drippy AND it left white, flaky residue, even after two rinses.
Experiment #3: Goat’s Milk mixed with Sally’s GVP Matrix Biolage Conditioning Balm and honey – improved consistency, no residue, but difficult to mix and still not quite right.
So, finally, I did a little research about cosmetic thickening agents and decided to purchase some guar gum from Amazon. I used it to make a goat’s milk conditioning mask this past weekend and it was LOVER-LY!! After using the treatment as my deep conditioner, I did my new go-to style, the Aloe Vera Gel Braid n’ Twist n’ Curl (BnTnC – I think that I just coined a new natural hair acronym!! LOL!) and had the most AMAZE-A-BALLS results ever on take down the following afternoon!
(This was in prep for my wedding day hairstyle trial!! It turned out great!)
So, here’s my easy, peasy, recipe:
DIY GOAT MILK & HONEY CONDITIONING HAIR MASK
Ingredients:
-1/4 c. goat’s milk (2 ice cubes thawed*)
-1 tbsp honey
-1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil (EVOO)
-1 tsp Vatika Oil (Virgin Coconut Oil can also be used)
-1/4 tsp guar gum
*TIP: Freeze milk into ice cubes to extend shelf-life and create convenient, “serving size” amounts that can be thawed quickly when ready to use.
(Note: If you don’t have your own personal “farm fresh” supplier , you can use store bought goat’s milk, including the powdered kind!)
Directions:
- Mix together goat’s milk, honey, EVOO, and Vatika Oil (I used a spoon, but a mixer or whisk could also be used).
- Slowly stir in guar gum.
- Allow mixture to “hydrate” for 15-30 minutes (this is when it thickens).
- Pour conditioner into an applicator bottle (optional).
- Go for yours!!
You can see the conditioner like consistency given by the guar gum.
I applied the goat’s milk mask after washing, conditioning, and detangling my hair. I left it on for about an hour with my thermal heat turban, cooled and sealed, and then damp styled. The next day…
So yeah … goat’s milk is, like, my newest holy grail.
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Have you ever used goat’s milk as a hair treatment? How do/did you use it? What benefits, if any, did you see from using it?
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SHOW AND TELL- FIERCE FRIDAY!
Hola Chicas!
Fierce Friday is a way to celebrate our natural hair, displaying our dopest styles and best hair days... for inspiration and motivation. Wanna be featured? All you have to do is upload your favorite pics to Instagram with the tags #FierceFriday and #CurlyNikki. Be sure to share a brief description of the style, where you were headed, why you felt amazing, etc.!
Brunch. Beauty. Let's go!! @takeya_monique
Might as well take a picture before I head out @iamkayfitz
My #babyZara #naturalhairdoescare #trialsntresses @eslyetv
@frizzfreecurls new product CURL Gel-Les'C (pronounced jealousy) had my curls poppin last week @_cebelamour_
This blow out/heat free wand curls tutorial is going up today...at least that's my intention #heatfreehair #curlsunderstood #curlynikki #naturalhair @kingteeuhh
Just got done shopping. Wash and go style. Three days old. #curlynikki #fiercefriday only used #sheamoisture products!! @jessaccount22
#taperedafrocut #taperednaturalhair #curlkit #teamnaturalhair #CurlyNikki @ktsdivamom
Don't y'all hate those days when you're feeling yourself, but your camera just isn't working with you? @curiouscannibal
#FierceFriday finally named my fro! I chose Robyn, it fits just right to me. So happy 😊 @Brigiteeeee
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